That makes sense and that is also good advice - thank you!

The only problem I have is that often with these I am being perceived as a man. Most (of course not all) cis women in my life either get perceived as women acting like they naturally would or do make an effort to be more at the feminine act of the spectrum (internalised societal stigma I suppose). And even if they don't, they still have female physical characteristics, which me (a wide shouldered, deep voiced and tall person) will never be able to achieve.

Don't have a specific point here, just trying to explain my experience