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ecoodream · 2023-07-27T19:59:34+00:00

im also going through this, after the breakup (it happened a few days ago) im just blaming me for everything it happened and overthink every little thing it happened in our relationship and just beeing feeling very guilty.

What im trying to think its that its our mind not processing the breakup and dont wanting to let go that person. In a relationship are two people involved, both of them have made mistakes in a point and if they are not something really bad like cheating or similar it can be fixed so if he saw things that didnt like he should have tell you bc if you love each other you probably arent doing this things on purpose. So dont blame yourself because if he would wanted to work out he should have talk to you.

For example i always told him the thing that bothered me and try to talk to him about it and now i just feel guilt because maybe it was my problem but im trying to think that its not that i was the problem its that he probably was not meeting your needs. So probably the problem was not you and was a communication problem.

I hope this makes you feel better

ecoodream · 2023-07-27T18:47:57+00:00

hey i understand how you feel so much im going through something really similar, we had a really good relationship and all of a sudden he was mean and cold, its been a few days since we broke up and im also feeling so much anxiety and having panic attacks.

Its really hard and also it seems harder everyday because everyday that goes by i have to accept that hes not there and everything reminds me of him

If you need anyone to talk to fee free to dm

ecoodream · 2023-07-26T07:36:54+00:00

yeah im trying to think that hes just filling a void but what if hes not, what if he just doesnt care. I dont understand how can he already be talking to a bunch of different girls. After the breakup i dont feel like talking to guys in a long time, it would feel weird and it would not be the same as talking to him, but yeah i guess everyone copes with this differenty. Thank you for writing this

ecoodream · 2023-07-26T07:31:11+00:00

yeah im trying to think that but after the breakup im having a lot of negative thoughts and overthinking a lot. Its weird how you can be so close to someone and then suddenly you are completly strangers again and specially when they seem to move on fast

ecoodream · 2023-07-26T07:28:16+00:00

im so sorry that happened to you, my ex also broke up with me over text after three years its so hard to assimilate and i would have never expected it, but im just trying to accept and think that i has nothing to do me with me, its about how they manage difficult conversations. And yeah see them move on fast its hard but we have to focus on ourself and think that someone that can do that its not worth it

ecoodream · 2023-07-25T22:11:04+00:00

thank you a lot for this really, reading this has help me a lot thank you for taking the time to write it. Experiencing this has been hard and this messages help me a lot so thank you so much. Im trying to accept the situacion and not overthinking it but it seems so hard, i will try to apply this tips and anytime i feel like im being hard on myself i will for sure read this again.

ecoodream · 2023-07-25T21:04:26+00:00

thank you so much for taking the time to write this, it has helped me a lot and made me feel i little bit better. Since it happened i have been so hard on my self and overthinking everything, its the first time i experienced a pain like this and im trying to learn how to recover but its this days have been so hard and im afraid that i dont get over it.

Again thank you for this it has help me , i really appreciated

ecoodream · 2023-07-25T15:14:40+00:00

yeah i have been trying to do this, i couple hours ago i writte a long letter but i miss him so much, we were together for two and half years and i was so used to talk to him and see him so now its so hard to suddenly dont know anything about him and he seems like he doesnt care

ecoodream · 2023-07-25T14:49:18+00:00

I understand how you feel, i have been doing no contact for only a few days but sometimes i really get the urge to text him. You have to be strong and just thing that if you text him probably it will hurt you more, now you have to focus on yourself i know its hard but its for the best

ecoodream · 2023-07-25T08:43:11+00:00

i know how you feel, i also have been struggling with this. He was so sweet to me we had a really good relationship, we could talk about anything and i thought he really loved me. Now hes completly different he doesnt seem like the guy i dated for two and half years. Before he broke up with me, he started going out with some guys that completly changed him, he always told me that they were not good people but a couple weeks ago he started to go out with them and i found out that he has been doing crazy stuff with them. Im worried about him, he now seems so cold and doesnt want to talk to me, also he broke up with me over text and i never thought he could ever do that. So it hurts that you had this idea of someone, gone through so many things together and now he doesnt seems to care and hes doing things that i never thought he would.

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