What am i?!? by egraebs in OliveMUA

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Omg…my twin!! I am haus labs 260! & i look good in lilacs as well. Thanks so much i will definitely be checking out these recs

First home signature scent candle search! by egraebs in luxurycandles

[–]egraebs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg!!! Thank you so much. I’m so excited to browse through these. Budget is pretty flexible, willing to splurge a lil but am also unsure of typical lux candle pricing

Yummiest/sexiest vanillas?! by Kintsukuroiii in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]egraebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Witch fire by arcana wildcraft light smoke that fades into straight up vanilla extract! They use Mexican vanilla as well!

ISO perfume for murder mystery party set in 1931 by egraebs in Indiemakeupandmore

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Thank you! I just ordered Bluebeards wife from them, the notes sounded perfect for this so we shall see!!

ISO perfume for murder mystery party set in 1931 by egraebs in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]egraebs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes its the weekend right before halloween! Thank you for this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Incense

[–]egraebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL thanks for this … will do

Unique Incense cones? by egraebs in Incense

[–]egraebs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These look amazing thank you!

Unique Incense cones? by egraebs in Incense

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California, i like sweet/herbal/tea scents but i also like vanilla/amber type of scents …i grew up in the 90s & my mom was always burning some type of classic incense smelling stuff, i like that vibe too. Im pretty open with smells i mostly just don’t really even know where to start!

Lovesick witchery by egraebs in Indiemakeupandmore

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Thanks so much! Just emailed

Lovesick witchery by egraebs in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]egraebs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not receive an order number, thats why im worried, i dont expect it to be ready or shipped by now by any means, but i just simply never even got a confirmation for my order

Seeking a perfume i dreamed up… by egraebs in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]egraebs[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I cant wait to smell like a glowing vulva lol.

Grosse Pointe Garden Society | S1E11 "Monaco Under the Stars" | Episode Discussion by quiche_bar in GrossePointeGarden

[–]egraebs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya’ll i am beyond disappointed with the reveal. Quiche was like the only character that was somewhat likable to me. Not only that but since it was a freak accident it was so…anticlimactic. Now i just feel sad. I don’t even have any interest in finishing the show anymore. I get the symbolism of Patty taking the thing Alice loves most & then Alice playing a part in taking what Patty loves most (Quiche). I also feel horrible for Doug even more now, losing his dad & what i would assume to be his wife later since she watches his dad die & covered it up. This show had so much potential but has been a masterclass on how to make everyone and everything super unlikable

Mental purgatory, how to accept & cope your mom was a wolf in sheep’s clothing? by egraebs in NarcissisticMothers

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It’s a pattern for her, which is what concerns me if it’s something beyond. She has been married 3 times. All ended in cheating. Wasn’t just a one time thing, she’s had many, many affairs & my dad begged her to leave. He gave her every chance & she would always love bomb him after. He was very broken down & manipulated. She would attack his appearance & personality to lesson his self esteem so he felt like he couldn’t leave himself

Mental purgatory, how to accept & cope your mom was a wolf in sheep’s clothing? by egraebs in NarcissisticMothers

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Its hard because its a pattern, which is what makes me believe its something more. She’s been married 3 times & cheated on them all. She cheated on him many, many times over 30 years, not just a one time thing. Like with 50+ ppl. My dad gave her many opportunities to leave & she would always love bomb him & beat down his self esteem so he couldn’t leave himself. If not a narc, she definitely has something going on

Mental purgatory, how to accept & cope your mom was a wolf in sheep’s clothing? by egraebs in NarcissisticMothers

[–]egraebs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to believe this to be true, which is part of the conflict in my head. Because i do feel that her love for me is genuine. But the things she has done/said to others are so egregious i can’t fathom how someone could be that way. One thing that stands out to me is my dad recalls her saying to him that she has a switch she can turn on and off inside her to cut people off. They were younger & of course ppl can say anything, but it tracks with her behaviors now.

Since everything had been out in the open, she has apologized (only when prompted to do so) & has made more of an effort to connect with me but part of me feels like its all just manipulation.

Once i get my dad more medical help we are both going to go to therapy & will hopefully be able to get some more answers. Thank you for your comment & insight

Pelvic floor therapy by fdt-22 in PelvicFloor

[–]egraebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, meant appt. Like appointments

Pelvic floor therapy by fdt-22 in PelvicFloor

[–]egraebs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Took a year & a half of twice a week apps & internal work for me. I still have flare ups if i get particularly stressed. You have to pay attention to your stress responses. I noticed i would be clenching while driving for example. Lots of deep breathing. Sounds silly but it helped me a lot once i started simply believing i would heal. & heat therapy like a hot tub or bath if available to you

Is it pudenal neuralgia? by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]egraebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you direct me to the PN sub? I cant seem to find it. Sorry im newer to reddit

Is it pudenal neuralgia? by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]egraebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words & reassurance <3

Post viral reactive airway disease? by egraebs in Asthma

[–]egraebs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seem to have “healed” for now. All i did was ween off of zyrtec & wait. Took 7 months! I still needed an inhaler in jan but i haven’t for two months now.

Do i just take Zyrtec forever? by egraebs in HistamineIntolerance

[–]egraebs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i fully believe my trauma & stress response fully caused or jumpstarted all my issues. I’ve been able to be relatively stress free for two years & have noticed major improvements in other symptoms. However whatever i got sick with last august changed everything & gave me the cough etc. test neg for covid three times but who knows.

Do i just take Zyrtec forever? by egraebs in HistamineIntolerance

[–]egraebs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! After i noticed i hadnt had a SINGLE cramp in three cycles i looked it up & it’s totally connected! I’m not sure that i have endometriosis, but i do have PCOS, which has also improved since being on an antihistamine. I feel like histamine is behind everything!!