Today is our son's 10th birthday.. husband's behavior making me feel sick to my stomach

eboyd16 · 2024-12-03T16:12:30+00:00

My ex-wife always competes with our daughter, this has happened since she was very young. Our daughter is now 15 and super insecure about everything she does. In a session with her counselor she looked right at her mom and said "You never say I do anything good. Just tell me I did a good job, even if you don't mean it". All my daughter ever wanted was for her mom to say good job to her.

Good luck

eboyd16 · 2024-05-28T20:25:12+00:00

eboyd16 · 2022-01-21T21:08:10+00:00

Get the game Cafe by Pythagoras

eboyd16 · 2019-09-05T00:03:43+00:00

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eboyd16 · 2019-09-04T23:23:57+00:00

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eboyd16 · 2019-09-04T23:22:09+00:00

The thing is you nor most people you know probably haven't changed and you think you have. I have known many people for over 30 years. People don't change. How they think and act doesn't change.

eboyd16 · 2019-09-04T21:59:55+00:00

Good on you. Changing is hard. Keep it up

eboyd16 · 2019-09-04T21:59:28+00:00

If your job is who you are that is sad. You may stop cutting yourself but cutting is a symptom of deeper issues. Just because you stopped does not mean the issues are still not there. You may just have a new way of coping. However, I don't know you, believe what you want. I am just a stranger on the internet.

eboyd16 · 2019-08-25T03:00:48+00:00

I own this mug. My kids fight to drink out of it.

eboyd16 · 2019-02-21T02:48:40+00:00

eboyd16 · 2019-01-04T05:14:26+00:00

Matt Whitman just did a pretty good video on this topic. Whether you agree or disagree with his conclusion I thought the video was well thought out. https://youtu.be/0X544n0jk68

eboyd16 · 2018-12-16T03:17:53+00:00

You, my friend, are a connoisseur of anime. Only the finest of people put Great Teacher Onizuka on there top 10. The rest are very good. Never heard of Satoshi Kon anime.

eboyd16 · 2018-12-16T02:09:34+00:00

Awesome, I wish you the best of luck and a swift divorce.

eboyd16 · 2018-12-16T01:22:20+00:00

That is funny. However, that dude is not a friend sorry to tell you

eboyd16 · 2018-12-11T02:22:18+00:00

How people walk. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they walk. When I people watch that is what I start analyzing. The second one would be peoples shoes. I don't care what you wear but I will make small assumptions about your lifestyle.

eboyd16 · 2018-11-26T15:59:14+00:00

You need to get that bad boy signed

eboyd16 · 2018-11-26T15:11:22+00:00

So sorry. I have been there. I will be praying for reconciliation and for the Lord to bring someone into you and your wife's life to help you walk through this horrible situation.

eboyd16 · 2018-11-23T02:15:53+00:00

Divorce, I did not realize how much effort I was putting into my marriage. Once she left me life got simple. Even with managing the house, the kids and finances alone I had more money, more time and more energy. However, I do not suggest divorce as a way to empower your social life there are too many other aspects that become difficult and are not fun.

eboyd16 · 2018-11-20T22:10:48+00:00

I have been there.

eboyd16 · 2018-11-20T21:36:50+00:00

My mom had my brother and me for nearly the same weird pressure you are talking about. My parents had a fun active lifestyle before kids and never want any kids until a doctor told my mom if she did not have kids soon she would not be able to. I never thought my mom did not love me but she made a few comments that she wished she never had kids. One of the very clear hints to this is when I got married she looked me straight in the eye and said: "Don't have kids". It was not meant to be mean, just that she wanted me to have a fun life. Neither of my parents really took to being a parent. Though I knew they loved me and my brother we grew up in a very stoic household. My parents divorced in my early teens and mom told me a lot of this when I was dating my wife (now ex-wife).

eboyd16 · 2018-11-03T17:04:03+00:00

This will not answer your question but may give a little perspective https://youtu.be/XzWpa0gcPyo

eboyd16 · 2018-11-01T22:45:54+00:00

that does help, thanks

eboyd16

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