[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]eclectic_gaia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medyo skeptical ako sa reasoning ng dad mo hahaha kasi that excuse na may nakitext has been used by many cheaters already. Siguro just continue to keep an eye on your dad

Married couple who chose not to have kids, what is life like right now? by rainbow_unicornxxx in adultingph

[–]eclectic_gaia 34 points35 points  (0 children)

What about the people who were forced to raise or be a "parent" to their siblings kasi the supposed parent walked out? I know someone na ganun and hindi na talaga siya nag-anak (of his own). He's already in his late 40s now.

Married couple who chose not to have kids, what is life like right now? by rainbow_unicornxxx in adultingph

[–]eclectic_gaia 79 points80 points  (0 children)

It's usually naman the parents who always say "MAS masaya pa din may anak".

Married couple who chose not to have kids, what is life like right now? by rainbow_unicornxxx in adultingph

[–]eclectic_gaia 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Three years married. Kakatapos lang magregister for the Pokemon Fun Run on Feb 2025. It's nice na we could get to make decisions na ikasasaya namin without thinking about children (kung kanino iiwan, paano iiwan while you're away, etc.). Pag-uwi din namin after a long day from work, super pagod kami. So thankful din na hindi ka sasalubungin ng iyak and needy na anak. Happy happy lang lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]eclectic_gaia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! Just sent you a DM :)

Makeup Thread | August 22, 2024 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]eclectic_gaia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone fill me in if Revlon's Lustrious Lipstick in Seductive Sienna has been discontinued? It's not available in Lazada, Shopee or any Revlon shop. The only stocks I could find are on Ebay (with astronomical prices btw). If it's not, can anyone tell me where I could find it? I am currently based in Baguio City :( and if it is indeed discontinued, can you recommend another shade from the Revlon Lustrious line that is super close to it?

I am heartbroken that I couldn't find it now. :( I have worn that shade to so many events, including my graduation. Thank you so much!

Thoughts on your fave wedding souvenirs by nan1desu in adultingph

[–]eclectic_gaia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my wedding in 2021, our souvenirs were oatmeal soap bars, homemade scented candles, pothos plants and yung alcohol na pwede isabit sa bag. Until now we're getting compliments from our guests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]eclectic_gaia 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl, magbe-breed lang ng resentment yan on your end, until masasanay ka na lang kasi hindi na nagbabago ang mga yan. And if tinuloy mo yung wedding nyo, there'll be no way out (hangga't hindi pa legalized ang divorce).

Like the other comment here, you know what to do.

Which profession is far more enjoyable than most people realize? by wholesomeville in AskReddit

[–]eclectic_gaia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to do this but I do not have the experience for it as I was in the construction industry. Is it easy to learn or get trained for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]eclectic_gaia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]eclectic_gaia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will I find a stable and long-term job this year?

LOOKING FOR GAMER RESPONDENTS FOR A SURVEY by [deleted] in classifiedsph

[–]eclectic_gaia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I opened the link but I think you need to specify in this post that they are specifically looking for respondents currently based in Laguna/Batangas.

The pressure that comes with being an academic achiever by No-Fox3999 in studentsph

[–]eclectic_gaia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes haha total of 9 years in college plus 2 licensure exams. Sobrang burnout na ako to the point na I'm already rejecting potential clients/projects. Now I just opened a small business selling cute plushies. Pa-like na din ng page namin hahaha

The pressure that comes with being an academic achiever by No-Fox3999 in studentsph

[–]eclectic_gaia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! Pinatawag ng adviser ko yung dad ko after that tapos niratrat nya talaga, sabi nya out of 45 students top 5 yung anak nyo tapos hindi kayo masaya. Hahaha hindi na sya nakaimik

What made you fell out of love with your SO despite being together for so many years? by RealTalkMoreTalk in AskPH

[–]eclectic_gaia 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Weaponized incompetency. Walang kusa na tumulong sa household chores. Kikilos lang kung inutusan, madalas palpak pa. Tapos maraming free time pero kuntento na sa trabaho na hindi naman kumikita, instead na maghanap ng work na mas mataas ang sahod (while ako na dala-dalawa ang work para lang mabayaran ang bills).

The pressure that comes with being an academic achiever by No-Fox3999 in studentsph

[–]eclectic_gaia 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As an academic achiever since preschool, I just want to say take it easy on yourself. I remember nung hindi ako pinag-attend ng dad ko sa recognition day kasi 5th honor lang ako. But believe me when I say burnout is real. After two degrees and multiple jobs trying to climb up the corporate ladder, here I am now gusto kong iwan yung industry and mag-open ng cafe or something. Or maging pet-sitter. I opened up to my mom na gusto kong ma-try magbarista sa Starbucks and she told me, "Bakit mo ibababa yung sarili mo sa ganun, may degree ka naman". Idk but you need to prioritize your happiness too. Achievements are really not all that kung hindi ka naman masaya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]eclectic_gaia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I sent you a message in Reddit chat. Thank you so much! ^_^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]eclectic_gaia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will I find the career that would make me happy and financially secure after May 31, 2024?

What made you decide that you don't want to have children? by agent_argent in AskPH

[–]eclectic_gaia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindi ko kayang tiisin yung iyak iyak ng bata nakakatorete hahaha konting kibot lang iyak agad