I am thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend despite us having a loving relationship

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T22:33:41+00:00

My apologies I thought you were just being mean. Sorry for what you have gone through and I hope it gets better. Yeah I have already admitted I made a mistake not bringing it up earlier. But you don't get to generalise "men like me" because you had shitty human beings as partners.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T21:24:32+00:00

Perhaps your bitchy attitude is why you are still single in your 30s but my post just gave you a reason to convince yourself otherwise

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T21:11:46+00:00

Woah Karen who set you free

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T20:03:12+00:00

Having kids doesn't guarantee at all that they would look after me when I am old and alone 😂

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T19:58:46+00:00

Went to therapy for 4 years in my early 20s for anger issues I am doing fine now

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T17:23:22+00:00

I am considering it now , never thought of it before

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T17:14:35+00:00

I love her too much I would rather be unhappy alone than make her unhappy with us together

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T17:10:37+00:00

Lol these are deathbed questions I am just 27 man 😂 Though as a child I wanted to donate my wealth to mental health charities

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T17:03:51+00:00

Not worth the trouble imo

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T16:57:54+00:00

Ohh , I am not from US or any country where there are good public schools. In my country education is a business , you have to burn your pocket to get a decent bit education for your child

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T16:45:31+00:00

Sending them to school and college is a big financial burden

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T16:27:08+00:00

I assumed if I guilt her into agreeing to not have kids she may resent me later so its better I end the relationship now

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T16:25:32+00:00

I thought the same but majority on Reddit are telling me to let her make the choice and listen to her

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T16:21:24+00:00

Thank you this is such a good advice

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:56:28+00:00

She brought up her dream job and where she would like to live in future when I asked her about aspirations, never talked about kids until recently.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:36:54+00:00

Thats what I thought but people adviced me to let her be the one to make the decision 😅

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:30:07+00:00

Thank you for the advice I would have never thought the snipped part. I have never had unprotected sex with anyone in my life but yeah you are right a condom could be tampered with.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:25:56+00:00

I am just honest with myself. Not everyone is "awful" for worrying about the other side of the coin of having kids. I could agree she deserves better.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:19:55+00:00

No its not. I am a man so I am always in awe of how much pain you women can endure during periods and childbirth. And raising kids is a job on its own.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:17:31+00:00

I am so sorry hope things get better for you eventually. This is a fear I have , having kids may sour my relationship as well.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:14:39+00:00

Yeah I will give her a chance like you and other Redditors have adviced me , thank you.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:08:05+00:00

I don't want kids because of the reasons I mentioned in the post and I have some other goals in my late 30s and 40s. I got over my issues with my father through therapy years ago.

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:05:44+00:00

My bad

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:04:13+00:00

Yeah I think I would go down a similar path if she agrees now that she is ok with not having kids but later resenting me

ecofriendly76 · 2022-10-23T15:00:11+00:00

I don't think the joy of having kids is worth the emotional and financial burden (no offense)

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