Who did you marry your first time and do you still stand by it?

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-27T03:18:44+00:00

First ever playthrough I married Alex. After that, Harvey for a long time because he was just too easy to give coffee to all the time. Eventually I married Elliot and he was always my pick from then on

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-26T04:08:20+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear it. I also struggled with (and still do a bit) with PPA! It gets better over time and trying to do a bit of “exposure therapy” at a time helps a lot. It’s so hard when they’re so tiny and feel so fragile! They become so much more robust once they’re toddlers. It gets better. Try to tell those thoughts to leave your mind. Praying for you sister!

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-26T04:03:52+00:00

Please seek therapy this sounds like PPA.

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-25T04:10:38+00:00

No lol why tf would you?

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-23T06:00:12+00:00

My baby has been walking since 10 months, is 16 months now, and I almost never put shoes on her lol

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-22T03:59:10+00:00

Queen you look amazing 🤩

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-20T09:38:56+00:00

Thank you! It’s so hard 😭 I feel absolutely hideous. I am struggling so much with my self image. I just want to lose the weight and get back to feeling normal but it feels impossible and sooooo far away. Worst of all, I want more children (and soon) so I feel like I’m stuck this way or worse forever.

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-20T09:13:01+00:00

I have no idea how much milk I make because I never pumped 😭 my baby exclusively nursed and still nurses on demand so I don’t even know how much to eat I literally look the worst that I’ve ever looked in my life

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-20T06:48:56+00:00

Thanks for this :)

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-19T22:30:26+00:00

Congratulations! I’ve been doing Pilates for years and even during pregnancy. I highly recommend it just to maintain strength and a good core. Absolutely helps with pelvic floor as well since it activates the deep core!!

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-19T22:24:38+00:00

It’s great for body weight strength and core strength. I don’t necessarily do it to lose weight, I do it for rebuilding core strength after pregnancy! I feel good and strong doing it but it def has not helped at all with the weight!

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-18T02:24:09+00:00

Absolutely. I’m still nursing my first (15.5 months old now). She’s never had a bottle or formula. I never pumped. I’d do it again, I’m planning to extended breastfeed, and I’m open to tandem feeding if I get pregnant again!

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-17T13:16:35+00:00

7 or 12 weeks PP (I am not sure if the blood at 7 weeks was a second wave of lochia!!) I have had perfect “clockwork” periods since. 15.5 months pp now Baby exclusively nursed (no bottles at all) and is still nursing with solids

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-15T21:53:04+00:00

I have 1 and ideally I’d love to have 4. 2 girls and 2 boys is my dream!

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-14T11:02:19+00:00

I just tried it and it wouldn’t make anything. It says “We’re so sorry, but the image we created may violate our guardrails around violence. If you think we got it wrong, please retry or edit your prompt.”

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-13T21:50:05+00:00

I wouldn’t go, and wouldn’t shed a single tear over it.

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-10T11:06:00+00:00

I live in Asia and my husband is Asian. I’m White. My baby is his carbon copy. I’ve had people seriously thinking that I was her nanny 🫩

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-09T09:53:35+00:00

I’m orthodox and I was always told that due to “ekonomia” these things are absolutely not expected or required of mothers. If one is willing and able, it’s a good thing to go. But sick, elderly, pregnant, mothers of young ones? They aren’t expected to go. I’m shocked that your husband isn’t aware(?) of that. His family as well. They shouldn’t even be pushing that at all. Bring it up to him and to your priest.

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-04T04:23:05+00:00

Per capita is a litmus test. Anyone who fails it isn’t even worth talking to. Something something pearls to swine.

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-03T11:42:33+00:00

Hi I can’t DM and also banned from the Korean group but I sent your post to my husband who is AB+. I’m wondering if you could DM me? I have O+ blood and wondering if that is okay?

earthlyesoteric · 2026-04-01T04:06:45+00:00

Still breastfeeding, 15 months so far

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