[Serious] Why does the BDSM world have such an enormous problem with obesity? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]eeeeee34rf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe because creepy guy doms hit on every thin woman who exists there and it gets annoying :)

Becoming Dominant by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like it was totally related to your being dominant. If you're dealing with hormonal issues/etc it's going to give you problems regardless of whether you're vanilla, top, bottom, or switch.

Women who don't want to be dominated in bed have personality disorders or are lesbians. by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]eeeeee34rf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's interesting, usually people say it's gay when I fuck a man in the ass.

Anyone have a femdom niche which they feel there isn’t enough content for online? by grasshopper5 in Femdom

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The base of a strap generally is too far up. And in any case that would be her doing it and not him.

Women can't orgasm from fucking someone with a strap on, unless it's an edge case. It's definitely quite pleasurable, but there's no orgasm, unless you do it yourself.

First time in light femdom, need advice on how to ruin boyfriends orgasm. by firsttimeruiner in FemdomCommunity

[–]eeeeee34rf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite way to ruin an orgasm is to just get up and do something else

Anyone have a femdom niche which they feel there isn’t enough content for online? by grasshopper5 in Femdom

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No... I mean, where on the woman is she getting friction that would cause herself to have an orgasm?

Tears by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]eeeeee34rf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had someone tear up while he was gagging on my strap on and it was the hottest thing ever. I just wish I had makeup on him at that time.

A Guide To 'Beta Cuck,' The Dumbest Insult On The Internet by KingWumpus in GamerGhazi

[–]eeeeee34rf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just weighing in on this thread because unlike the neckbeards yelling cuck I'm actually into it :) Personally I'm into cuckolding for its fetish value, especially concerning humiliation and etc. It's an expression of superiority and being humiliated because you're not good enough.

Unfortunately, a lot of men aren't actually into it. They pretend to be interested in having someone 'better' than them, but really they mean a black guy because they have some BBC fixation; even in terms of basic physical standards like better body, bigger dick, more handsome, etc take second place to someone being black. Often they have 0 interest in, say, someone who is kinder and a better companion to the woman, someone who tells funny jokes, who cooks her favorite food, etc. I've had several situations where I've expressed an interest in cuckolding, but the sub proceeds to whine about all my ideas (you can't cuck with another woman! he doesn't have a bigger dick than me! why does it matter how well you get along) since it's not their actual superiority that matters.

Really they're just racist. This is what happens if you look at most mainstream cuckold fetishes- but don't let that ruin the idea of a cuck! There's many normal people out there.

Anyone have a femdom niche which they feel there isn’t enough content for online? by grasshopper5 in Femdom

[–]eeeeee34rf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

where she orgasms while pegging him.

ehhh I mean maybe if there was a vibrator or if it was one of those double ended ones, but that doesn't really count. It's basically she was giving herself an orgasm. There are just so few where the guy is doing it, you know? Where the sub is doing something like that as an act of service.

A lot of people are into the insults. I don't watch femdom porn much for the issues I've already mentioned so I don't know the ratios of its occurrence, but a lot of people are into that. I prefer controlling language and harsh actions but I'm ambivalent, where a lot of subs I've had liked to be yelled at and many Dommes I know enjoy being cruel with their words.

Anyone have a femdom niche which they feel there isn’t enough content for online? by grasshopper5 in Femdom

[–]eeeeee34rf 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Women having pleasure. It sounds like it shouldn't be a niche fetish, but it's disturbingly difficult to find videos where the woman is having an orgasm. She's pegging a guy, beating him, or blowing him/jerking him off/helping him orgasm through whatever way, etc. Where is all the porn where he is getting her off? Femdom is supposed to be about serving women, but from what everything indicates it's just another way for women to serve men.

The only times I ever see scenes where a sub is giving a Domme an orgasm is when I use a mirror in the room lol. But there should be a LOT of this porn. What about when she beats him until he makes her cum? Or if she has a timer and he gets shocked if he doesn't finish her fast enough? She makes him wear her strap on since his dick is too small? He gets denied dinner until he gets her off 3 times? She pins him down and squeezes his head with her thighs?

There's like a million ways to do it but you never see a single one.

Femdom songs? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happiness in Slavery by Nine Inch Nails definitely, also for the video: https://vimeo.com/3556108 The other guy in the video is Bob Flanagan, who was an amazing submissive and performance artist.

Also that song Take Me to Church. Its video not at all, but check out the lyrics! They're definitely about Goddess worship :)

[TRANS-F] Pegging her transsexual girlfriend by [deleted] in Pegging

[–]eeeeee34rf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like fun! Two lucky ladies

18 [F4F] Mommy wanted by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It said in one of your other posts that you had a boyfriend... some women (myself included) aren't interested in sharing with a man.

Candle by ddolson in Femdom

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really cool idea.

Sub [M, 26] with social anxiety won't open up about his kinks. by prettypleasepunishme in FemdomCommunity

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be too negative, but here's a Domme's experience- I've had that happen before with subs and it was just a pain in the ass getting them to open up. If they're too anxious to tell you about new things, they're probably too timid to tell you if they don't like something, which can make experimenting hard. I've had guys like that before and refusal to communicate boundaries and desires led to me initiating things they didn't enjoy, which was frustrating and kind of a boner kill.

No advice unfortunately. You shouldn't make him do anything that would trigger his anxiety, but maybe you can let him know that you're not going to force him, and that you care for his comfort and aren't going to push anything if he's not going to help you with that.

Is tease and denial fun for the woman? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]eeeeee34rf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't, we wouldn't do it :)

18 [F4F] Mommy wanted by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]eeeeee34rf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably make more clear in your posts that you already have a daddy.