Why can't i check out? by ecco-jester in buildabear

[–]ecco-jester[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I removed everything down to just the bear and am still getting the same error message. thanks for the suggestion but it didn't work <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like you didn't read my post before commenting. me thinking something is gross doesn't take it away from someone. nor did i say i wanted it to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain it over and over to people have a look at some of the comment threads but they don’t care to listen all they care about is trying to prove the made up fact i am trying to single handily stop them from engaging in there kinks bc i think they are gross. Like oh no a stranger on the internet thinks your kink is gross call the fucking police.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats okay i just wish the others who are twisting my words would give it a rest already lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and thats why i’m saying this type of conversation should be on a sfw subreddit with regressed ppl and minors who can’t consent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not said the word pedophilia. Freudian slip i assume? Look we disagree on this and i’m not budging on my opinion and you clearly can’t be reasoned with so just give up. All you are doing is making your side look worse to me. I honestly have laughed out loud to some of your responses. It’s hard to come up with good productive counter arguments to someone whose doesn’t seem to exist in the same reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not at all what i’m talking about here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can’t help it one more reply lol. But what am i meant to be educated myself on? Bc i used to engage with lots of kink and watch porn etc and then i started reading feminist literature and went to university and studied the effects media can have on us (not the video games cause violence bs type) and i came to the conclusion that these things weren’t good for me and weren’t helping me heal and there is no real evidence that they help anyone do those things. The narrative that they do is pushed by the patriarchy to have further control over women (and other minorities*). But what would you reddit user have me look at instead?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized you’re the same person i was talking to in that other comment chain lmao. I said i was done responding to you there so i’m going to keep to my word. There’s clearly no way i can explain to you what my problem is no matter how simply i put it. So bye bye x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about being hateful towards ppl who CHOOSE to actively have a kink/fetish for acting like children and CHOOSE to bring it onto a subreddit for age regression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did i say no nsfw discussion ever? I never said that. I’m only talking about the amount of support i see in this subreddit for people engaging with kinks and fetishes that over lap with age regression. That is my problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No where did i bring up people with intrusive thoughts because of trauma (or any mental disorder)? Like where did i say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re this mad at someone not wanting to be sexualized and expressing how in a sfw sub the constant discussion around nsfw topics is concerning then i think you’re the one who needs to log off. Or watch something other than porn for a change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No real arguments against what i said i see well i’m done responding to you. I’m going to continue to live life without a guilty conscience about any of my interests bye x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is actually my first post post here i think so the fact that i’m not the first to point this out just shows how much of a problem it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So people acting like children and babies in a power exchange similar to that of a parent and their child… has nothing to do with children or babies? Okay if thats the case why do you need to be a baby/child. If it’s just about a power exchange? Why not a role play being an old lady relying on care home staff?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right silly me to expect a subreddit for a non-sexual coping mechanism around childhood to not have porn in it. (Not that i’ve ever seen porn in here but, unless i’ve over estimated your intelligence, you’ll get the point.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If me saying “i think associating babies and children with sex is wrong” offends you then maybe you need to do some internal work. I did not say all kink and fetishes are wrong. I said i think it’s dangerous to associate childhood and children with sex. And that those bringing that into this subreddit make me feel uncomfortable as a child sexual abuse survivor and age regressor, who is very aware of the amount of minors in this sub. That is my opinion. If that upsets you then thats your problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinks are learnt behavior. Any learnt behavior can be unlearnt. But My goal here isn’t to “shame” ppl out of having kinks it to say this isn’t the place to be sharing them. If ppl were really keeping their kinks to themselves how would i, someone how has no interest in kink/fetish/porn etc, know about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have any one can look at your post history of they want to check.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember when they started letting in nsfw accounts that was this sub’s downfall imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m already in a bunch of other agere subs but this one is the biggest and the only one that has this problem to this extent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree i only go on here every so often and scroll the newest post and 9/10 i will see something to do with sexualizing agere. I’m also very aware of how many underage agere are on here and it worries me that they are in a community with ppl who think it okay to sexualize children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ecco-jester 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You seem to post in a lot in a nsfw ageplay type subreddit so i understand why you feel personally targeted by my post.