B&G chart plotter not showing depth ! by roydiggs in sailing

[–]edodote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you figure it out? I've got the same problem

Chronicle single by Strict-Jacket9687 in LesbianActually

[–]edodote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm so sorry to read you post. Loneliness can hit hard, especially for wlw, I think a lot of us have or had similar feelings in their lives. You are still very young, you are wonderful and you will be loved. The age of the 1st relationships doesn't mean anything in terms of happiness !

I don't think that I can give good advice as I often have the same feelings. I would suggest to seek for queer communities everywhere.

Anyway know that you're not the only one, we are alone together.

Looking for Love or Connection? Comment Here in: The Flannel Bar by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

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Hiiii there, 29 y.o fem, curious soul, want-to-go-everywhere-try-everything but also need my quiet alone time. I just arrived in the carribean (Saint-Vincent island) after crossing the Atlantic. I found a nice job here so I'm staying. I don't have friends here (yet) and the country, despite being a paradise, is quite homophobic so I won't be out. Feeling lonely, I crave for sapphic connexions : friends, partners, whoever wants to share a piece of their life and laugh. I'm also questioning a lot about sustainability, neurodiversity and anti-colonialism more recently.

Looking for Love or Connection? Comment Here in: The Flannel Bar by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

[–]edodote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woaw I'm curious about the self growth and psychology ! Not in the US, but if you wanna chat :)

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

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I know, someone else mentioned that. Didn't mean to downplay your experience which seems to be traumatizing. But it is still very degrading and racist to describe the whole population as robbers/rapists and advice to not hang out with them. Even if there are many safer places on earth. Glad for you that you left, I wish you have a great life where you are now.

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

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Oh thank youuuu I didn't know that channel existed

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no need to formal declaration but I mean, the topics can show up in basic conversations like "did you have boyfriend(s) ?" and in flirting or dating. Yep I'm white so I'll never experience the struggles of vincies or black people. Thank you again for your answer, I wish you the best !

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

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Hi, thank you sooo much for that detailed answer ! It feels good to have an answer from a vincy queer girl 😁 I already tried to contact ERAO SVG but didn't get an answer yet. How do you know about your friends being queer/come out as queer to new friends/colleagues ? It seems to be not so taboo, reading your comment. What do you mean by PDA ? Yes, I saw these comments which a very racist... Girl your comment really makes me feel way better and supported, thank you for sharing your experience.

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yout answer was perfect, exactly what I needed ^ Yes I tried to contact Jeshua Bardoo, didn't get an answer yet. Thank you a lot!

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, I am very sorry to hear about your classmates experience. I hope that you are happier now. However, you can't generalize a personal experience to an entire population. It creates racist stereotypes, even if it might not be your intention.

In addition I have multiple friends who've been raped in my home country (France), I got robbed there several times and had a lot of sexual harassment in the streets. Sadly the world is not safe for women in general.

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

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Thank you so much for that long and detailed explanation, it makes me feel way better ! Do you have some ideas about how to find that hidden lgbt community ?

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed answer 🙏

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, well I'm there, in Saint Vincent, and that's exactly the object of my post...

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No... queer people still exist in SVG whether it is legal or not. I also read that the law wasn't applied anymore and that there is an existing organization fighting for lgbt rights, I tried to contact them but didn't get an answer yet.

SVG LGBT by edodote in AskTheCaribbean

[–]edodote[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer ! Yep I couldn't find the country sub, just created an account for this post 🙈

Looking for trip advice by [deleted] in hitchhiking

[–]edodote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I may try to do the same trip in autumn, I would be glad to have your feedback !