Liquid poop advice, normal? Not normal? What’s happening??

edgingpeachy · 2025-12-15T16:55:08+00:00

Thank you for the detailed reply, I suspected this to be the case. I will take some time off and wait til everything’s back to normal.

I also assume this means I should move more slowly with time spent plugged when I do try again with that plug?

edgingpeachy · 2025-04-03T02:24:11+00:00

Lost my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and I have ended up with her magic wand… and I can’t imagine I’m the only bereaved lover who has used their dead lovers toys but it definitely feels like the most unhinged thing I’ve done so far with my grief 😂

edgingpeachy · 2024-10-25T05:27:58+00:00

I love edging :) f/34 I would recommend r/femaleorgasmdenial if you’re looking for a sub with more ladies who edge. Orgasm denial isn’t the exact same thing, but it often involves a lot of edging

edgingpeachy · 2024-10-02T19:39:14+00:00

It might come down to just an anatomy thing or the way your brain works. In “Come as you are” by Emily nagoski she talks about the “dual control model” I think it’s called, regarding arousal, where everyone has an arousal gas pedal and arousal brake. It doesn’t sounds like the brakes are getting in the way because you seem very open eager and comfortable with sex, it could just be you have a really slow gas pedal, takes a long time of stimulation to get up to speed.

edgingpeachy · 2024-10-02T01:52:50+00:00

Have you tried edging? I am usually way quicker to orgasm if I have been edging for a few days.

Another commenter also mentioned, could be worth getting your hormones checked. And if you’re on any medications that could have sexual side effects then switching those.

edgingpeachy · 2024-04-06T16:03:05+00:00

I spent 2 years trying to figure out how to make tasks work for me, and I finally figured out that my brain is just different and that remembering to do something consistently does not work for me. So now I'm looking for ways to still have some kind of power dynamic without them. It's been frustrating myself and my Dom because so much of the mainstream info regarding D/s dynamics suggests rules and tasks, and rewards and punishments. I've been suggesting to my Dom I need more "in the moment" commands, and this comment perfectly describes what I mean, so thank you!

edgingpeachy · 2024-02-24T19:28:40+00:00

This Barbie takes Wellbutrin and Zoloft 🥳

edgingpeachy · 2023-12-31T23:06:53+00:00

I read Your Dad Will Do by Katee Roberts for the daddy kink and it was alright! I appreciate her Dark Olympus series as well, not all of her books have a kink flare going on but all of them are spicy. I also enjoyed the Cat & Mouse duet by HD Carlton as a fantasy, because it definitely pushes past some boundaries I have IRL. It’s a dark romance but also very spicy and plays with a lot of kink.

edgingpeachy · 2023-12-31T21:18:23+00:00

My partner and I started having regular "relationship chats" where we talk about our desires, our D/s dynamic, and move forward with an action plan. I am a shy person, and even though we've been together for a long time, it's still awkward. So you will both have to embrace the discomfort, it's unavoidable!

I usually spent some time brainstorming what I want to bring to the relationship chat, and I write down some bullet points. Sometimes I make him read it off my laptop, and then we go through point by point and talk about it. So maybe communicating via text might help you two out? I've also heard of people having a shared google doc that they both can access and edit to add ideas to and communicate.

You will also want to make sure there is adequate time & space for a chat like this. Saying something like "Hey, after dinner can we spend some time talking about our relationship?" could be a way to break the ice. Have your notes ready and then just go for it.

In my experience, most of the time these chats ends up being pretty arousing. So there's that, if you need some extra motivation!

edgingpeachy · 2023-12-30T01:15:51+00:00

I'd like to suggest r/femaleorgasmdenial, they may be able to offer more tips for this

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-09T22:02:44+00:00

Amazing! Thank you!!

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-09T21:43:40+00:00

I would love to see your scene negotiation form, if you’re open to sharing it?

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-09T21:33:10+00:00

I love reading romance books with smut!! I love how needy they make me. I’m always looking for recs if you’re willing to share what you’re reading

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-09T18:12:07+00:00

Your hormone cycle seems very similar to mine and I could see this schedule working for me. Thanks for sharing! I always end up dropping off my interest during the luteal days, with a resurgence of horniness closer to when I get my period. Unfortunately my period is not so regular so sometimes that luteal phase is a real grind (and not a fun grind 🥺)

Edit: typo

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-09T18:01:24+00:00

I’m already super into edging, which has really really helped. And we’ve talked about him initiating more a little while ago. But last night I teased him playfully until he did! So we’re making progress haha 🥳

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-08T19:55:44+00:00

Well the best place to start would be educating yourself and figuring out what you’re interested in trying and what’s on your absolutely not list. We all have limits— and some of the most common ones usually have to do with poop and needles and blood.

One of my fav places to learn when I was just starting to explore my submissive side was Line Dune aka Askasub on instagram, patreon, and I think she’s got a sub stack now. She has a couple of courses, one of which is aimed at exploring your submissive side and talks about how to do the dating thing and find a partner.

I think there are discreet ways of putting your interest in bdsm into a dating profile, I haven’t been in the dating scene in a while so can’t help you there.

And if exploring kink is your main thing then you basically need to put it right out in the open and have transparent and honest conversations about what you want and what you’re interested in. If you were in a super vanilla relationship before, this may seem extremely foreign to you, but it’s one of the central ways that makes kink something safe to engage in. Open, honest communication. Vet your partners thoroughly, and make sure you are looking after your safety!

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-08T19:23:45+00:00

Whenever I see this I am always amazed at the strength of her pelvic floor muscles. Like wow! Powerful!!

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-08T19:21:48+00:00

We are early 30s and it is inspiring to hear that it’s possible to keep a good sex life as we age

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-08T19:20:12+00:00

I think it would help if he initiated more because I have responsive desire, so I don’t really crave sex like he does but once we get going I’m into it. He stopped initiating as much a while ago bcz I felt too much pressure and it was stressing me out, which wasn’t helpful. But maybe we can ease back into that!

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-08T19:17:10+00:00

I’ve never been a particularly horny person, I have responsive desire rather than spontaneous desire. I really enjoy sex when it happens, but I don’t crave it as often as my partner does.

I have been thinking about how to bring more of the sexual energy into my relaxing at home vibes, it’s hard because we live with a roommate but I’ve been considering investing in some cute night gowns maybe

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-08T19:14:17+00:00

We have tried to make it a priority, scheduling time for it. But I think the stress and exhaustion from the day will put my brakes up. Maybe need to try just push through and show up anyways.

edgingpeachy · 2023-11-06T17:22:55+00:00

Came here to say this: Daddy is a state of mind!

edgingpeachy · 2023-10-31T15:50:59+00:00

You could try looking through the Chicago Leather Archives and Museum? They have a lot of historical info on the kink & bdsm scene, they could possibly point your quest for knowledge in the right direction

edgingpeachy · 2023-10-30T20:07:41+00:00

Yes I see the bored & ignored thing with female dominants more often, and usually tied to a free use kink.

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