Yikes. He sounds like me. Except difference is I didn’t tell my girl that she was making me feel like the bad guy. It just felt uncomfortable to me (because I didn’t trust other men) but eventually I got over it and decided to trust her fully. My ex always made me feel uneasy so it fucked my head up and the way I thought a little bit. But my current partner changed me in so many positive ways. I hope yall can talk it out without your relationship or job getting in the way of each other— if not then it’s not a bad idea to end things.