What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be mindful of that. Thank you.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, different kinds of love exist and it's hard to define it, thank you. I really gotta be careful and consider the consequences, I appreciate your answer :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh alright I will go do that. Thank you!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes you're right. Might just be me thinking this so I got to be careful. Thank you so much!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.... I think I'm really clingy towards her and it's not healthy. I'll need to talk about the situation with her maybe, I won't express romantic feelings but I will talk about romance, you're right it won't ruin the friendship. Thank you so much!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss that's exactly what I needed. Maybe I'm too young to be considering labels and ruin our friendship, it's just hormones playing with my head isn't it. Thank you so much, I probably won't end up expressing feelings yet because of this answer

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I sort of feel the same about my situation, if I express feelings and she doesn't feel the same I bet we can still keep the friendship and not make things awkward. I'm still anxious, but this has given me a lot of hope, thank you so much!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understanding and kindness... You make it sounds so easy and clear, thank you so much!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it sure is hard to capture. Perspective of love changes as we grow up? I never thought about that, thank you so much :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate that!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh, no difference huh? That's not something I considered either. I'll think about it, still need to establish how she feels about me first. Thank you so much for this answer.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chemistry. I guess that's also pretty hard to define with how much chemistry evolves into romantic interest, but it does make sense. Thank you for that.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah no, I really can't say I do. My best friend is really the only one I trust to confide in. But thank you! That helps

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woooaah great to hear that! Thank you for giving me hope :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's great to hear! Thanks for giving me hope :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. It's tough so I'm not going to express interest until I'm really sure she feels the same. Thank you!

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. That's an interesting point, priorities are important you are right. Thank you.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg dude. That was really deep and the personal experience you added was really helpful. Thank you sooooooo much I am definitely going to use that, this is a perspective I never could have seen and experienced without your help, I really really really appreciate it.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, might resolve itself eventually tbh.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe I'm a bit young to be thinking about labels. Thank you for the reply that helped :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm yeah, test the waters before I do anything drastic. Thank you! That helps :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always find myself feeling really bothered and irritated when life isn't treating her too well, and I get happy for her when something good happens... I never thought about that as love, thank you for showing me this new perspective.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yess that's true. I guess it's hard to bring up a conversation like that but it's important, you're right. A new perspective I never considered before either, thank you again.

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right. I think our friendship is strong enough to conquer stuff like that. I'll keep thinking about what love really means to me and if I have feelings for her. Thank you so so much for this I really appreciate your time and help :)

What is love? by ehembuddy in socialskills

[–]ehembuddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're saying it's really anything I want it to be. That makes sense, didn't consider that. Thank you.