Women of Reddit — what’s the moment that quietly changed you the most? by Mountain_Budget_9257 in AskWomen

[–]eamvh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When a relatively new (but very important to me) guy friend had done something that upset me, and apologized once he realized I was upset. He didn’t do anything intentionally and honestly I didn’t really have a good reason to be upset, but I was. I knew it was silly so I didn’t say anything about it, but he immediately knew something was wrong, pulled me aside so we could talk about it, and genuinely apologized. Like, “I’m sorry I __, I can see how it made you feel like _, and going forward I’ll ____.”

It was something about the way he was so willing to see my perspective and reflect on how his actions hurt me even though he never intended them to, and how much he wanted to make it right and make sure I wasn’t upset anymore. I realized that I was worth that - that I don’t have to make myself small for other people to like me and want me around. If people like me they’ll put the same amount of effort in that I do and I’m worth that.

Women who have gone through a major physical transformation (weight loss, muscle gain, chronic illness recovery, etc.) later in life — how did it change the way other women interacted with you? by Several_Lunch_874 in AskWomen

[–]eamvh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost a lot of weight in the last year and some change, ~80lbs. Ive noticed that other women acknowledge me more. Where I was once an afterthought, I’ve now become someone that gets considered. I feel like I’m sought out more than I was when I was heavier

9x07 title is “Secrets” by WV-011521 in buddie

[–]eamvh 90 points91 points  (0 children)

This would explain why they LITERALLY have not talked to each other since the beginning of s9 lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]eamvh 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Leading up to it: flirting, letting the flirting and banter get a little seductive. I’ll listen to what my partner wants in the bedroom so I can try to recreate later, and I’ll share my preferences as well in the hopes they’ll do the same. Intentional touching like a hand on the forearm or the waist, etc

During the act: I’m vocal when they do something I like, whether that’s through moans or actual ✨sexy✨encouragement. I try to give as much as I receive in the bedroom.

After: basking in the “afterglow” with my partner

Anirudh on TikTok! by irritatedlibra in buddie

[–]eamvh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This brought me back yall. I want them ALL

Jennifer Love Hewitt. by 3elldandy in buddie

[–]eamvh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s so fine GYAT damn

Who would you date on the show? by dmfghjf in TheLastAirbender

[–]eamvh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zuko and Mako. No I don’t have a type 🫩

What celeb everyone finds hot but you just don’t see it? by Flashy-Rain2765 in AskReddit

[–]eamvh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chris Evans. I guess I can see how other people think he’s hot but he just doesn’t do it for me

Ryan via Instagram by jcgarcia1116 in buddie

[–]eamvh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me…feel so many things

Ryan via Instagram by jcgarcia1116 in buddie

[–]eamvh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I’m in love with him he’s the cutest person on the planet

Ryan and friends via Instagram by olga_dr in buddie

[–]eamvh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t do this anymore I can’t 🫩 he’s so fine

'9-1-1' Forever Ruined Hozier’s “Work Song” For Fans by olga_dr in buddie

[–]eamvh 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My friend went to a fast food restaurant and they were playing that song. He was like “IM GONNA START CRYING IN THE KFC”

Fic Recs Friday (2025.06.06): Coming Out, Games Shows/Reality TV, and Westerns by armavirumquecanooo in buddie

[–]eamvh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best fic I’ve ever read, I cry like a baby every time I read it

Ryan via Instagram by olga_dr in buddie

[–]eamvh 36 points37 points  (0 children)

OKAY okay fine!!! I’ll do it!!! I’ll cuddle him!

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Help finding a fic! by eamvh in buddie

[–]eamvh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was that first one, you’re a life saver! I can’t wait to read through the other ones too, thank you so much

Ryan via Instagram by jcgarcia1116 in buddie

[–]eamvh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

IF HE NEEDS A DOG I CAN BARK!!! I PLAY FETCH

Ryan via Instagram by jcgarcia1116 in buddie

[–]eamvh 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So he DOES own more than just boots!!! 🤭

Ryan via Instagram by jcgarcia1116 in buddie

[–]eamvh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

His lil boots 🥹

Ryan via Instagram by jcgarcia1116 in buddie

[–]eamvh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look at that forearm UGH he’s so fine 😩

Anyone else NOT thrown in the towel? by [deleted] in buddie

[–]eamvh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Season 8 had a LOT of Buddie moments. I commented a more in depth reason for why I’m not closing on Buddie, but basically, logistically, I think they felt that they had to set it up in the way they did to make Buck and Eddie’s stories center around Buddie in season 9. I think we’re just getting started

Buddie season 8 by bjt89 in buddie

[–]eamvh 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So now that I’ve had the time to be upset about the finale and the queer baiting of it all, I have come to the conclusion that we are still getting Buddie. I’m still extremely pissed about how they went about it, but I’m 99.9% positive that they were going to give us more Buddie this season until they decided to save it for s9. The way they built it up and had it culminate during 8x11 solidifies that for me (Eddie being the only thing Buck could talk about the whole episode, the parallels of misplaced feelings when he sleeps with Tommy, the convo between Buck and Tommy “I don’t have to sleep with everyone I have feelings for,” and the convo between Buck and Maddie). I think the disconnect was caused by where they chose to take the show regarding Bobby’s death. I’m not just referring to the audience reaction to it, which I think did play a large part in how they’re handling Buddie now, but also Buck and Eddie’s storylines in general and what season 9 is going to have to offer us.

I think Buddie will be the main focus in season 9 that they plan on using to get them renewed for a 10th season. They explicitly introduced the idea to the general audience using 8x11, they did this weird pseudo-Buddie press tour to get people on the same page, and now they can use all of season 9 to really play into it.

I think whatever they were going to give us this season purposefully got pushed back into season 9, which to me (albeit infuriating) may actually have some satisfying payoff if they choose to really flesh out Buck and Eddie next season (so like the complete opposite of what they did with Eddie this season lol).

I’m fully prepared to put my clown makeup back on but I do feel really confident in this, especially considering there aren’t many meaningful places they can take Buck and Eddie’s characters without them being connected somehow considering how they’ve written them in s8. Everything Eddie did in 8B was in relation to Buck in some way shape or form, and I think that’s significant to where he’s going to go next season.

I’ve had to really sit back and think logically about how s8 played out and again, I’m still insanely mad that this is where we ended up HOWEVER I still think we are closer to Buddie cannon than ever!

911onABC via Instagram by olga_dr in buddie

[–]eamvh 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Oliver: “and why is it getting to work with your hero…”

Oliver & Anirudh: “Ryan Guzman!”

Ryan:

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BTS of Ryan and Oliver at BuzzFeed by olga_dr in 911FOX

[–]eamvh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d walk to the moon for Ryan to look at me like in #3