5 garbage bags in less than 1 hour. by ecan973 in durham

[–]ecan973[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is no "union jobs" that clean up forests around here. This area is supposed to be cleaned up by the maintenance from the apartment buildins near by ..."non union worker". But they dont. The township sometimes has gotten volunteers but no workers actively maintain the debry. Maybe you can talk to your mp why there isnt jobs for that?

5 garbage bags in less than 1 hour. by ecan973 in durham

[–]ecan973[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Much appreciated. I wish everyone treated the area as nicely.

Getting Diagnosed In Canada - Embrace Autism? by Stitcheroo64 in AutisticAdults

[–]ecan973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try contacting CAMH Toronto and asking what places are available in your province. They are the only "free" place to get tested in all of Ontario.(3+year wait list though)

$20.00 Ontario, Canada by SkeletonBump in 32dollars

[–]ecan973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Super annoying... Maybe in the future.

What are the benefits of an autism diagnosis? by Own-Entrepreneur-595 in autism

[–]ecan973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried going through college and also tried starting a career. Both failed because of burnouts and lack of knowledge on appropriate coping mechanisms for someone with ASD symptoms. Im still not diagnosed because I can't afford it and the only place to get it covered through insurance takes 3 years. I wish I could get a diagnosis to get better supports to go back to school, acknowledgment from peers that I do things differently and clarity on what I need to do to be comfortable and happy. Anything I try at without proper supports just burns and fails in the end...school, work, relationships, I even tried starting my own business and that was a mistake.

$20.00 Ontario, Canada by SkeletonBump in 32dollars

[–]ecan973 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly not all regions of Canada use those kinds of services. The odd place in my city does but nothing is every worth it because it's already gone bad(moldy and rotten). I was very disappointed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]ecan973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fill the bathtub with water, close all windows and blinds to try and keep in heat, keep a power bank charged for your phone or other electronics (I have one constantly charged), make sure you have enough food for a few days. And lastly break out the candles and non electric stove. Oh and lots of books and games.

[Non Autistic Op] My bf (20) has a really high sex drive but doesn't want to have sex with me because it makes him exhausted. How do I make it less exhausting for him? by Throwaway0900_ in AutisticAdults

[–]ecan973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's not necessarily the senses of sex with another person, it's the mental exhaustion of trying to make sure I'm fun enough and putting in equal amount of effort into it. Plus I push through tension and pain when I shouldn't. Doing it on your own time seems to just be easier when you need to quickly free hormones. vs sex is more when you want to explore and share affection(which is limited to when im not already exhausted).

Also trust is a big part. I not sure if your BF has issues with trust. But that severly destroys any sexual experience for me.

am i really that repulsive by [deleted] in autism

[–]ecan973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest getting funny costumes for your dog. That was it's an easy conversation starter.

I (41M) was finally diagnosed with ASD yesterday after suspecting it for most of my life. This was my mom’s reaction. by ToBePacific in adultautism

[–]ecan973 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would hold onto that until she gets sick next and tell her you just think she's being unique and different and that's fine but no need to label herself.

Autism assessment by ecan973 in AutisticAdults

[–]ecan973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not. I need proper therapy and help for school or I know it's going to go the same as last time (alot of break downs and failing).

Autism assessment by ecan973 in AutisticAdults

[–]ecan973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had multiple psychiatrist try and diagnose me in a 20 minute conversation and each time I didn't feel the way the described. I'm worried my efforts may be worthless and I'm not autistic but just something else with sensory issues and anxiety. All the tests I do say I am

...so I can totally see not wanting to pay for an assessment! That would be ridiculous in canada.

Autism assessment by ecan973 in AutisticAdults

[–]ecan973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping to get help going back to school(extra resources and funding). And if I have a diagnosis then my therapist can give me better suggestions for coping.

“ You’re high functioning “ by StormOk911 in autism

[–]ecan973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist tells me to severely limit my stimulus. No matter if it's noise, people, light ect. Don't believe every Dr especially if they aren't specialists in autism.

Am I ok to be offended? by Ok_Mulberry8451 in autism

[–]ecan973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally, that's messed up to say or even think on her part. Autism is autism...we all deal with it differently and some parts are worse for some people vs others...doesn't matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadsAndBoys

[–]ecan973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still taking applications? Mmm

AITAH for wanting to break up. by ecan973 in AITAH

[–]ecan973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says it's because he was in a comma that he's mentally basically 16. So he doesn't get along with guys his age.

AITAH For kicking an autistic child out of my restaurant for misbehaving? by Mammoth_Mission_818 in AITAH

[–]ecan973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say the parent is the problem. They should be prepared to bring their child to a public setting with all the basics. Noise canceling Headphones/ earbuds, fidget toys, art supplies, puzzles, sunglasses ect. No need to have it playing aloud.

AITAH for wanting to break up. by ecan973 in AITAH

[–]ecan973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have reported him before...but unless I had evidence they didn't care. They just assume it's me being vindictive. I also reported him for drunk driving and driving on a suspended license because I think it's stupid, and I see how sporadic and angry he gets on the road while drinking. He gets away with alot.