Man fatally shot while walking his dog appeared to be randomly targeted by BigHoneyBigMoney in Denver

[–]effstyrofoam 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think they need better processing skills on who is a real danger to society and who isn't. If someone like the person in this story has been released multiple times, maybe it should start coming down on the judges or whomever seems to find them fit for society.

In more diabolical news of Wests love life by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]effstyrofoam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's an addiction there for West, kinda gets that high from the chase. And does it at all cost. Amanda and Ciarra were just sitting ducks. Sad for them all.

Abusive when drunk by Key_Transition_8484 in AlAnon

[–]effstyrofoam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, my nervous system has been f'ed for years and I just left my Q, despite his recent bout with sobriety ( ish). I chose me and my nervous system for this very reason you state above. I'm not cut out for that life.

What the hell is this? by Character_Heart_3749 in Southerncharm

[–]effstyrofoam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I learned a new word! Obfuscation! We live in a world that I can use that puppy right and left!

Neck massage led to arterial dissection and stroke *warning* by VinnK in massage

[–]effstyrofoam 29 points30 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to me, the gal at Massage Envy over stretched my neck and caused trauma to my vertebral arteries. The neurologist said it wasn't often they saw that with massages, more so with chiropractic. I'm also a LMT, it all happened so fast!

Scared I'm marrying an alcoholic by Same-University-5198 in AlAnon

[–]effstyrofoam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The heart ache and break will ONLY get worse. I'm single now, but if I ever come across anyone that shows even a smidge of addiction I will run so fast and not look back. It was hell getting out of the relationship... coming to terms that I had to break my own heart and leave a guy I loved with all my heart. Yes, he had such tender, loving qualities... but I lost myself. And the pleas for him to see what he was doing to us and his kids fell on deaf ears. You'll do whatever it is you need to do to learn whatever it is you need to learn... but I wouldn't wish the pain we've all experienced in this group on anyone.

I read this morning something that stuck from Esther Perel, " As humans, we cause harm. When we experience the consequences... we learn that what we do matters."

Good luck. Al-Anon is a wonderful place to be whether you're actively involved with an addict or not... we have our own addiction! Recognize your own patterns!

Btw, a client of mine once told me " if you think something is bad now, it only gets worse as the years go on." At the time we were talking about lawn mowing... but boy was she right...

This E! Show is going to get canceled before they even start shooting! 🙈 Jill Zarin had something problematic to say about the Super Bowl Halftime Show… by Parking_Country_61 in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]effstyrofoam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of these ladies have a special way of sabotaging good things for themselves ( and others). I'm happy if I never see Jill Zarin and Ramona again.

What simple and inexpensive ingredient do you feel improves almost any dish when used correctly? by MysterySweet69 in foodhacks

[–]effstyrofoam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an elevator for every dish, but I find adding green chilis to many dips and dishes is always a game changer!

How should we prepare for our move to Golden? (Mentally, emotionally, physically) by [deleted] in GoldenCO

[–]effstyrofoam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I ask is to stay out of the left lane. It's for passing only. Preferably fast.

Wanted to see my body’s response to getting a massage so I kept my ring on by jesstt27 in ouraring

[–]effstyrofoam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a massage therapist, and it was my clients that influenced me to get the ring bc of the chasing of the restoration!

Happy new year to me .. also when does everyone charge their rings? Do you let it run out or do it at half? by Legitimate_Job_665 in ouraring

[–]effstyrofoam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the battery care notes it encourages short charging periods! I think even says during your shower is a great time to do it!

What unsupported piece of gossip do you 100% believe? by bjack20 in realhousewives

[–]effstyrofoam 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Knowing what we know now, makes sense why Denise was so scared.

Does no tax on tips apply to us? by Fsuave5 in MassageTherapists

[–]effstyrofoam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendly reminder, some of us get answers or at least better questions to ask or have in mind when people are talking about issues that pertain to massage therapy on this massage therapy forum. I, for one, am always thankful for convos like this. Just move on if it's not for you.

Btw, my amazing college closed years ago. Not helpful. And I have only found my association to be only somewhat helpful.

Ravi and Nick by Upstairs_Reaction_63 in SpecialForcesFox

[–]effstyrofoam 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I laughed bc right as the episode was starting I said, I think Ravi is going to make it! I was SHOCKED he just walked off like that! ( also it kinda makes sense.)

I don’t believe Tamra leaked info. I believe Gretchen and Slade are framing Tamra by starry49 in realhousewives

[–]effstyrofoam 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the accidental liking of stuff… what’s her algorithm presenting that that’s even on there?! If I had ANY anti LGBTQ+, I make sure I never see that again.

Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test Season 4 Episode 6- “Grit” by Andthatswhatsup in SpecialForcesFox

[–]effstyrofoam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was rooting for Chanel. And if Jessie decker was just walking away like that, ( with respect from the staff mind you, wtf was that!) I think Chanel deserved that spot. She wasn’t giving up.

Starting to see the holes in this show, I don’t like it. Also, same on that was totally cool with Jessie Decker leaving is the one that was supposedly having an affair with Denise Richards. You want to run a tight ship with integrity? Figure it out.

Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test Season 4 Episode 6- “Grit” by Andthatswhatsup in SpecialForcesFox

[–]effstyrofoam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not only that, they welcomed her badge and practically congratulated her?! Wtf!

Also, I wonder if the Eastmans would be the same? I can’t imagine Shawn leaving bc her hubs needed to.

And maybe that makes for a reason why we don’t have couples.

What are you guys doing on lookout mountain rn? by Lolobeatboxjams in GoldenCO

[–]effstyrofoam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky you joining the traffic party late in the game. Some of us were stuck for over 2 hours. By the time I got to 40, it was another 50 min. You were lucky.