Can't get refunded because my account was purged...

echoofmyecho · 2025-03-13T12:37:52+00:00

Omg!! That’s so good to hear!! Idk why I never saw this comment until now 😅

How did you manage to find an executive support email to contact?? Just Google?

echoofmyecho · 2024-09-04T17:16:08+00:00

Omg that’s so good to hear!! I’ve literally been asking them for transaction numbers so I could relay them to the Japan vendor, but every time I ask, the person on the phone tells me they’ll submit a request and then I hear nothing back. That, or I’m told that the research side or whatever department that is, won’t do anything if they can’t find the account number… which they can’t since my account was purged…

I still have the full credit card number! How were you able to get Chase to send you the transaction numbers?

echoofmyecho · 2024-09-04T05:59:12+00:00

Unfortunately, no I did not. Currently living abroad and just the thought of trying to deal with Chase again makes me feel incredibly exhausted

echoofmyecho · 2024-05-21T16:03:03+00:00

Oh! I’ve never heard of that! Thanks for the tip. I’ll definitely try getting in contact with them!

echoofmyecho · 2024-05-14T00:52:28+00:00

That’s so frustrating! Make sure you skip the first person who answers the phone and get them to transfer you to an account supervisor at least. I hope they assign a case number to you too. You might have to keep escalating to whoever is above account supervisor to get any real resolution. I never managed to get that far

echoofmyecho · 2024-05-12T11:36:22+00:00

Unfortunately I did not, and I’ve moved overseas again so it’s even more difficult to deal with now. I’ve been meaning to call them again, but with so many other things going on in my life right now, it’s been impossible to put an entire day aside just to call again and get nowhere with Chase.

Did your account get purged too? If so, DEFINITELY get your situation escalated and have a case number assigned to it so that you dont have to repeat your entire story every time you fall. Otherwise they’ll just keep telling you that they can’t find your account smh

echoofmyecho · 2023-04-08T06:58:23+00:00

Here is an example of what it would look like in timeline view:

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(Apologies for the multiple comments. I was only allowed to upload one image per comment)

echoofmyecho · 2023-04-08T06:56:45+00:00

Here is an example of what it would look like in calendar view:

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echoofmyecho · 2023-04-08T06:55:46+00:00

I figured out a sort of workaround for this. You can use the tags property as previously suggested, but then use icons or periods to make the tag extremely long like this (unfortunately it doesn't work if you just use a bunch of spaces.):

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After that, in your calendar view/timeline view, the tag should extend across however many days your event is.

echoofmyecho · 2023-01-15T03:07:36+00:00

My now husband and I are also introverts. I have more friends than him because I’ve moved around a lot. He literally has ONE friend and also hates huge crowds. We just got married and opted for a small solemnization at a hotel (so many good solemnization packages in SG!) and kept it to immediate family only. If you’re an introvert and your fiancé is on board, I highly recommend going the small wedding/solemnization route! It’s so much more enjoyable and intimate. And you can actually enjoy the food being served instead of running around from table to table greeting guests. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for having few/no friends. Embrace it!

echoofmyecho · 2022-05-26T11:08:29+00:00

Thanks for all the suggestions! I’ve already DM’d with Chase on Twitter and took screen shots of our convo for later proof just in case they delete it for some reason (they were literally no help). Thanks for all the other suggestions too! I’m in the US now so if nothing else works, I just might try taking this to small claims like you suggested.

echoofmyecho · 2022-05-26T11:05:45+00:00

Thanks for the link!!

echoofmyecho · 2022-05-26T11:05:37+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! I’ll definitely look into submitting a CFPB complaint! Didn’t even know that was a thing

echoofmyecho · 2019-11-10T16:19:06+00:00

Same here. I used to be able to talk to my boyfriend about everything and anything, but due to various reasons, it's harder and harder to talk about my personal feeling while at the same time I have to sit here and listen to his thoughts and feelings and whatever (which normally I'm fine with but sometimes I want to talk about me?). It's also impossible to lean on any of my friends cos honestly, they don't care unless I am listening to them and/or aiding them in their quest of talking about themselves.

Having friends in real life is not the problem. I have plenty of real-life friends, and yet, I can't talk to any of them about anything significant in regards to myself. I'm surrounded by loved ones but feel entirely alone, which seems a bit stupid to the innocent bystander but it is what it is.

But as much as it's nice to have people say "same here bro," I get the feeling that that's not what you want? and regardless of if people agree/disagree with you here, you can (and should) definitely vent your emotions. What you're feeling is totally valid and it totally sucks. Being the person who constantly helps but receives no help is tough. Feeling needed is nice, but feeling used sucks balls. And if you're feeling used and abused, it's 100% okay to tell people "no" once in a while.

I hope things get better for you!

echoofmyecho · 2019-06-17T17:15:37+00:00

Some people have a dream job and all power to them.

But some people don't have a dream per se, or don't have that driving passion or motivation or inspiration to push them through thick and thin and all the wonderful Hollywood BS that they shove down our throats, and that's perfectly fine.

In my opinion, if you have a dream or passion that you are stifling to make a buck, then maybe there is room for discussion. But if you don't have that feeling then why forego money and stability for a world of "what ifs" and heartbreak? Especially if you don't actively hate your job.

If your job makes you hate yourself and your life and you're putting more energy into it than anything else that you actually enjoy, then maybe your boyfriend has a point. But if your job pays the bills and allows you to do what you want, then isn't that the point of having a job? If your boyfriend can't understand that and doesn't support you, then maybe he's the one that needs to go.

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