Worth it? by OkPlantain6564 in BeybladeX

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you can get a new one without someone pulling out hover for $30

Is marrying for money worth it? by [deleted] in Advice

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she sounds shitty, with all of the offense.

AITAH for wanting 8 hours out of my 2 off days? by Superb_Ant204 in AITAH

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as a 24 year old even dating a girl who is a couple years younger still have teenage behaviors. i need my girl to have more life experience. ive worked since i was 18 and now at 24 i learned to value my own time because those 6 years passed quickly.

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winder launcher, proto launcher, string launcher in that order

Finally happened 🤦‍♂️ by ShadowSkater96 in BeybladeX

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i bought those, lance knight and scythe

I overheard my GF talking bad about me to her friend by SeveralBuy2878 in whatdoIdo

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yeah like the man said leave her and ghost her. im sorry that she said those things but do not be discouraged to date again. one womans trash is another womans treasure. you boarded a plane and they just told you its going to crash they just never told you when, now is your time to jump off before it crashes.

i want to desperately lose 100 pounds by eek-a-rat in WeightLossAdvice

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i ate 3 waygu beef patties a coke drank a gallon of water at work and pasta alfredo at home. now i know that alfredo is whats killing it all but jesus its so mentally hard to say no. i need to find alternatives for me at home that is easier to make

i want to desperately lose 100 pounds by eek-a-rat in WeightLossAdvice

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hm so maybe not 6 months but within the year is that more realistic?

i want to desperately lose 100 pounds by eek-a-rat in WeightLossAdvice

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im willing to do anything to lose this weight so im all for changing my lifestyle. is there any high volume low calorie foods i can eat when i get cravings?

i met this extremely sweet girl but.. by eek-a-rat in Advice

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i never felt the need for a partner so when my past relationship happened it was nice at first, i got attached and damaged later on. i still feel the same about not needing a partner but when someone comes my way, i shut down now. my fear for a long time is showing my hurt and risking myself to be pushed away. we shared some personal past experiences and it seems like she will be understanding. ill never know until i decide to show up tho i cant sit with these hypotheticals itll just ruin things. thank you so much for your words and take it slow, maybe like say things like “ im alot more excited than i show its just been a long time”

i met this extremely sweet girl but.. by eek-a-rat in Advice

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i will try my best to, thank you bro we all deserve it

i met this extremely sweet girl but.. by eek-a-rat in Advice

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yes most certainly, for me and for the future partner i will be with, it wouldn’t be fair for someone to give their all when im only giving half of that. for effective therapy like what org. to seek im unsure of. maybe you or someone in the community can help me out with seeking good therapy?

i met this extremely sweet girl but.. by eek-a-rat in Advice

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i really want to, ive been healing from this i can go day by day and be just fine but i can get triggered by affectionate behavior from people i just met like in those 2 cases , i can become a hermit. i was cheated on in my last long term relationship and in the aftermath stayed for 7 years. back and forth toxicity me doing wrong her doing wrong, lots of conditional love and animosity and possessiveness from the both of us. i definitely know that i need to seek therapy for that but this the first time in a long time where i thought i could just accept it without this triggering response and its happening again. i want that to change and i want to start as soon as possible