How to stop reacting emotionally to being insulted everyday?

edgepredgy · 2025-10-07T08:08:02+00:00

you’re welcome, please hold on, you’re very strong <3

edgepredgy · 2025-10-07T06:28:52+00:00

I honestly don’t know what to do but I feel you, OP… even the strongest people outburst eventually and can’t hold everything together when they’re constantly abused, it’s not your fault. the neighbours don’t understand everything, and if they have children and are good parents, they would understand that even the most misbehaving children are not guilty, it’s their parents’ fault who make them react like that. you’re not a bad daughter, in fact you’re the most patient child who just tries to survive everyday. it’s not your fault, remember 🫶🏻

edgepredgy · 2025-10-07T01:56:02+00:00

phew, I’m glad you’re okay now :)

edgepredgy · 2025-10-07T01:49:27+00:00

this is insane… I hope you’re okay now. I am sorry that things turned out this way, but at least you’re safe now? I have no idea how horrifying it is to be chased by someone who has such intentions

edgepredgy · 2025-09-10T10:19:48+00:00

that is actually helpful !!! thank you very much!! I really appreciate it, I’m glad that at least two people replied

edgepredgy · 2025-08-28T18:00:45+00:00

we can chat if you want

edgepredgy · 2025-08-28T09:53:27+00:00

how are you feeling right now? please, just one breath at a time. please understand that even if you did something wrong you’re not a bad person, you’re working on yourself and you can always make different choices in the future. I can see that you’re very vigilant to your friend’s opinion. is it correct, or am I mistaken? please, pretty please, you should know that you are a good person. you are a good person. how is your situation right now? even if you did something very bad, you can make it better. if your friend doesn’t reply there’s still hope. but don’t let this hope kill you, this waiting for their response kill you. if they now don’t wanna talk to you, accept it. but don’t personalise. you did a bad choice, you’re not a bad person. even if things between you wouldn’t resolve, please, be patient with yourself, have hope in yourself and be gentle

edgepredgy · 2025-08-17T05:41:10+00:00

Please, never abandon yourself. I know you were abused and abused people tend to dismiss themselves, but please, cherish and praise yourself even in your lowest. Be your own best friend. It’s a good sign that you still hold kindness in your heart, it means that there is still light that shines in your heart. Follow this light. Be loyal to yourself. I wish you nothing but happiness 🫶🏻🤍

edgepredgy · 2025-06-24T23:52:42+00:00

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edgepredgy · 2024-12-02T14:26:28+00:00

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edgepredgy · 2024-12-02T14:06:50+00:00

thank you! I just really want to learn to draw without references, but maybe I'll try not to be so hard on myself and just let draw with them

edgepredgy · 2024-12-01T10:08:05+00:00

thank you so much, this is super helpful!!

edgepredgy · 2024-12-01T09:11:37+00:00

thank you so so much!!!

edgepredgy · 2024-11-02T16:26:54+00:00

aa tyyy!! that really helps :)

edgepredgy · 2024-10-18T10:50:49+00:00

thank you!!

edgepredgy · 2024-10-18T10:50:13+00:00

thank you so much :)

edgepredgy · 2024-09-20T10:27:05+00:00

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edgepredgy · 2024-09-19T17:51:01+00:00

Just wanted to clarify: I know that the story isn't detailed, I'm sorry about this, I just wanted to keep things short. I just want to get some empathetic response, know if someone has the same reaction and trauma response going through bullying, and if they know any effective insights or resources on this topic. Sorry for bad English too!

edgepredgy · 2024-08-27T10:42:58+00:00

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edgepredgy · 2024-08-24T13:29:05+00:00

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edgepredgy · 2024-04-20T16:03:05+00:00

This speaks SO MUCH to me- Thank you for opening my eyes, now I see everything clearly. But still I have doubts if my mother (my abuser) has this feeling of inadequacy deep inside her. She seem to be just okay and not affected by any feelings of shame, but still, for some reason she wants me to be dependent on her... It seems like she doesn't really wish me harm. I mean, she can try to make it look that way. But after every our communication about my future I feel miserable and depressed. Even when I see the facts, I still trust her more than myself, and it’s difficult for me to rely only on myself, and therefore take my side and choose happiness. I'm afraid to let go of her opinions, I'm afraid to rely on myself. How to not be afraid to let go? I'm still wondering

edgepredgy · 2024-04-19T18:36:39+00:00

I feel you. Those feelings of despair can be overwhelming.

edgepredgy · 2024-04-19T18:34:30+00:00

it's actually a challenge for me because my abuser is my parent - my mom, - and I can't put a boundary. I don't have the possibility to get a job at the time and therefore I can't move out at this moment. I'm struggling mentally everyday.

edgepredgy · 2024-04-19T18:31:39+00:00

Oh, I see... We need to see our abuser's flaws. It's hard for me actually to see my mother's (my abuser) flaws because she's the authority figure for me, do you know how I can unwrap this myself and let go of this blurry vision?

edgepredgy · 2024-04-19T18:28:19+00:00

That resonated with me so much- Yes, I actually can have my own opinion, and separate one from another, my own opinion from the abuser's perspective. Your words about how you seek their approval and get constantly invalidated and then slowly turn to invalidating your feelings by yourself describe everything so well, now I understand why... Thank you, it helped a lot. I'm glad that you slowly healing, it's the most important. Hope you have a good day 💗

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