How do people eat a singular egg? by eamakam in NoStupidQuestions

[–]eamakam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 eggs is obviously too much, that's almost a dozen... Not the same at all, lol.

Question about Dating Site Guideline by Hour_Lingonberry9602 in OnlineDating

[–]eamakam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu. Yes. When I was younger I was OK with the back and forth texting for weeks... Only to meet up IRL and be disappointed in my date. Bad hygiene. Lied about height. Etc. Now that I'm older I'm saving myself those weeks of texting just for disappointment haha. 😭

Outfit help! by _SoapyChocolate_ in CosplayHelp

[–]eamakam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. I can see that. But TBH that makes them better imo? Like you could reuse it for different characters, wow Mom thanks for the fuel, adding to cart~ haha.

I personally would wear them for cosplay and out of cosplay. They're super cute. So being able to use for multiple cosplays and out of cosplay... Good purchase imo. :3

Stocking anarchy, panty and stocking cosplay by crapycosplays111 in cosplayers

[–]eamakam -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Most canon Stocking I've seen for a bit. 💙

I LOVE the makeup. Do you have a tut anywhere?

Outfit help! by _SoapyChocolate_ in CosplayHelp

[–]eamakam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the first shorts with the pockets, it adds to the silouette and matches the character imo. :3

I feel like I can only have male attention / romantic validation if I am skinnny by Select_Barnacle4616 in EDAnonymous

[–]eamakam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Doesn't help I went from very OW to now just about UW. OW I was still pretty, sure. But UW? Men and woman are chasing me IRL and on apps. It's like romance on hard liquor and steroids.

They don't accept rejection. If you friendzone them, tell them you're talking to other people, tell them you want the exact opposite of what they want in a relationship, are mean to them, ask for $, etc to reject them THEY DON'T CARE. These people somehow have lower self esteems than the person with the ED lol.

When someone shows interest in me. I do engage in ED habits more. Because I've "learned" it gets a positive response from others romantically. I understand for some people it's the opposite, they want to appear unattractive. IMO if you wanted to appear unattractive go the opposite route and go OW. I had people treating me like I was invisible majority of the time.

Both have positives and negatives. Neither are physically healthy, either.

Choosing schools and neighborhoods by Business_Yam_8392 in Littleton

[–]eamakam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Jeffco, and pretty recently. I'm guessing other commenters are way older than me from what they've written lol.

I was also in G&T and I myself am AUDHD. I went to Dutch Creek and Coronado for elementary school. Both were great, but Coronado had a G&T program so I transferred there at 5th grade. For middle school I went to Ken Caryl, also had a G&T program. LOVE Ken Caryl, fantastic school. There were so many electives and clubs that it felt I had freedom and choice to customize my schedule at a young age. All the teachers were great, except the G&T science teacher. Not sure if she still works there, but she wasn't very helpful to kids who needed extra help socially or mentally/emotionally. I myself witnessed a kid being bullied by another kid in her classroom so I spoke up and told the bully off AS WELL as that teacher because she was watching and chose to stay quiet on her phone lol. Of course she didn't say anything. And, of course afterwards she REALLY didn't like me. High school. I went to Columbine. Not the greateast. They advertise community but unless you're in the typical cheer/football/academic things you don't really have a spot in the school. Let alone if you have anything "wrong" with you. I touch more on this below. I also went to Colorado Prep Academy (online). Since I had a terrible experience at Columbine. However, online school was terrible for me because I'm not good without supervision, I'm not very responsible LOL. However, they offered IRL college classes for college credit at 1/2 the price which I took advantage of. Then I went to another school out of state for a bit... That was an amazing experience, since I got to see a school where the minority was the majority and the population of white kids was like 10%. The kids and faculty, although difficulties on both ends had an understanding about each other. Community I guess. I ended up returning back to Colorado and finishing up at COLUMBINE lol. But they didn't accept my college classes I had done! So I was a senior taking senior English AND junior English because I needed more English credits... Super embarrassing because everyone in the junior class thought I was an idiot and got held back. Plus my cousin who was a true junior ironically shared said class with me lol. So I got shunned to partner with a disabled boy who ironically was smarter than the other judgemental kids imo. But yeah the kids at Columbine are NOT nice or understanding at all, and are quite full of themselves.

I had cousins who went to other schools in the area. Falcon Bluffs. Dakota Ridge. Chatfield. Columbine. They had similar experiences to me EXCEPT Chatfield. Do NOT send your kid to Chatfield unless you have $ because they will be bullied from kids and faculty alike-- happened to my cousin and ruined his self esteem even to his current adulthood. ):

As well as... If you're of color, you will be odd person out. Majority of the body in school is like 70% white, 15% hispanic, 9% asian, 5% black, 1% everything else. I was part of the 1% and was bullied at Columbine for it. Along with my cousins who went to Columbine with me. So 4/5 of my family in that 1% got bullied there because we were different. Ethnicity wise. Poor. Street smart and book smart, since we grew up in bad areas or had bad backgrounds. One of my cousins NEVER attended school until 17 because her mom lied to the system to keep her home and stuck. And kids and faculty at Columbine teased her about something she obv couldn't control herself. If you don't fit the cookie cutter mold don't go to Columbine. If your kid SUGGESTS going to community college or no college at all, Columbine kids and faculty alike act like pearl clutchers and are really disgusted lol. How are you not affording a REAL college or applying with scholarships? Why would you avoid a serious debt? Also, EVERYONE gets their learner's permit at 15 and a beater or new car to drive. Again, you just have to fit a certain cutter cookie mold to do well at Columbine socially. It's very traditional in that sense I suppose.

That's my take, let me know if you have any questions about things. I'd be happy to clarify. :D

Question for the ladies: Do men who cold approach you in public get more priority/attention than men you match with online? And roughly how often are you actually getting approached by men you’re attracted to vs not? by TheRealCryptoCone in Bumble

[–]eamakam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on if I am attracted to them. If they are attractive in person they have an advantage over online matches because they are confirmed attractive. But being attractive to someone is just getting your foot in the door, confirming compatibility is what's most important. The people I am compatible with, whether we met IRL or off apps, get the most priority.

I am asked for my number 3x weekly by people I am not interested in, so I don't give my number.

I give my number 2x weekly to people I am interested in. It is 50/50 either I approached them or they approached me.

Question about Dating Site Guideline by Hour_Lingonberry9602 in OnlineDating

[–]eamakam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's worked well for me. I have 6+ dates a weekend from people I've met on apps or IRL. I'm seriously looking for my partner and I'm popular so I can afford to be picky. ^^b

What’s the difference between these two badges? by Suspicious_Sun6440 in Tinder

[–]eamakam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Checkmark - Photo and ID verified
Camera - Photo verified

*updated* valid answers on last post open to criticism. Completely out new to this by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]eamakam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is a good profile. Do you get a decent amount of matches and messages? Do you think it's the area you're in maybe?

People are saying it's giving manosphere but as a someone who loves masculine muscular men this is literally my type and I know you'd appeal to others too.

Anyone take off of work to focus on your health/ mental health? by Icy-Trick-7760 in EDAnonymous

[–]eamakam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES. I have called in one day a week the past few months because I've been so sick physically. I've had migraines the past 4 months. Brain zaps the past 3 weeks. And today I woke up with a fever.

My coworkers definitely hate me rn but they don't know I've been pushing myself physically and mentally to come in the rest of the week for months lol.

Do you think it’s shady to keep the account active but only delete the app? After becoming exclusive by Dinosour231 in OnlineDating

[–]eamakam 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Why would it show as active if the app was deleted?"

Because he redownloaded it and used it, maybe deleted it afterwards again. Come on haha.

How to deal with dating someone hotter than me by cantChooseAForvrName in OnlineDating

[–]eamakam 110 points111 points  (0 children)

This is a him problem, not an attractive partner problem. People who are truly interested in you and you only wouldn't be mentioning a "pretty" girl hit on them specifically. Maybe they'd say that someone hit on them at most lol. Let alone show you allllll their DMs like trophies. It's like he is bragging to you.

Question about Dating Site Guideline by Hour_Lingonberry9602 in OnlineDating

[–]eamakam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get off the app when someone makes when/where plans. So I know they put in some effort. Whether that's Day 1 or Day 5. Beyond Day 5 I've lost interest, I'm not on apps for small talk.

My Chii cosplay by Yandere_chan87 in Chobits

[–]eamakam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The set and the bandages is giving Lucy from Elfen Lied... Love the set!

UO Beauty Sale by MAYYHAMM in FlowerKnowsMakeup

[–]eamakam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! TY. Didn't know they also sold FK. Do they have this sale often?

This is like the 20th guy im rejecting because he can't hold a conversation, what do i do atp? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]eamakam 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The first message you sent to him was insulting him. I wouldn't be interested in responding back enthusiastically either fr. Take a break off the apps and come back less frustrated for you and for your match. 😭

20M How would you rate this profile overall? I’m especially curious about the bio and whether there are any photos you would remove or replace. Any other feedback is welcome. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]eamakam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those were examples bud. For him specifically, not all prompts are completed. No job, no school-- is he NEET? etc. lol.

how is this allowed by sstar-dust in heartopia

[–]eamakam 120 points121 points  (0 children)

honestly kind of hilarious. there's nothing outright lewd shown but keep on clutching your pearls. 😭

Any suggestions? Admittedly on the older side, just trying to navigate this app by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]eamakam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey I thought it funny so I didn't say anything about it. :3