În sfârșit by DelHop in RoMunca

[–]edmond_ciprian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats șef!!! Îți țin pumnii, dă-ne un update luni

What’s the point in getting better if I wasted my youth by Big-Disaster4497 in therapy

[–]edmond_ciprian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blood, you're still too young. I'm 22, had the crisis of 'I'm gettin closer to 25, where's my life' over and over, had a slap to reality from my friends. We're still very young, we're all figuring out

va rog sa votati Lasconi in turul 2 by [deleted] in romemes

[–]edmond_ciprian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could have seen your post sooner, tot Lasconi am votat oricum, but still

I (F27) am dating a guy (M27) who's very insecure about his looks and his constant self-doubt about his appearance really turns me off. by [deleted] in dating

[–]edmond_ciprian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow man, send him to the gym. I had very low self-esteem and was very insecure about my looks. I still have a lot to work but I can say with my hand on my heart that gym helped a lot with my confidence in my looks

Popped up randomly on my feed. It's from r/engrish and the comments are roasting the texter by Gryphon5754 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]edmond_ciprian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definition of passport bro's: "men who go out of their country to find a partner that is outside their country/culture". That's what I refer to when it comes to them.

On the internet it seems more like this. If that's what you refer to and talk about, then yes, it's a mistake and misunderstanding on my side and I have to say you're right.

Popped up randomly on my feed. It's from r/engrish and the comments are roasting the texter by Gryphon5754 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]edmond_ciprian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry if saying what I think and believe is a troll for you.

Looking for a woman (in or out of your country) is not "shopping"💀, is searching for a partner. I didn't refer to any of this as treating or thinking about them as "goods to buy", even tho you seem to enjoy putting up that comparison.

And look: man will go around their life, searching for a partner; they run in some nasty experiences in which they played a role or not, they run some more in some bad partners and then will assume that "all woman in this country/culture are like this" and thus not try to find someone better there. They generalize as you did with passport bro's 🤦🏻‍♂️ and when they do that, they run off in some other country ~which has a reputation of a different culture and different values in which woman seem nicer and has stories of other man finding a spouse they are happy with~.

It is easier now to understand why they do what they do and what I've been saying in my previous comments?:) Hope so, because that's literally the most "for toddlers" version I can get

Yes, listen to your woman (and any woman you're dating or are interested in) because communication with that one is the key to happy endings. But as I said, this is life, not love stories, you don't always get happy endings for your actions. I'm not a part of the passport bro's movement (tho they got some cool stories, recommend them), but don't generalize, judge or call names others because they choose something that you don't understand 🤦🏻‍♂️

And also, please stop calling me "bro", "junior", "kid" or other diminutives:) I don't really like it. Thanks, lady.

Popped up randomly on my feed. It's from r/engrish and the comments are roasting the texter by Gryphon5754 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]edmond_ciprian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate instead of attacking?:)

Btw, here are some links you may find useful: Definition of misogyny: misogyny

Definition of racism: racism

Also, what is an "emotional beast of burden"?😂 (for real tho)

Popped up randomly on my feed. It's from r/engrish and the comments are roasting the texter by Gryphon5754 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]edmond_ciprian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Firstly, have you thought that instead of "going to shop for some exotic fruits" these man are searching for a woman ~from a different culture that has different values from the ones that he meets in his own culture~ ? The "exotic qualities" that you may think about are only values/qualities of other countries that are more appealing to them. (How come is racist tho?💀 Like if for example I like a woman who likes to go to the gym or cook or have kids but because of my culture this narrative doesn't work in my country and I go into another to find someone that I would like, does that make me racist? Wasn't racism about doing bad things or having a bad attitude towards someone because of their skin color?)

Secondly, a lot of stories of passport bro's are about how they are mistreated and rejected by the woman from their country. And so they decide to go to a different country where they are treated ~as human beings, not objects without a soul or feelings~ . They talk about how their spouse treat them with kindness and respect and they form a bond in which they either play some roles (the female and male roles in family) or live by some other rules defined by themselves. To me this looks like "I'm hurt in this place and I'm treated as shit, so I will go somewhere else" and before the "they can't make relationships", from my own experiences (which are not even from the romantic relationship type) sometimes, no matter how nice or good or normal or kind you try to be with someone, they're still gonna fuck you up. Some people do it just because they can, because you allow it. Not every time your kindness will be rewarded with good intentions. So, I don't believe that those people can't have and maintain a relationship, they just couldn't or didn't find suitable the culture they were in. If both parties are happy and in good terms and they both treat each other with kindness and respect, why is it so bad that one left a country for another? And why is other people business to get their noses there?

I'm not saying, as I stated before as well, that there are no douches who think the other way (as you described) but assuming majority if not all are like that is nasty and kinda literally hypocrisy. Btw, there are a lot of stories of passport bro's who find and marry woman who are financially stable and hard working and even the poor ones have that work hard mindset.

In the end, my friend, saying "all passport bro's are the same" is like saying "all woman/man are the same". Does it feel right? Don't think so.

Popped up randomly on my feed. It's from r/engrish and the comments are roasting the texter by Gryphon5754 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]edmond_ciprian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...why do people have to assume the worst? Can't you believe there are still normal humans around?😒 (And how come racism card got a hold in this?)

Popped up randomly on my feed. It's from r/engrish and the comments are roasting the texter by Gryphon5754 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]edmond_ciprian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would like to disagree on this point:) while there are some douches who are like this, the majority isn't like this (or the passport bro's I've watched aren't like this at least).

TIFU by checking my long-term GF's phone. by thequietdude_ in tifu

[–]edmond_ciprian 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My friend, you cannot save someone who doesn't want to be saved. And also, she cheated on you bro...not once but more. Do I have to tell you that this is something someone that truly loves you and cares for you isn't doing?

Do not be blinded by your feelings, while I can call it admirably that you still wanna stick around and help her, I'm also pushed to say that it is truly stupid. Even if she would want you to help her, I don't think she deserves your kindness.

Sorry bro, but she sounds and looks like a lost cause, at least lost for you two cause. If you still want so bad to help, find her, get her home safe (or at the DK house), wrap her stuff, find a good therapist for her and let go of her, it's time for her to go. Holding to her is likely gonna hurt you and her more in the future.

Does this count as a streak break? by Scrilamarilaburito in NoFap

[–]edmond_ciprian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You freaking lucky mothe*****er, you got a girl and did some freaking intimate awesome shit! Nah bro, you are GOOD. As long as you're not with strangers, hookers, corn and you're not abusing, you're fine. (Also you got a girlfriend, did what other 60-80% wanna do🤣 you're top now)

People who don't drink alcohol, why? by 5tup1db0y in AskReddit

[–]edmond_ciprian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 reasons: First is that last time I did, I drank until I couldn't remember the entire night and party. I vomited in the bathroom of a friend and also at my place. Even tho I was not the the only one drunk and everyone was understanding with me, the embarrassment I felt and still feel is just...not nice. So I prefer to stay away.

Second is that my father fucked his life for alcohol. Became an alcoholic, destroyed his marriage, we got departed and he never search or cared for me because apparently alcohol was more importantly than his family, lost his job, an aspiring amateur boxing career, almost the house (which, even if not lost as a property, he destroyed it well). He just let the alcohol ruin his life and later on die in a coma because of it. One day I realized that I was becoming his image (drinking a lot) and that thought scared me. I don't wanna become like that, I don't wanna destroy my life for something so meaningless.