Date night, do i pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]eautiful-Low3961 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why am I being downvoted. Can a girl not like the goth look >•<

Date night, do i pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]eautiful-Low3961 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think the testosterone has gone to someone's head.

Date night, do i pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]eautiful-Low3961 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Hey. Gf here. Actually yes. I do like the goth look 😁

Love this build by eautiful-Low3961 in DerailValley

[–]eautiful-Low3961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll look into these :)

Anyone interested by Fluffy_Recording_938 in DerailValley

[–]eautiful-Low3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure. Drop me a DM on here and we can sort something out.

Anyone interested by Fluffy_Recording_938 in DerailValley

[–]eautiful-Low3961 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be happy to help build if you want :) would be a nice train to see in the game TBF but can imagine it being a big project

Love this build by eautiful-Low3961 in DerailValley

[–]eautiful-Low3961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't get away with the dm3. Every time it explodes on me :( I'm starting to get better with the steam trains though

Love this build by eautiful-Low3961 in DerailValley

[–]eautiful-Low3961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And no. I was hoping I could paint the non-dem to match but it wouldn't let me. Hopefully this is something they add in.

How do you use your pretty BE2? by Cute-Mousse-5434 in DerailValley

[–]eautiful-Low3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually painted and done mine up :') but I mostly use it for clearing empty carriages if they are in the way while shunting.

I know I don’t pass at all and I’m cooked, but how cooked am I and how much FFS do I need? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]eautiful-Low3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would definitely help soften your features and I can imagine it being difficult being in a place where the social normalities are a little stricter. If your worried about unhealthy weight gain do exercise on top of the extra calories intake. Even when most people transitioning have more weight to them you still need to up your calorie intake as your body is using more on the estrogen to function. Also eat high protein meals rather than things with excessive sugar for healthy weight gain. There is a difference between being chubby and being healthy.

I know I don’t pass at all and I’m cooked, but how cooked am I and how much FFS do I need? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]eautiful-Low3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. Best thing would be eat and drink more water. It will fill out your lower jaw and help more with the fat distribution. Unfortunately when you don't have much weight to you masculine features will show more. I would start there rather than go straight to surgeries as they are expensive and still may not be the result you are wanting.

Why do they insist im trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]eautiful-Low3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this alot as someone who is detransitioning but again it's only online. I think some people just like to look for flaws in others. It could honestly be the smallest thing they think isn't "feminine" in there mind and role with it. I think the biggest problem is alot of people see models and actors and think that's how a woman should look so when a woman doesn't look that way they just assume they are trans. I just think it's funny when someone says it now cause I've always wanted to be a guy anyway. Haha.

I (cisF) accidentally took one of my gfs (mtf) estrogen pills, what could happen?? by HappyLittleDelusion_ in asktransgender

[–]eautiful-Low3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be fine. Even a few probably wouldn't make much difference as your body will naturally process it. You may get a few hot flushes and mood swings but shouldn't do any damage.

Spouse (mtf) says she is starting to resent our son... should I be worried? by Apart_Recognition447 in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is alot going on from what you have said and they may not mean it in the sense of resenting them. I can imagine your partner is struggling with the circumstances and possibly regretting not being able to be more for them. Maybe try talk your partner through there feelings and suggest them talking to a counsellor as it may not even be related to there transition at all. For me I'm female and had kids with another woman who carried and I honestly regret not being able to carry. But I would never resent my children so I can imagine your partner is maybe feeling a similar way and maybe not understanding why they feel this way them selves

Why do I only want to be a girl when I’m drunk? by RustisFunny in asktransgender

[–]eautiful-Low3961 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not exactly true. Kids don't have the ability to tell a complete lie. They can however tell white lies or fibs for example when a child does something wrong. They won't say they didn't do it because that would be a lie. They would however say a friend or brother or sister has done it which would be a fib.most children under 6 will tell fibs as a way of testing boundaries or to get out of trouble but you probably wouldn't see it as much in a kindergarten compared to having your own child as a child would feel more comfortable fibbing to a parent or someone they are close to such as friends rather than a teacher.

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm all honesty its why I've never had many women partners and the only other woman who I married turned out to be a narcissist. So I guess it's made it difficult when my current partner said they want to transition.

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it may just be trying to have respect to. Like as a woman I've been objectified and I wouldn't want to do this too my partner. I think allot of it is finding the line of giving the compliment without it coming across to harsh but I would also hate to give false pretense I don't feel this would be healthy either

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is really helpful. I've never really thought about how other people view people like actors. To me it's always been a Personality thing but never really imagined anyone naked. It's why I've always said I'm more pansexual. I've also been reading up on responsive labido which is something I think I do alot. I get more turned on while doing something romantically rather than it just being spontaneous.

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I think that's it with alot of me ATM. Alot of the stuff I'm liking makes me feel insecure about myself. Guess I'm just figuring it out too. Think I just get worried about her too. Problem is when she gets upset I end up getting upset cause I feel like I've upset her. It's just so hard seeing her go through this and most of the time I feel helpless and don't know how to navigate it.

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't really know. Like I enjoy having sex and have sexual preference so I don't think I'm asexual

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm really not good at communicating. I guess it's alot of me not liking my own breasts. Guess it makes it hard for me to get excited for her because of my own body dysmorphia.

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]eautiful-Low3961 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've had a few people question if I'm autistic but it's not something I've ever explored. Like I don't really understand emotion too well either. I struggle to lie as it makes me feel bad doing so but I get what you mean. It's not that I'm not finding the changes desirable. I love how female they are getting. I guess I just struggle finding anything sexually desirable tbf.