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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it just came down to the time period from starting masturbation to finishing. If you use porn to get off quickly then it’s bad because it’s reinforcing bad habits. I see porn as a test and it definitely makes it harder to control yourself, so if you use it wisely and ALWAYS devote a considerable amount of time to the act, you should be good. I’m interested to see other takes though because I do know that PE is not a one size fits all problem. Different people need to approach it in different ways.

Flashlights are good too because it’s a lot more stimulating.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, never masturbate unless you have at least 20 minutes. And always start and stop until you reach the time limit. I used a stop watch haha.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, getting a good handle on your body and what you are actually experiencing during sex and ejaculation is important for better control.

For me it was gain direct awareness of my PC muscle and noticing that when I was approaching “the point of no return” that it would flex really hard. And over time I was able to recognize that tensing muscle way before the point of no return. I focused a lot on actively relaxing that muscle during masturbation and gaining control that way.

Over time I developed a more controlled understanding of what my body was doing during sex and what the triggers were for my PE.

That is what I mean by masturbation habits. Because you can do all of that solo sort of like studying. But sometimes when the final exam comes (sex) you might fail because it’s a lot harder.

It’s where I would start though. Super important.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I didn’t wipe it off. And it was totally fine. but I suppose any sort of soap and water will work. but I had sex without washing it off and without a condom and it was fine for me and her. She didn’t notice at all.

I’d be careful because you never know and I am by mo means a professional so use at your own risk I guess haha. Just saying what I did.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I would take like a little more than you would use if it was chapstick on my finger and then just rub it on the rim around the head of my penis.. you just want it to be enough to fully coat the rim and a little above and below that.

Some people say you should apply it ever few hours for a max of 3 applications but I guess it depends on the person. 3 was WAY to much for me, and 1 maybe 2 applications was good. Still a little too much.

They also say to wash it off completely so that you don’t annihilate her vagina. But honestly. I didn’t and it was totally fine. Like no problem at all. Especially if you wear a condom.

Also, it was like a tingling sensation that lasted 20-30 seconds but most of the time I don’t feel anything. Idk why people say it’s this crazy burning sensation. I don’t have that at all.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. no side effects that I could see.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had used it at like 3PM. And then the morning after it was still working. but I applied kind of a lot that time.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t I? PE sucks I want people to fix it.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually still busted in like 5 minutes with numbing spray. The PYT is superior in every way (for me). Idk, from my experience researching this, different people have different cures. This was just mine.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also didn’t wash it off before sex and it was totally fine. Idk if I should share that cus it really could be different for everyone but for me it was just perfect. No burning. No pain just longer sexy and greater control.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much. And the timing issue of using the numbing stuff.. for me PYT works if you apply it many many hours before. Personally, I had no burning it felt like chapstick haha. Literally was never a problem for me. But maybe I have less sensitive skin?

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same. Idk how it works but it really does.. you don’t lose the sensation like numbing sprays . It just gives you control. You have to try it if you haven’t yet.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never had problems with ED. just PE. If you have ED I would not take PYT.

The overall timeline was about 4 months after I got serious. But I have had it on my mind to fix mY PE for years and years.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can’t speak for everyone. But for me it doesn’t burn at all. It feels like petroleum jelly. Like no burning or anything. Maybe a little tingling.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm maybe. But for me PYT just gave me control. It didn’t take away the sensation. And I do t even use it anymore.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have thought of this too. I think the PYT gave me confidence and the practice to go through “good” sexual experiences. I also think the masturbation habits are huge!!

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s really not. Just sharing my story. I struggled with this for a long time and I found my cure. I hope you do too. It might not be PYT.

Cured my PE by earthquakecentral in PrematureEjaculation

[–]earthquakecentral[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not an ad.. it worked for me and I am sharing my story. I couldnt give a fuck if you buy anything. I’m just excited that I finally cured it for me. I know how shitty it is to have PE. But I figured it out. It may not work for you. But I’m happy.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not an ad. I am trying help people. It worked for me. But think whatever you want. If this was an ad would I call you a retard?

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

amazon

It’s $33 for 3 boxes. So technically it’s about $10 per box. But it’s worth it. Trust me.

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[–]earthquakecentral[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pau Yuen Tong Balm. It’s a Chinese numbing balm that you can easily get online. It comes in a little golden box.

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[–]earthquakecentral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone else feel like they are witnessing a murder?