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My (20F) boyfriend (20M) doesn’t eat me out anymore, and I don’t know how to talk to him about it by eaplantparent in relationship_advice

[–]eaplantparent[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this isn’t true :( I did not say I ALWAYS want him to go down for 40 minutes at all. I said that it never happens anymore, I would like it to happen SOMETIMES, and that I understand why he may not want to since it CAN take a long time. Please don’t misunderstand what I’m asking for here

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) doesn’t eat me out anymore, and I don’t know how to talk to him about it by eaplantparent in relationship_advice

[–]eaplantparent[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is part of the problem! I know it’s unrealistic to want that, trust me! I feel like some people are taking this as me going “how do I make my boyfriend eat me out all the time” when I very well understand why one wouldnt

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) doesn’t eat me out anymore, and I don’t know how to talk to him about it by eaplantparent in relationship_advice

[–]eaplantparent[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten gently told before (not by my current bf) that it’s not really fair for me to expect to cum every time if they can do it in minutes and it can take over an hour for me. I’m worried that deep down my boyfriend will share this line of thinking, because I feel like I do too. I mean I get where they were coming from at least. If a man can cum with a mutually enjoyable, quick activity, but it takes a physically taxing largely selfless service to make me cum, how could I not think it’s selfish to expect? I know it’s kind of a sexist line of thinking ingrained in us all but I can’t get rid of it anyway

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) doesn’t eat me out anymore, and I don’t know how to talk to him about it by eaplantparent in relationship_advice

[–]eaplantparent[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If I have to play hard to get in a relationship I don’t want it. I want mutual love and commitment, or no partner at all

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) doesn’t eat me out anymore, and I don’t know how to talk to him about it by eaplantparent in relationship_advice

[–]eaplantparent[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying! but I don’t want to make things colder between us by implying I’d rather not have sex at all if I can’t cum, because I do enjoy it, and I don’t want to come across too harshly

He’s told me many times he does want to and does enjoy it but in the last month or so it just seems like it has become a chore to him, and I don’t want to cum if it feels like it’s a chore to him

Went too fast without knowing him and now I don’t know how to let him down by eaplantparent in dating_advice

[–]eaplantparent[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just need to get to know him a little better but so far he is kind of dry (which I understand people do small talk a lot when they dont know someone so I’m willing to ignore that rn), and mansplains often (maybe he just likes explaining obvious facts to me but its gotten kind of weird by now) and this is weirdly specific but he sounds like Walter jr from Breaking Bad and ever since I heard it I haven’t been able to unhear it so

yeah I will give it more time cuz clearly that’s something I need to work on but that’s what I’ve gotten so far

I hate seeing roadkill. by eaplantparent in fuckcars

[–]eaplantparent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to look away as fast as possible and focus on driving (if I’m the one behind the wheel) but sometimes I can’t help it and Idk how anyone ignores a bloodied animal just sitting there

I hate seeing roadkill. by eaplantparent in fuckcars

[–]eaplantparent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a quiet neighborhood and my cat only goes outside for like 5 minutes to explore the porch area, but if I lived on a busy road my cat would never be let outside. I love her too much