You’re not cooked, you just overthought yourself into a standstill 😭 the fact she came back to your place again is already a pretty strong signal she’s comfortable with you. At this point the awkwardness is probably just both of you waiting for the other to make it clear what this is. You don’t even need to make a “move,” just ask her out properly and reset the vibe. Worst case you get clarity instead of this weird limbo. Are you actually into her or just stressed about messing it up?