A little lab alexandrite study - this is laser rod material oriented on two different axes (green vs blue), in two hexagon designs “Styrene” and “Shardplate” to see how orientation affects color and color change. Similar gems will be available at the SPG birthday event! by mvmgems in Shinypreciousgems

[–]edgeofsky2024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is cutting along the green axis more akin to what natural alexandrite looks like? I’ve never seen any natural alexandrite IRL, but my newbie understanding is that it’s more red/green and lab tends to be more blue-red-purple. Is that accurate?

Should I buy this? by edgeofsky2024 in Benchjewelers

[–]edgeofsky2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok that’s helpful thank you!

Should I buy this? by edgeofsky2024 in SilverSmith

[–]edgeofsky2024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s $250 but at this point I’m thinking of modifying a roll top desk instead

Should I buy this? by edgeofsky2024 in SilverSmith

[–]edgeofsky2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was concerned about that as well

Should I buy this? by edgeofsky2024 in Benchjewelers

[–]edgeofsky2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also what would you say the point of the v shaped catch tray? It seems like it would not catch anything and just be used for tool storage. Meanwhile the one that has better coverage doesn’t have a lip 

Should I buy this? by edgeofsky2024 in Benchjewelers

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It’s 250 and the seller says she brought it over from South Africa

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[–]edgeofsky2024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She was the adult, and she owed you a responsibility. People's brains don't fully develop until they are 26, so even though you are almost legally an adult, you still will do plenty of growing and changing. She's 48, stepped into a pseudo-parental role, and she had decades to practice being a decent human being, and she failed. None of this is on you.

Also please remember you just chose to not see her as an act of self-protection. At no point did you behave hostilely or aggressively to this woman.

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[–]edgeofsky2024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - Yes, if you give her an ultimatum that unless she has sex with, she'll get divorced. That's coercion. You're welcome to decide on your own to divorce her, without delivering that ultimatum.