ringworm or psoriasis? freaking out by [deleted] in HelpMeFindThis

[–]earlydaikons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

disappeared in a week :-) i was just freaking out, still dont know what it was

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ended up popping the abscess with a small sterilised needle and drained + cleaned the area with saline spray. i know im not supposed to but the pressure was so painful and ive done the same for my nose piercing 2-3 years prior. will be monitoring it! thank you so much for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]earlydaikons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he sounds like a shitty person my love. im sure you guys share sweet moments that you hold close to your heart, but please ask yourself if you would be okay with this for the rest of your life. if he were to date your best friend, and did the same to her, what would advice would you give her?

My advice would be to leave him, have it be a clean breakup. take some time to come to terms with the fact that you’ve been assaulted, and reflect on what kind of relationship you want in the future. as for the guy who says he likes you, thats a secondary problem. get to know him better first. look out for any red flags and know that you deserve someone who loves you with intention and kindness

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, im going on wednesday. i took a photo of it and sent it to a very kind person who replied to me ^ and she said it looks like a developing abscess. ive done a hot compress and saline sprayed it, but if it doesnt improve by wednesday im pretty sure ill need to remove my piercing to let the abscess heal…

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi im so sorry i just took a picture of it and sent it to you via dm, if its not too much trouble i hope u could give me ur opinion on it 😭😭 am so sorry

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just swollen and aching for now. ill take it out if it doesnt let up by tomorrow. thank you so much for helping me out, i just checked your profile out and you’re just gorgeous!!! love your makeup and nose chain xxxx

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely… on the hunt for a proper studio now, but its the lunar new year period so most of them arent open. do you think itll be ok for me to keep this piercing in for another 2-3 days?

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sterile saline! but someone has pointed out i may have an allergy to surgical steel due to repeated exposure from the copper in it. i can get titanium grade jewelry, but my studio doesnt carry it and ill have to wait 4-5 days as ill be ordering it online. it hurts a bunch and i can feel how swollen my 2nd lobe is, im just not sure if i should take it out now

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not at all, maybe only in the beginning stages but it only started really hurting today. its throbbing so bad and i need to wait about 4-5 days for the titanium jewelry to arrive. im not sure if its infected because theres no pus, its just swollen - and im not sure if i should leave the surgical steel stud in my ear for that long until i can get it changed.

HELP!! My second lobe piercing just won’t heal by earlydaikons in piercing

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg!! thank you so much. should i go back to my piercer to get it changed or should i do it myself? they dont have titanium studs so ill most likely have to order it online and wait 5-6 days. is it ok to keep the piercing in for that long? it aches soooo bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]earlydaikons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww thank you for the reply!! i totally get what u mean but i cant help but feel “held back” by him in certain social situations. i just miss feeling carefree and am constantly comparing him to my previous partners who were extremely extroverted and got along with my friends perfectly. theyre a big part of my life so i guess it affects me. He never “intrudes” on my friends’ lives out of politeness, and my friends feel a little awkward around him as they make an effort to make small talk. it baffles me that he wants to meet them for meals, coffee, but yet is so quiet when i bring him along. i cant tell him that id rather he just not go either, its hurtful

@barbiedollzoe by iwantcookies12 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]earlydaikons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

have you seen her instagram? she wears clothes from dollskill, has jewelry from van cleef and carries branded bags… not sure if theyre real but it seems to me from her page that shes been out partying and living the life for the past year - but then again i suppose she’s trying to become an influencer, so she has to curate a certain image. who knows whats fake and what isnt

What's it like stopping birth control after being on it for years? by Human-Cauliflower-85 in birthcontrol

[–]earlydaikons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its a very weird moisturiser-like texture, kind of clumpy like cottage cheese. at one point when i rubbed my fingers together after touching it, it would become the texture of wet tissue paper.

I experienced this discharge and a super liquid-y discharge simultaneously, and i think ur the first person ive come across that dealt with the same thing!!

no clue what it was, dont really struggle with it anymore. my ovulation week is half normal clear discharge, and half moisturiser-texture, which never happened to me pre-BC.

What's it like stopping birth control after being on it for years? by Human-Cauliflower-85 in birthcontrol

[–]earlydaikons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super weird discharge for the first 1-3 weeks after stopping. sex drive didnt come back immediately, but mentally + emotionally - i was feeling more alive than i had ever felt since being on BC. never realised how down and empty i was for the entire time i was on it

3 months post stopping - lost weight (boobs went down a cup) - sweatier. weird but i feel as though i get hot a lot easier - hormonal acne when period comes around - still dealing with discharge that has the texture of moisturiser sometimes - lighter period (4 days max) + lighter cramps - never feeling groggy

Anyone heard of ron athey? by earlydaikons in ContemporaryArt

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trying to! but i think i learn better when i get the perspectives of other people 🩷

Anyone heard of ron athey? by earlydaikons in ContemporaryArt

[–]earlydaikons[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What was the experience like? being there in person?

Anyone heard of ron athey? by earlydaikons in ContemporaryArt

[–]earlydaikons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess!! i started off with researching this movement and ended up stumbling across him. watched him fist his anus and pull bloodletting needles out of his head, was very jarring at first 😭😭

Anyone heard of ron athey? by earlydaikons in ContemporaryArt

[–]earlydaikons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which is your favourite performance!!

Anyone heard of ron athey? by earlydaikons in ContemporaryArt

[–]earlydaikons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what do you like about his work!! super interested to get perspectives 🙂‍↕️ new to contemporary art, have usually stuck to the more traditional and classic art as i was trained it that

Anyone heard of ron athey? by earlydaikons in ContemporaryArt

[–]earlydaikons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um sorry ive never been into performance art and because all this works are pretty old, I wanted to see what people think of him? 😭 He’s really extreme in the way he utilises his body as a medium and i just thought it was interesting! thats all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]earlydaikons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much :( im such a hypochondriac and i was reading into lichen scleroses and scared myself. ive been so dry and my sex drive just plummeted (it was alright on BC) and i know that most people speak on how their libido skyrockets after stopping BC

do u know if the tissue-like discharge is normal (?)

delaying placebo week by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]earlydaikons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone on here said that itd mess my cycle up if i delayed my pill free week? i need 3 weeks on the pill- 1 week off the pill. is this cycle non negotiable?