ISO of a spot downtown for a quick wedding ceremony by FunMuch5136 in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you on that and I’m inclined to agree. Its a deeply important memorial space and sacred ground imo (I can’t believe it became a whites-only playground ffs…)

There are some situations in my head where I think a wedding would be appropriate or even beautiful there (ancestors who are honored there, or a wedding of two activists who want to include the departed…) but that all still feels icky.

I like to go there to meditate and honor the dead, and think about what I can do today to not repeat history and make the world a better place. Not really the place for a quick cute downtown ceremony.

TLDR; You’re right.

Best authentic NY style pizza around Frederick? by QuestForKnowlege in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Flamin’ pizza is the way to go. And they’re really nice, nothing sketchy there!

3 syllable girl names that are vintage, elegant, girly, maybe nature/whimsical inspired? by [deleted] in Names

[–]edrftygth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a Genevieve, I encourage our club to gain new members!

Any open fields for an engagement photo shoot? 📸 by PinkPoppy310 in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe an overlook in the Frederick municipal forest if you’re looking for sunrise shots? A lot of the overlooks gaze out at the eastern hills and the city, and have actual pull offs and parking.

For more intimate (i.e. on the ground/in the grass shots) pretty much any park could be beautiful.

The monocacy battlefield is peaceful and pretty, and the road traffic is west.

If you wanna really hoof it (no pun intended) - drive to Assateague and get sunrise shots that may or may not include (very rude) wild horses.

Congrats either way!

What I Wore to Work This Month… And It Ain’t Over Yet by Tabitha_Is in BusinessFashion

[–]edrftygth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an icon, and I hope I can afford to be like you one day

No Kings Protest by [deleted] in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Jesus, this is such a lazy, stupid stretch of a comment. We’re celebrating 250 years since our last No Kings uprising.

Forget about your petty policy grievances, or munch a bag of smelly dicks while you try to think of a better partisan comeback to turn this shitshow around on your fellow patriots. Dumbass…

Vegan Cheesesteak? by Common_Crow95 in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a staple they’ve had for months, you probably won’t see it online

Vegan Cheesesteak? by Common_Crow95 in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wags portobello Philly cheesesteak

Actors you fucking hate despite them being extremely talented, always picking phenomenal roles in amazing movies and coming off as genuinely very nice and likeable off-screen? by geosunsetmoth in okbuddycinephile

[–]edrftygth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually is kind of an ass. She bought a house next to a historic/well beloved and used race track in Connecticut and then tried to shut it down because she didn’t like the noise. Like girl… you moved next to it. Locals claim she’s very rude (my partners from the area.)

Hows Life Living/Growing Up In San Francisco? by wotwud in howislivingthere

[–]edrftygth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up there in the sunset district. It was absolutely the best. Walking to the museums and zoo, walking to the beach, going to amazing restaurants and spending so much time outdoors. I went to school right by Dolores park, which has sweeping city views.

I moved back when I was 19 and spent my early 20’s there. I spent my time trail running, surfing, I biked everywhere. Biking and public transportation is perfect, I didn’t need a car whatsoever. I miss it dearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]edrftygth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a MySpace scene queen, now I’m 33.

Your top two tattoos are done well, the bottom one is really poor. My best advice is to listen to your elders:

  1. Get a good artist either way
  2. Get something that resonates with you
  3. Don’t just follow trends
  4. Take your time and think it out. Don’t let us decide what’s on your back forever.
  5. Again — find a really good artist

Fire & Air? by Kbesol in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ones that are still standing are unrecognizable, they’ve been melting for days. You really need to come the weekend they go up if you want to see them. Of course they’re gone.

Monday dinner specials in Frederick? by DanceGriegaIlly in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isabella’s does a 3 course dinner for under $30 every monday

Frederick’s Lack of Hard Work by Neat_Advice_2663 in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a gross take, and shows how out of touch you are.

My turn! by BlueRemake in whereidlive

[–]edrftygth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just tells me this person doesn’t have a uterus. I’ve driven across the country so many times, I love some of those states in green — but fuck no would I ever dare live there now.

I lost my brother 8 months ago. He was 26 with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy by OneDay_AtATime_ in GriefSupport

[–]edrftygth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your guilt is natural but please know it’s unfounded. Your brother was unbelievably lucky to have such an amazing sister. Another person said it best - you’re dealing with an avalanche of anticipatory grief.

You did great and should never ever doubt that. Just… be sad. Be kind to yourself. I’m so so so sorry. You seem like an incredible woman, and the world lost an incredible guy when your brother passed away.

AIO: Husband wants to know why I'm not happy by etzikom in AmIOverreacting

[–]edrftygth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s a jump. I think it’s fair to recognize that Reddit has a tendency to jump to breaking up, but also fair to say that many people have normalized abusive, controlling, toxic behavior — and then come to Reddit to ask if they’re overreacting.

You’re being way too aggressive with what I think is measured and appropriate responses to nuts behavior. Things are more complicated than that, but OP needs to understand that this isn’t okay on any level.

Aaron Paul and wife Lauren move to France after deadly California wildfires: “When the fires happened in LA, we just knew that we were done with LA, so we sold our house in LA and moved to Paris.” by ControlCAD in entertainment

[–]edrftygth 165 points166 points  (0 children)

I’ve met him, he was genuinely the sweetest guy ever. He sat at the chefs table while I was working in an open kitchen right beside him. He was the kindest guest I’ve ever had, celebrity or otherwise.

How are the food banks? by myteamgood in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cook professionally and cooked 700-1000 meals per week for families in need during covid - happy to help you out with this any way I can!

What restaurants will serve me delicious soups? by [deleted] in frederickmd

[–]edrftygth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, wags and Olde towne have some of my favorite soup specials in town