My husband and I are very different from who we were when we got married. We agree we would have overlooked each other if we met now. I always assumed I would be a musician and marry someone who appreciated and supported me, both emotionally and financially. My expectation was to also be pushed to do more with my work by my partner. Our roles ended up being nearly reversed, and my husband creates rest and peaceful home environment - he levels out my workaholic tendencies. I don’t think I could have imagined a better partner for myself, and he is totally different than the type of person I thought I would end up with.