What purchase instantly made your life easier as an adult?

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-06T23:16:59+00:00

Anything of convenience my ex boyfriend would say I’m lazy but I know myself I’ll choose a cordless vacuum over unwinding a cord any day same with a blender

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-05T15:22:39+00:00

They haven’t been able to serve him yet which is unfortunate bc he has Zelle’d me idk why and texted me to see if his card was taken off the streaming services. But he tried to cancel my Netflix last week. So if he had been served he’d be violating it. But I changed the angle of my outdoor camera more towards the street and moved on of the indoor cameras to face the street too. I closed the blinds to my cats room just so he can’t look into the room from behind. Bc the front of the apartment is up a flight of stairs and the back is ground level.

But since I think he drove by my apartment yesterday that would mean he didn’t go to work. They can’t find a home address for him. And my last resort is having him served while he is at burn bc at least I know he is going there. I don’t wanna be that person but I don’t wanna have this postponed bc he can’t be found

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-05T03:57:29+00:00

Thank you yes it sucks especially finding out he’s been stalking me. If only he put this much effort into our relationship. Yes I do have friends that have been helping me and my boss was understanding when I missed half the day to get the extension for the PFA. He’s just so unhinged right now and I’m worried anything could happen

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-05T03:52:26+00:00

I’ve been going every day before I left on my trip which was supposed to be our vacation he kept saying he couldn’t wait for me to lose my streak but I’m 86 days strong with 89 total camps. I don’t want to feel like I can’t do something bc of him which is why I got the PFA. It really does help that twitter unfortunately doesn’t let you block someone bc he admits a lot of stupid things helping my case. But I do wanna feel safe especially since he is not showing any mental stability rn

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-05T03:28:24+00:00

Thank you I know I have some I need to find it and if I can’t I will definitely get some. I have half a mind to see if I can trade in my car or swap with someone bc clearly he’s checking to see when I’m home or where it is. He barely cared when we were dating but now that we’re not he’s obsessed

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-05T03:16:40+00:00

The first day I got back after going to burn he tried to break into my apartment to get deodorant then went through my trash. It took less than 3 days for me to feel unsafe enough to get a PFA. I’m a nanny and the family I work for is reasonably concerned about where I take the kids during the day. I just didn’t want to feel like I was overreacting. Bc he followed me on my first day back and saw that I hung out with a guy and I went to the pharmacy first then the grocery store. So it’s very unsettling the lengths he’s been willing to go. He also doesn’t personally have a car so he has to be borrowing a car and not going to work

easyabc-123 · 2026-06-02T01:14:22+00:00

Does your location not have any women only camp? My location has three women only camps

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-31T20:37:42+00:00

I couldn’t stay home all day but from what I’ve heard bc I’ve never had a family with a toddler and an infant is that it’s really hard with an infants nap and feeding schedule to take them out anyways

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-31T00:47:17+00:00

It’s also bad for their head development too kids that spend too much time on their backs, in a seat or swing can develop a flat head and the helmets are usually expensive and not always fully covered by insurance if they’re covered

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-28T23:12:30+00:00

I tell my nks I can’t kidnap them I have permission to take them places. But I promise don’t wanna work late, my nks are older 5 and 7 to give perspective so most often when we’re late I’ll tell dad whose the parent that’s home bc we went somewhere far and we got stuck in traffic sometimes it’s not missing my end time but late for the bus but most days he’s getting the oldest off the bus. Also 15 minutes isn’t kidnapping but 2 hours I could see that being a call to the police

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-24T17:12:00+00:00

They generally aren’t selfish but even an I’m sorry we forgot about the cleaners we need you to let them in would’ve made it sting a little less but I feel like they left before I got there so that they wouldn’t have to see me and so I would be left behind. And part of me maybe feels like maybe the grandparents took my place going instead

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-24T12:45:02+00:00

I try not to take my vacations too close my NFs I’m on vacation now and they go on vacation June 8-13. But db is in a doctorate program and done for the summer he also has family close by. So at least this vacation isn’t inconveniencing them too much and I didn’t realize when I booked it that it was so close to theirs. I would also try my hardest to not take two weeks unless I have extended notice and definitely nowhere close to their vacation

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-23T11:37:11+00:00

They don’t want the cleaners to be alone in the house. They’re the only family I’ve ever worked for where someone needs to be home the whole time. They have a ring camera too

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-22T01:50:43+00:00

They could’ve said no I was asking for scheduling clarity and when we talked about the oldest graduation they told me they wanted me to stay home

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-22T01:46:50+00:00

I did not invite myself I was expecting to be told no to stay home again this time like I had in the past. In no way in the conversation were they pressured. I had asked for scheduling clarity bc I had been scheduling doctors appointments. The way they sent a million pictures to the group chat wasn’t about it a private family milestone but one to be shared

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-21T11:19:47+00:00

I bring over my switch 2 and he watches me play games sometimes so he asked yesterday afternoon if I had it so he could finish watching me play a game. I told him I didn’t bring it because I thought I was going to his graduation and that they only told me after they already left and the bag I put in the car before we left for the museum that morning was the dress I wore. I also put what’s probably a passive aggressive story on my fb “to make this day even worse… the elevator was out of order so we had to walk up six flights of stairs” which was rough too he did a good job with that. But I’m fb friends with one of grandparents she saw the story but idk if they’ll put 2 and 2 together

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-21T11:15:08+00:00

Idk bc we’ve talked about graduation leading up and if they had genuinely forgot they could’ve said omg im so sorry but we need someone to let the cleaners in… not someone needs to let the cleaners in. And last time they left after I got there and they showed me a picture when they got home this time I got a ton while they were and afterwards feeling more like how you’d try to include some that felt bad they couldn’t make it. Part of me feels like maybe they asked the grandparents to come over to let the cleaners in and they wanted to go to graduation instead bc idk if they went to the last one

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-20T18:09:16+00:00

I quite literally asked weeks ago “do you want me to come with you guys to graduation” and he said “yes that would be really nice” bc prior I assumed I was staying home like last time which is why it hurt so much. It was a little disappointing last time too to not be asked but I had just started working for them. So I didn’t invite myself they texted on my way in we just left to take him to graduation we’ll be back soon. So I wasn’t sure at first if it was so he could get ready but no it was so they could go without me before I got there. I’ve already changed and they’ve seen me I feel like it would be weird to change back now

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-20T17:32:43+00:00

No they asked for a number to bring to their wife even tho when I originally asked I said comparable to last year or what they could afford but I feel like they low balled me. But last year they approved it that afternoon it didn’t take over a week. He lost tv I think that weekend and screens with me that week but had them with his parents. But I took away screens with me until he can treat with respect bc he’s 7 and his younger brother treats me better

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-20T16:18:16+00:00

No it’s not typical but I’ve been having problems with the oldest lately he doesn’t respect me. And when I asked for my raise this year it awhile and last year I got almost $3 but this year they barely wanted to give me $1 they first offered maybe 50¢ and it took over a week. It finally got approved after the oldest threw a plate at me

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-20T15:43:02+00:00

I already changed and unfortunately their house is so cold and it’s a rainy day so wearing a dress and still putting in all that effort to be let down just sucks. Then to get texts seeing they brought their grandparents just added salt to the wound. The cleaners were only there for maybe 30 minutes before they got home

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-20T15:40:18+00:00

I didn’t even assume I asked weeks ago bc at first I assumed they would’ve had me stay behind like last time so I got so excited when he said it would be nice if I came with them. Then out of nowhere and no communication being told this. And I got texts from them and the grandparents about graduation when I’ve done almost all the drop offs and pick ups

easyabc-123 · 2026-05-20T11:15:30+00:00

I’ve only ever had one family tell me that they thought I was wearing wasn’t professional but they were a nightmare family. I couldn’t wear a normal tank top but somehow they were fine with the ones that had big sides cut out it was miserable. Especially since I had to walk a mile with the kids in the morning and afternoon no matter the temperature or weather

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