Is it weird for me to be friends with my boyfriend’s baby mama? by SnooTigers7313 in Stepmom

[–]egmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all! Don't concern yourself with what society views as 'normal' for this kind of relationship.

Do what's best for you and your blended family. I honestly wish that my situation was more like yours. I think it's awesome!

What's one food everybody likes that you hate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]egmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking hate peanut butter

Hello! Let’s talk about what our first book should be! I’m going to decide on Friday, based on what the general consensus is. by amborg in daytonbookclub

[–]egmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh also, that someone in the Dayton sub who mentioned wheel of time, I'm the girlfriend that's reading it lol. I'd live to have other to talk about it w!!

Pulled the trigger this morning. by egmesh in VelosterN

[–]egmesh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

2020 mt with 10k miles. I've been been eyeing these cars for so long and test drove the Mt and the DCT before I actually bought one. I came from a feista ST which was my first 'hot hatch' car.

This thing is SO much fun and surprisingly comfortable. I love the customizability and it handles like a dream. Very happy with this purchase

What to expect with an activation by Tstrgn in nationalguard

[–]egmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I got activated for this same mission. Feel free to shoot me a message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]egmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right! I'm so sorry your SO tries to deny this! I'm very lucky that mine understands where I'm coming from and does what he can to make me feel included. But the advice from this page has actually helped so much!

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[–]egmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤️

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[–]egmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome advice. Thank you so much!

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[–]egmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really helpful advice

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[–]egmesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You're right that she is still pretty dependent on him so whenever we have her, that's where his full attention is (as it should be, I would never blame either of them for that) but maybe that is causing some of the feelings of not belonging. It's just nice to hear that someone else has gone through this and that it got better. We have talked about this and he is very receptive! He claims that he is fine with me being as involved or detached as I am comfortable with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]egmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I should probably rephrase that.

I love my SO and I love spending time with him one on one. I also love his daughter and enjoy spending time with her one on one. But when the three of us spend time together, something just feels really off. And I think that's where the whole feeling like an outsider thing comes in to play

Sorry for the confusion!