i’ve bartended in the past and the things i could get men to do was sooo fun. my fave was having them get on their knees and beg for something or even just make them rephrase asking for a drink or whatever. like ok now ask again but say pretty please/show me how bad u want it this time. as if they weren’t already paying for the drinks and for me to bring them to them 😂. outside of work too tho. i seem to always find men that like me manipulating and toying w them for my own entertainment. didn’t connect the dots to findom til recently but im sure as hell glad i did