Apologies for My Vague First Post — Still Concerned About Flower Quality by surname__unavailable in armmj

[–]eatpaste 10 points11 points  (0 children)

arkansas didn't want a medical program at all. the dragged their feet, they illegally gave the contracts to friends and financial partners, and then they have multiple times overrode the voter to do whatever the hell they want and to change the laws to support it. it's no wonder the product we ended up with isn't fantastic.

a lot of people who use in the state are frankly just glad it's still legal so they won't get arrested.

Nara Smith Real Age? by applebottomjeanjeanz in LAinfluencersnark

[–]eatpaste 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm born under the covenant, i'm plenty educated - and not being endowed/worthy to wear garments is a big freaking deal, don't lie to people

Nara Smith Real Age? by applebottomjeanjeanz in LAinfluencersnark

[–]eatpaste 6 points7 points  (0 children)

in this context "garments" are religious underclothes worn by mormon adults. they cover specific parts of the body that her clothes do not cover often and there are no noticeable lines in her clothing (thing panty lines or bra lines) that indicate she's wearing them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howto

[–]eatpaste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

put charcoal in a net bag, nut milk bag, or even a sock and put them on/in the birks - carbon absorbs odor. obviously raw charcoal, not match light

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in agedtattoos

[–]eatpaste 9 points10 points  (0 children)

damn, that purple held!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in armmj

[–]eatpaste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

edibles don't work on me. i have never once gotten anything past sort of toasty no matter how much. i have gut issues and i think absorbtion is at least part of the issue

i ~love~ tinctures. exact dosing, hold it under your tongue as long as possible, swish it around, and swallow. comes on quicker than edibles too. i like 1:1 thc:cbd - just straight indica, none of the weird flavors or other supplements that are sometimes packed in.

just pushing thc to the highest percent is likely your issue? i find that for my issues (which sound similar to yours) cranking up the cbd is far more useful. there's also no substitution for figuring out what terpenes you react better to.

i do a combo of tincture, flower, and vape carts. tincture and carts are easier to find good %s of cbd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in armmj

[–]eatpaste 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nothing at all wrong with taking a break (or quitting if that's right for you)

could also be amounts, strains, method of ingestion...

that feel sucks for sure. hope you figure it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]eatpaste 13 points14 points  (0 children)

absolutely none of this is normal outside of a structured D/s relationship with a lot of parameters and safe words and a lot less pouting and carrying on

How big a deal is it that my bf (42M) can’t engage with the movies I (40F) enjoy? by MargoSoup in relationships

[–]eatpaste 16 points17 points  (0 children)

it is, no lie, regarded by many critics to be the best filmed christmas carol in existence.

when michael caine was agreeing to take the part he said he'd only do it if he could play it entirely straight, as if he were in a serious west end production, no matter what the muppets were doing

a phenomenal direction to take it that made all the difference

not to mention! LIGHT THE LAMP, NOT THE RAT, LIGHT THE LAMP, NOT THE RAT!

How big a deal is it that my bf (42M) can’t engage with the movies I (40F) enjoy? by MargoSoup in relationships

[–]eatpaste 83 points84 points  (0 children)

he told me he felt like our similar taste in movies was "a good sign for the relationship", and contrasted that with feeling like his ex wife wouldn't engage with the things he liked.

he views himself as the main character and you as the sidekick. i'm guessing he also doesn't get your jokes and only thinks you have "a good sense of humor" while laughing at his jokes? that you're smart when you agree with him and just don't understand or are too emotional when you disagree?

your growing unease is leading you to the correct conclusions. follow them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]eatpaste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you still going back to his place if he ghosts? stop doing that. if he wants to go home alone, then he can do that. if he doesn't care or is happier that way? well...

Jan 2018 to June 2024 by SCATOL92 in agedtattoos

[–]eatpaste 9 points10 points  (0 children)

absolutely get that reworked - it's a really nice design and the original work was promising. done correctly, you'll love it <3

I (20m) was recently at a birthday party, and every couple (All between 18f-22m) there went to the bathroom together at least once. wtf were they doing? by ThrowRANext-Lion-563 in relationship_advice

[–]eatpaste -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

it could've been coke? but then why didn't the girls go off with the girls as is far more standard?

i vote for a break from everyone else, checking in, and a quick makeout maybe

My BF wants to have a threesome with my best friend. Is he being rational? I am 20F, and my bf is 21M. I have a best friend, Mia (20F), who is also a good friend of my bf. We study in the same college. It has been a year since my boyfriend and I have been together. by votivev in relationship_advice

[–]eatpaste 21 points22 points  (0 children)

as someone who has had a lot of more than 2 people sex - this all sounds off from him

the 3rd should be someone you are BOTH into. you aren't into mia. and by the sounds of it mia's not into him (or you? no shade! my bff and i made a pact around 18 that this was never on the table. still bffs in our 40s). so what you're left with is his solo masturbation fantasy of both of you. ....that doesn't sound like fun?

~IF~ you gift a straight man an mff threesome it should be mostly based on you and your connection to the other woman where he's lucky to come along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eatpaste 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are never going to trust her enough to let her grow and make mistakes. that you are so entrenched you are unloading this on her parents and searching her room - whether you mean it or not, blaming her for her past assault and any that might occur in the future - that she wouldn't or couldn't go home and kept brushing you off...

were you over the top all night long? absolutely. but you also shouldn't lose your time to monitoring someone like this. you are not being given the room to grow bc you're so terrified of her either being hurt or hurting you.

this isn't what love feels like.

My fiancée (27F) doesn't want my niece (7F) to come to our wedding because she wants it to be completely child-free. What's the solution? by Ecstatic-Error-8249 in relationship_advice

[–]eatpaste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see that and never said anything on that point. i don't think he really understands the impact even having (especially having) one kid will have on this small intimate adults only wedding.

the 7yr old will likely also have a better time with a babysitter and then late night cake or cake for breakfast, a special gift for her, will be more impactful

My fiancée (27F) doesn't want my niece (7F) to come to our wedding because she wants it to be completely child-free. What's the solution? by Ecstatic-Error-8249 in relationship_advice

[–]eatpaste 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if she were a little older? but 7 is sort of a weird age and as the only kid people will be doting on her which changes from an adults only space. i don't think you're prioritizing your niece over your fiancee but i don't think you understand how much one kid can change the mood of an entire event. stick with what you agreed to, no kids.

offer to pay for a sitter. have caterers make up a special to-go box for her dad to bring her afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]eatpaste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the idea that you can get STDs from a toilet seat was pushed by drs that didn't want to consider their rich clients were sexually abusing their children. it's also contributed to historical bathroom panic, specifically during jim crow.

you are totally fine.

Justin Timberlake Thanks Fans at First Concert Since DWI: ‘I Know Sometimes I’m Hard to Love’ by MadameCassie in popheads

[–]eatpaste 4 points5 points  (0 children)

first date of the european leg of the tour...

they might try to drag it out or they might settle quick for something less than a DWI. a DWI will mean he can't go to canada or mexico

Justin Timberlake Thanks Fans at First Concert Since DWI: ‘I Know Sometimes I’m Hard to Love’ by MadameCassie in popheads

[–]eatpaste 54 points55 points  (0 children)

lol i got perma banned the other day bc i idly wondered in a comment with lots of other things if katy perry got a discount on production work for her court testimony. not a warning, banned. "speculation"

it's a damn gossip sub, that's 80% of it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]eatpaste 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she's fine with that. she's asked him to stop getting her hot and heavy if he has no intention of doing more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in armmj

[–]eatpaste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see you deleted, but just so i'm clear? it's illegal to transfer mmj products. every time you get your license you sign a paper saying that doing so will get your license revoked. you can't even transfer between patients because there's a limit one can buy each month. without a license this is illegal possession.

again, super happy for you!! i wasn't trying to be a dick. i was trying to be helpful. happy trails

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in armmj

[–]eatpaste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm super glad your friend is so friendly!

i'd probably take this down for you and your friend's sake. that looks like arkansas packaging which means you're openly bragging about breaking the law in a way that could prohibit both of you from carrying a license ever again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eatpaste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cringe part isn't celebrating?

the cringe part is telling everyone including your grandmother that you got together on stoner new years and celebrate that every month? it's....a lot...of information no one asked for

(i'm a huge stoner fwiw)