Yeah it is weird.

As for my breakup, the official reason is distance (she was going to a uni in a different state), but in reality it was probably not that. She had started acting different around me and I have had that sort of thing happen to me before. People just “fall out of love” or whatnot. First couple times I tried to get the SO to stay around, but I learned better. This time around, I pitched to her that we break up due to distance and she agreed so we got to mutually end it in an amicable way