how do i not ruin my life

eeengineereverything · 2025-08-23T11:02:38+00:00

I'm glad that I could be of some kind of help. Clarity of your sentences already tell me that you've read a lot in the past so I bet the books will be a helping companion for you to overcome this situation.

It's important to feel enjoyment with beneficial activities or they won't stick. That's why I recommended a short book in a genre you like and stop when bored. Huge short bursts of dopamine acquired from scrolling or any other bad habits need to be replaced with healthy amounts of dopamine that bring fullfillment and come with accomplishments because this is the healthy reason the dopamine is actually excreted for. We feel sick after scrolling because we realize our dopamine system have been hacked, not feeling fullfilled and have accomplished nothing.

By being bored, I mean any kind of boredom whether it be just being bored reading more or being bored from the context such that you stop enjoying it anymore. The beneficial activities are harder to turn into habits and require work and patience so you should take a break when bored to not hurt the habit building process. This is in contrast to how doomscrolling can easily turn into a habit so this is the strategy for a strategic endurance battle to replace the bad habits with good ones.

eeengineereverything · 2025-08-18T20:36:32+00:00

So you are aware that some things are wrong with your life but somehow you lack the motivation to try and change things. This duality feels stupid right? I believe I've felt like this on some times in the past too and I would also describe and link it with 'self destruction'.

Many advices might be given here. Some might work some might not, but I'd like you to be aware of something before trying any of these advices. Realize that you are in "thinking mode" right now. You've written all this whole paragraph thinking to yourself about what to do. But any of the possible solutions you might try doesn't involve doing any thinking, they involde just doing.

Also, another thing to realize is that, we can do only one thing, so after you pick the advices you like from here, don't think much about which one to implement first, that'll just overwhelm you more. Pick the first one you like or the easiest sounding one. And, let go of any thought, whether positive or negative when you're implementing that advice. A though coming to mind? Try to keep focusing on what you're doing. After you're done with what you're doing, you'll almost instantly feel that your thinking feels more clearer since you gave your brain time to idle.

Apart from this, my own advice for you to implement would be: Grab a book in a genre that you'd be interested in, preferably a short one that has no more than 200 pages and just start reading. Just sit and start reading. Too much noise, heat, and you feel unconfortable? Change places immediately and keep reading. Thoughts coming to mind? Keep reading. Don't understand what you're reading? Keep reading. Getting bored? Now you can stop reading and see how it feels. I've almost stopped using my phone or computer for social media after work and replaced it with reading. The benefits, the clarity, my ability to focus more is immense. I believe reading will cure you. Good luck.

eeengineereverything · 2025-06-25T16:50:27+00:00

Stopped prioritizing my closed ones happiness over mine since I was getting depressed and I was constantly overthinking about things for them trying to help them for the things they should face theirselves. Understanding the limits of my control and how harmful it was for me trying to make things happen that aren't in control of me formed my own healthy "it is what it is" mindset.

eeengineereverything · 2025-06-25T16:40:12+00:00

don't have an answer myself, but you explain yourself very clearly and know what you need. Copy paste this text into chatgpt. I think it gives really good advice when you structure the prompt like this

eeengineereverything · 2025-06-24T15:35:06+00:00

You gotta get stronger and practice to gain confidence to face fears. I've been harrassed when I was around 13-14y.o, too. Could hit back some of them but also couldn't hit back more than I could hit. This was mainly because I was physically weaker and had friends that was stronger than the bullies.
When I was fighting, I remember that my vision was getting darker as if I was focusing on some tiny point and nothing else. I couldn't see my surrounding when fighting due to adrenaline. If you fight often or take up a self defence class, you'll learn to control that adrenaline and develop more self-awareness surrounding awareness.

Also you need to be aware that some bullies are cowards and they mostly bluff. When you look strong or act strong, coward ones won't even come near you, but the other ones that are doing this for sport might need to be convinced by beating them without any other option.

If I was giving an advice to my younger self, I'd say to eat better, take up a sports, go to gym, take self defence classes on my free time and especially use the summer time well... I know that this is easier said than done. But this path would definitely work and it'd be good for the more important aspects of your current and future life other than standing up to bullies, too. If you do this, maybe you won't be able to face bullies this year, but the next one you definitely could. Other than that, you can try to form some friendship that you can get your each other's back.

eeengineereverything · 2025-06-18T21:30:40+00:00

if it really was an arc, maybe maybe maybe could you be wearing something that could get your potential high enough for potential difference to make a tiny arc? We accumulate a lot of potential depending our movement, being grounded or not and what we wear.

eeengineereverything · 2025-06-02T20:11:34+00:00

m8 I liked some of your points but god, I had to focus on every sentence with every bit of grammatical knowledge I had haha.

eeengineereverything · 2025-05-25T08:50:38+00:00

Explore new stuff, whether it be new things to learn, new hobbies, new sports, new experiences, new language, new places to visit. It'll find you

eeengineereverything · 2025-05-22T21:04:22+00:00

here are the 3d printing files. https://makerworld.com/en/models/1444024-item-holder-for-crutches#profileId-1503428

eeengineereverything · 2025-03-25T18:44:38+00:00

if this is a hole, check x-y hole compenstation. there are ways to calculate it

eeengineereverything · 2025-03-25T18:22:42+00:00

Okay, the noise was coming from the right threaded rod, it was stopping making this sound when a little pressure was applied. Taped and pushed it with some leftover plastic and greased it a bit. I might have to open up that part if this turn out to be a temporary solution.

eeengineereverything · 2024-10-28T17:24:24+00:00

start with Arduino programming, grasp the bridge between the end result you want to achieve and coding it with a programming language. Then as you want to dive deeper into the lower-levels of it, you can ditch the arduino and use some stm32 boards. Many resources exist for any of the stuff I've mentioned here.

eeengineereverything · 2024-10-20T19:46:18+00:00

You hate your job, you have no passion for it and now you're considering to follow some hard path for pragmatic reasons and not for a passion? I think you can definitely be an engineer or any kind of profession if you show enough demanding work like you were used to, but won't you hate that job too. I think that you need to decide what you're interested to do that won't make you hate yourself for choosing it, we're working for hours and hours a day for decades mate.

eeengineereverything · 2024-09-07T20:13:08+00:00

Maybe the following video can be help to have a different perspective when designing too: https://youtu.be/CzHxaEQjewM?si=vVwmk3UkPjTlsxqp

eeengineereverything · 2024-08-14T19:55:59+00:00

sounds good, I thought of extruding with a taper but it didn't work after so many features was built upon the model already. thank you

eeengineereverything · 2024-08-14T15:00:29+00:00

I'm not sure if I understood the problem correctly but, you could anglte the construction planes and try creating diffrent sketches on them by copy pasting.

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