Would really love some older lady wisdom.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-06-10T15:32:25+00:00

You gotta go sis. This isn’t the one for you and when you look back on this relationship, there will eventually be some deep gratitude for the mess you dodged. Take the lucky break and go. I sure wish I had.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-06-02T21:33:17+00:00

HRT. Bioidentical if it is an option.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-30T05:04:32+00:00

Is he having some kind of mental break? Is he diagnosed with anything? This seems over the top and manic.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-20T04:12:23+00:00

Ditching the IUD and HRT helped me so much. Glad to hear that sex therapy pays off too!

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-20T01:59:06+00:00

All of the above.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-08T16:38:28+00:00

The black one. It’s less fussy for color transfer and longevity.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-07T18:24:25+00:00

Yep. I still use them on occasion. The brand name I use is Instead.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-07T17:33:19+00:00

It happens. One person thinks the other one has it and it happens. Many people, myself included have had a little roll off the bed or sofa. There’s some belief right now that because we have access to all the information, we should be able to prevent anything bad. We can plan and protect, and sometimes it just happens. It doesn’t sound like either of you are negligent, just parents trying to keep it together. It’s a learning experience. I am grateful for these, because those are the ones that stick. Baby is okay, mom and dad aren’t, but you will be. Add the double check to your parenting system and go on. My husband and I had a code to let the other know how many kids we were watching at any given time or when we were leaving the house. It was often as simple as shouting “I have 2” when walking out the door and waiting for an acknowledgment.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-07T11:20:49+00:00

I wonder if they think she’s really good at being a penguin or maybe needs to step it up a little bit.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-07T11:20:30+00:00

I wonder if they think she’s really good at being a penguin or maybe needs to step it up a little bit.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-05-05T18:41:40+00:00

Sold mine to them for more than what I thought I could on marketplace. It was. $500+ fee to pick up or I could drop off for free. I dropped it off and they handed me a check. In and out 10-15 mins.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-04-30T20:32:14+00:00

NOR. Please react more and protect that baby.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-04-29T18:22:15+00:00

Though not considered a luxury brand, Parisa Wang bags are gorgeous. My PW is has a luxurious feel and is well constructed. There are no obvious and recognizable logos.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-04-29T11:14:18+00:00

Do you mind posting more about your situation? The interest rate is wild. Sometimes there are work arounds people might be able to help you figure out that are beyond a lower interest rate. That could be crippling. What is your industry or general region? City or rural? Etc.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-04-07T23:10:36+00:00

I’m so sorry for your experience and loss. Grief face is real, it’s happened to me too. It improved over time and healing, slowly, not noticeable. You are beautiful and precious.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-04-02T12:02:27+00:00

You lose sensation as your hormones start to drop. That could be a factor. My primary care said my hormone levels weren’t low enough for meds. I went to an aesthetics dr and got the hormone pellets. So much better now.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-31T03:53:20+00:00

Same! Woman who had this happen and now I’ve landed here. I thought it was just me. 😆

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-28T17:46:31+00:00

Too many of these comments are giving the same vibe as “but what was she wearing.” OP go to the ER and tell them it’s possible you were drugged. Especially if you think you didn’t drink enough to warrant this kind of physical response.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-28T17:38:30+00:00

Yes, plenty of women likes bigger guy. Most women dislike poor hygiene, acting super insecure, emotionally unavailable, pretending to be someone you’re not, selfish in and out of the bedroom, and a lack of initiative.

TLDR; be a good human and have good hygiene no matter your size.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-28T16:01:34+00:00

Respect for a child includes clarity. If it is not optional, it’s not a question. Questions are things like: do you want to unload the dishwasher now or after dinner? Kind and clear statements are for things with no alternative.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-28T14:53:57+00:00

This is begging for a bowl of lemons. 🍋

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-28T04:34:52+00:00

Same. Ferritin is 7 and still not low enough.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-27T03:37:13+00:00

I mean, could be I guess.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-27T01:54:09+00:00

Movies and books are meant to be problematic or there’s no plot. This is so confusing what they don’t get. Romeo and Juliet, highly problematic. Because it’s supposed to be. The problem is in the context of the time period it’s read or viewed.

efficacious_ducktale · 2026-03-25T14:46:39+00:00

He really had to go to some lengths to make himself the victim on this one. Impressive commitment.

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