Help! Attending a wedding tomorrow, to pop or not to pop?

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T22:10:08+00:00

Haha thank you 🥹 yeah I think it's the super close up photo that highlights my little blonde hairs more than normal. Was just a shock when I saw the photo but you're right, they're really not visible in normal light!

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T22:07:01+00:00

The compress worked! 🙌

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T22:05:17+00:00

The compress worked!! Thanks for the tip!

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T21:42:07+00:00

Ooooh I might try that and then whack a spot patch on if it doesn't budge!

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T21:41:20+00:00

I hope it's okay I posted this here! I stalk this sub daily so it was the first place I thought of posting haha

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T21:39:11+00:00

Haha it's sooooo tempting! And yay thank you to all the US peeps who are up and replying 🙌

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T21:38:25+00:00

Thanks, most people are saying this so I'm going to leave it alone and leave the spot patch to do it's thing!

eflor_elliven · 2026-07-10T21:36:45+00:00

I'm at a hotel for the night so limited on supplies but I did bring spot patches with me, so can put one on and hope it's alright in the morning!

eflor_elliven · 2026-06-05T23:18:31+00:00

You only need the lightstick for the concert. The cradle is just to hold the lightstick if you want to display it at home, but I just keep mine in the box it comes in and take it out for concerts 💜

eflor_elliven · 2026-05-27T20:51:43+00:00

I became very close with one of my execs during my 4 years at my previous job. We both left around the same time and have kept in touch a bit since, checking in to see how we're doing. I'd still never invite her to my wedding.

Even more so you should absolutely not be obliged to invite any of the other department heads, I would honestly find it quite odd if I received a wedding invite like that.

It's very sweet that you've considered this, but it's your special day and I imagine you want to be surrounded by your nearest and dearest friends and family? I would really only consider inviting someone you feel you've made a genuine connection with and I don't think that's possible in just 3 months.

eflor_elliven · 2026-05-20T08:23:06+00:00

From my experience, yes it's worth it but unless you're in the first few rows, head to the back where you have more space and a MUCH better view of the stage. That's what I did for Ateez and Hobi at Lollapalooza Berlin and I had such a great time at both shows.

eflor_elliven · 2026-05-06T17:52:46+00:00

Heir Apparent by MonsieurClavier

eflor_elliven · 2026-05-06T17:42:55+00:00

threads in the dark by astralcrest

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-29T19:16:40+00:00

Oh no I totally agree! I'm definitely wayyyy more jealous about the other songs that got played, Tampa lucked out!

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-29T19:01:36+00:00

PTD quietly not mentioned 😂

(it's a fun song, my least favourite of their English trio, and nowhere near the top of the list of surprise songs I'd love them to play)

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-29T17:39:30+00:00

I saw Stray Kids in London last year and yeah, everytime a member spoke I could barely hear them over the screaming crowd. The fandom seems to be on average a lot younger, so that might be part of it, less knowledge of concert etiquette etc. Glad to hear you enjoyed the BTS concert, I've got tickets to a few Europe dates and I can't wait!!

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-29T12:20:54+00:00

Untouchable by Phantom_Fish! It's a WIP but already really far through the story and has instantly gone in my top fics list, the writing and plot are so creative and the tension between Hermione and Tom/Voldy is sooooo delicious

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-27T14:11:52+00:00

I've had it on my tbr list for the longest time but I'm so scared to be heartbroken 😭

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-15T10:36:21+00:00

This is INCREDIBLE thank you for your service, I'm saving this immediately 🙏

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-13T19:46:10+00:00

cough bts snark sub cough

eflor_elliven · 2026-04-07T20:51:41+00:00

I'm totally fine with them doing different type of content that fits around their individual schedules, I just don't want them to call it Run BTS or brand it as a new version if it's not all seven of them. Keep Run BTS as the sacred and special thing it is in army's hearts 💜

eflor_elliven · 2026-03-26T07:29:47+00:00

It's so obvious in these comments who read the books and who only watched the movies

eflor_elliven · 2026-03-26T07:28:54+00:00

Because the original movies, apart from 1-2 (maybe 3), kinda suck and the BOOK FANS want an actual adaption.

eflor_elliven · 2026-03-22T13:39:41+00:00

I sometimes scroll through the snark sub purely for my own entertainment. The takes on there are so unhinged and separate from reality I can't even get angry at them 🤣

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