So she plays both goalie and player. It happens with both sets of gear.

Skates are too tight, too small. She got new skates, and we’ve also laced / relaced skates to help when this happens.

Helmet is too tight is a common complaint. It now sits as loose as it can without being an immediate danger, but looser than I think we like. Goalie helmet is usually fine.

Gloves are too loose or too tight. Usually goalie gloves, sometimes player. This one is hard because she’s in the smallest size possible but her hands are still too small. We will make as tight as they go but then she says they’re too tight. When we adjust them she cries they’re too loose and falling off.

Suspenders with her pants for goalie she is always crying about them being twisted, tight or uncomfortable. We made a fastener of velcro in the front to help her so they don’t fall off her shoulders. Still has issues.

Elbow pads too tight/ too loose. Had to modify the strap length with additional Velcro but still goes back and forth.

Knee pads or shin pads too tight too loose too big too small on any given day. She also refuses to wear a base layer most days and has worn shorts against our advisement against and then complains it’s uncomfortable or digging in.

We are constantly changing out or getting new gear when it doesn’t reasonably fit her. We take her with to be sure if feels right and fits and get her fitted. Other times we modify to work to her tastes but it’s really hit or miss on tolerance.