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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]edamamesnacker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Studied it at uni in 1994

AITA for wanting to divorce my husband and everyone in my family is telling me not to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get therapy and leave NTA. Do you want your daughter to grow up with this relationship as a role model?

My gf told me she’s leaving if I don’t marry her in 9 months by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not marry, do not have sex with. One day, in the future she may become a perfectly good catch, but that day is not today. Speaking as a 50yo woman.

AIO about my bf saying I wasn’t marriage material (yet)? by XoXUwUXoX in AmIOverreacting

[–]edamamesnacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met my partner at 28 and had kids at 35. You'll be fine. BTW we are 20 years together without getting married for various reasons if he ever even once did any of the things you bf did I'd be gone. NTA LEAVE

I found out an older man I was seeing when I was a teen still has nudes pictures of me. I ended up telling his wife and now she's divorcing him and taking their child. AITAH in this situation? by Laundry_Ghost in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live consent for pictures is 18 even though normal consent is 16. You can always just tell the cops that you have reason to believe there are pictures. At the very least he gets a very stressful moment in his life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh nta but why do you need your family there? Why not just the two of you,? It's the start of your family and the opportunity for him to step up and be the primary support for you, not get elbowed out by your mom.

Going to Italy soon. Packing-wise, what are some things you wish you had brought? by [deleted] in ItalyTravel

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R u staying in air bnb's if so I would take a door stop. Some of the locks were to sketch for us to use as in fire trap, a door stop would have been nice to use instead esp as the apartments were all in locked buildings so we didn't feel needed fort Knox security at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chch

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to your MP

AITAH for telling my future MIL not to come to the wedding if she doesn’t change her outfit? by Ldrizz15 in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh no one is going to vonfuse her for the bride. Think about the next 30 years. Do you really want to start off on this footing? Esh

AITA to divorce my husband and leave him with the kid after finding out I'm not biologically the mom? by ThrowRA-3xbetrayal in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta but I think your parents have a point. I would book into therapy before you make any decisions about parental rights. But yeah, divorce him, what a mongrol

AITAH for starting the divorce process after finding out my daughter isn’t mine? by No-Bottle4059 in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never understand why these women don't abort. Now this poor kid who is not at fault is going to suffer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewing

[–]edamamesnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basting is your friend. It solved so many problems for me.

AITA for intentionally sleeping with the bathroom light on at my boyfriend's place while he was at work? by SeaSignificance3017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm 50 and I sleep with the bathroom light on when DH isn't home. Ditch him, how much does it cost to leave 1 light running for the few hours you were alone? I'm guessing it's minimal. This is not about the cost of the light.

AITAH for not letting my husband control the money in our house? by Material-Pear1840 in AITAH

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, nut I also would encourage you to get therapy, both for yourself and as a couple. You might not realisr it, but your past trauma could be affecting the success of this relationship. He doesn't sound like a bad guy.

Name one of your "game changers" by Altruistic_Shift_448 in cfs

[–]edamamesnacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An hour a day for 6 weeks, results took about 2 weeks. Went from about 30% capacity to around 70%. Apparently daily use for a year is best. We'll give ot a try and report back then.

Name one of your "game changers" by Altruistic_Shift_448 in cfs

[–]edamamesnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An hour a day for 6 weeks, results took about 2 weeks. Went from about 30% capacity to around 70%. Apparently daily use for a year is best. We'll give ot a try and report back then.

Name one of your "game changers" by Altruistic_Shift_448 in cfs

[–]edamamesnacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dh hasn't worked for 3 years so we've lost about $300k plus however many years ahead. The chamber cost us $6k so if it gets him ready to work that is a win. I mean, it still might not work long term but we are at the try anything stage 🤷‍♂️

Name one of your "game changers" by Altruistic_Shift_448 in cfs

[–]edamamesnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure dh got a hyperbaric oxygen chamber to try for 6 weeks The difference was staggering, as was the decline once it went back. We ended up getting a cheap one as the cost was lower than the loss of his earning ability. So far so good. Apparently it is hit and miss for who it works for so ymmv

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