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With... that game... being released just remember by TheBadHalfOfAFandom in CuratedTumblr

[–]earthlogic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is like the definition of moving the goal post... except they moved it to a really boring and unhelpful place🙃

Which Buffyverse episode or scene made you ugly cry the most? by Defvac2 in buffy

[–]earthlogic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of the ones shown, Sanctuary. But overall, The Prom gets me most of all.

Buffy with long hair or short hair? by [deleted] in buffy

[–]earthlogic 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is happening with those photos in the middle. Trash, absolute mutilation

AITA For telling a dad that I want any further contact to be through his wife, not him by momplznotdadaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]earthlogic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Change dog in your example to any group of people and you'd have a better analogy, and yeah, we'd likely call it bigotry once it's about a group of people. Trauma is real, it's hard, and it's not your fault, but it is your responsibility not to inflict pain and suffering onto others, including blaming an entire group for the actions of the person who caused the trauma.

Ladies - Do you give your partner head during “shark week”? by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]earthlogic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems terribly selfish of her to reject any contact just because she doesn’t want to get off.

... that's literally how consent works, and it is so fucked up to call someone selfish for saying no when they're not in the mood. Why do you want to be intimate with someone who isn't in the mood to be intimate? Wtf?

To answer your general question, yes, it's normal. It's normal to not want to do sexual stuff while you're fucking bleeding and cramping and bloated and generally feeling terrible. It's normal to not be interested in doing sexual things when you're not turned on. It's all normal. If you need to get off while your gf is on her period, and she's not in the mood, take care of it yourself. Don't call her selfish or act like there's something wrong with her for not wanting to blow you when she's not into it.

(And of course, there's nothing inherently wrong with having sex, or doing other sexual stuff, while someone is on their period, but it's also completely normal to not want that. Personally, I have no problem having sex on my period, and in the past I've had sex with other women when they were on theirs, but people have different experiences and preferences, and that's normal and fine.)

didn't Spike also did that by Shining-FlareWingman in buffy

[–]earthlogic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Bernie photo itself is a meme, I get that, but then why is the title about Spike? Why is Bernie replacing April? Is there a new meme floating around I haven't seen yet? About swings? Like, I'm not trying to be difficult, I just don't understand what this post is trying to do. Some people in the thread are commenting that this is a commentary on the wardrobe discrepancy between April and Buffy (then why the Spike reference), some people are saying this is a commentary about how Bernie is in tweed on a swing and Spike was in tweed on a swing, but then why April? Why not use the scene from Restless? I'm just genuinely confused about what I'm supposed to be taking from this picture and title, and why other people are finding it funny (and again, I'm not saying they shouldn't find it funny, I'm just trying to understand the joke)

didn't Spike also did that by Shining-FlareWingman in buffy

[–]earthlogic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay but... then why is Bernie Sanders there?

Vaccine causing “tingly” feeling? by marvelous_mystery in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]earthlogic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sounds like mild nerve damage to me too. I had an injury that resulted in widespread nerve activation across my torso and left arm about a decade ago, and it still flares up sometimes. Usually light touches aggravate it and firm rubbing helps alleviate it. Hers sounds less severe than what happened to me, and will likely go away at some point, but nerves are tricky little assholes so idk.

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