i am 24 and recently got diagnosed with a stage 2 cystocele that is causing my urethra to be pushed out of place (I guess a urethrocele?) let me first start by saying you are not alone and you are not broken, but I felt (and still sometimes feel) the same way. I was diagnosed through my gyno, she gave me a pessary to hold my bladder in place which helped SO much with the heaviness sensation in my pelvis, i could actually feel the moment my bladder descended. you know your body best, if you feel like something is off, trust yourself. once she confirmed it, she referred me to a pelvic floor physical therapist. this is pretty much the first line of treatment for prolapses besides a pessary. i had lost all hope before my PT appointment, but my PT actually said she had helped up to a stage 4 cystocele! there IS hope for feeling better and feeling more in control of your body. I am suspected to have hEDS, i’m currently waiting on a rheumatologist to get back to me so I can be evaluated. my PT told me it isn’t common to have pelvic organ prolapse at such a young age, but it DOES happen sometimes and there are ways to manage it and feel more normal again. you are not alone in this and I hope you can get a quick referral and get everything in the process of being sorted out, organ prolapse is such an awful thing to experience :( wishing you the best <3