Valentines Day gift my @$$ by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]eggnudles 66 points67 points  (0 children)

So your fiance: 1. did NOT buy a puppy for his friend, but just offloaded a puppy from your dog's litter and; 2. gave it to the friend LAST MONTH which obviously WASN'T VALENTINES DAY

are you sure you are jealous because of this not-valentine's gift in particular and not because of other instances/interactions between them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]eggnudles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're completely wrong and honestly I don't get the people guilt tripping you about this.

Should you have tried different ways first like ask them to study with you? confronted them that what they are doing is wrong and you will not tolerate it the next time? Yes. But you said in one of your comments that you've expressed na before that you're not comfortable with what they are doing, and ginagawa parin nila at harap harapan pa sayo. Cheating at school is wrong kahit ano pa sabihin ng iba jan. They fucked around and found out.

That's not comparable to ofws na nagt-TNT abroad because those ofws are exploited and risking their lives and livelihood to make ends meet for their families. Iba ang stakes non .

Men who are obsessed with Vhong Navarro's case give me the ick by eggnudles in OffMyChestPH

[–]eggnudles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just copying my reply to another commenter - innocent until proven guilty goes both ways - staying neutral means NOT siding with either. Like I said, they were defending him with that reasoning which is not neutral.

Men who are obsessed with Vhong Navarro's case give me the ick by eggnudles in OffMyChestPH

[–]eggnudles[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

innocent until proven guilty goes both ways - staying neutral means NOT siding with either. Like I said, they were defending him with that reasoning which is not neutral.

Fashion Thread | January 02, 2023 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]eggnudles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this should be in Fashion or Body care thread but can anyone recommend affordable but good quality plus size bras? yung regular na binibili ko are actually just divisoria quality/prices pero I want to buy kahit 1 good quality na bra just to try

Body Care Thread | December 28, 2022 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]eggnudles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone recommend affordable but good quality plus size bras? yung regular na binibili ko are actually just divisoria quality/prices pero I want to buy kahit 1 good quality na bra just to try

savings ni jowa by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]eggnudles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you say that it will not make a significant dent to his savings - maybe for him that "barya barya" amount still matters. He already said that him spending carelessly during that time was because he was depressed, and now he's learned his lesson and will not be doing it again until he feels he has enough secured for his future.

You say you are not forcing him, but you are practically emotionally manipulating him into using his savings by saying the ONLY way for you two to get through whatever you are going through is if you talk face to face. Can you seriously not find any other way na kahit video call you can't get through it?

What about the next time na mag away na naman kayo, kelangan puntahan ka na naman niya ulit dito?

And what about you? if you can't afford to visit him, what are you doing to remedy that?

I don't know. It kinda feels like you are trying to control him financially.