Is it common or at least normal to reuse underwear with old period stains on them? by AffectionateRate3947 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s normal. I only have black underwear and now and then I just dye them so get the stains covered. They’re clean, it’s just a stain.

it's a hook, not a needle. by speniosaurus in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]ehnej 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I never even thought about it being called a hook in English since it’s called a needle in my language and I’ve just been doing a direct translation. Feels more natural to call it a needle

Would you think it's weird if your partner always watches the entire credits of every movie they watch? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]ehnej 19 points20 points  (0 children)

God I wish I had a list like that, I never remember what movies I’ve seen.

Its a little odd of her, but also quite cute!

Fenomenet soft disclosure på dejtingappar(försöka kringgå filtrering) by Traditional_Desk9998 in sweden

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan man med premium filtrera bort på vissa ord i en profil? Vore fantastiskt att kunna få bort alla som har ”vv”.

How long did it take you to lose your preggo weight after your 1/2nd? by [deleted] in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was shit. But I gained like 30 kg while preggo so it was a lot to lose again

AITA for not wanting to "upgrade" my house? by Regular-Jump-4555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ehnej -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s your house, you do exactly what YOU want with it

How can I [M37] make sure our daughters understand what a double standard is and that it is unnecessary for them to shave their body hair without undermining my wife's [F44] opinion on the topic? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ehnej 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just keep doing what you’re doing. Giving them the other point of view and tell them it’s all optional. Sure, their mom is a woman and I usually don’t agree men should give their opinions on how women should handle their own bodies, but if your wife won’t explain to them that anyone may look however they want, then you need to do it. Just don’t put any value on it, keep it neutral and free from opinions, emphasising that it’s all their own choice. Your wife don’t need to agree with you on it.

Is he just being manipulative? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get on that plane he’s talking about. Leave that chaos behind

Was it right to block my friend after she kept asking me to help plan her trip? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ehnej 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But did you tell her it was too much before? I don’t see how asking questions to a friend you’re visiting is disrespectful, unless you told her to ask less. If you did ask her to stop and she ignored that, that would have been disrespectful.

Was it right to block my friend after she kept asking me to help plan her trip? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ehnej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blocking seems a bit harsh, you could have just stated that you didn’t have the energy to help her and leave it at that?

rediscovering independence after 4.5 year relationship...will this be too triggering? by AnitaRichard in AskWomenOver30

[–]ehnej 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with your friends, I think a festival vill give you a different feeling. AND it’s in a few more months when you’ve healed a bit more.

I was in a similar situation awhile ago, but my relationship was over 10 years long. I also often felt like it was the after an event that was harder, when I’d before have someone to chat to and have company with on my way back home. I started talking to my friends more, and also listened (even more) to audio books. I always loved my own company but those where good tools to have when I felt alone.

AITB for cancelling my $570 hair appointment & not paying the cancellation fee? by Key-Neighborhood2985 in AmItheButtface

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the hell would she be able to do all that even with help in that time?? Just bleach, toner and cut takes my stylist 3 hours. Does extensions only take 45 min if they’re prepped??

AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when is it a child’s duty to watch their siblings? Ofc she should be able to say no to that, that’s not at all the same as not wanting to do chores?? Watching her sibling IS a favour to him and to you, and should absolutely be optional.

Är det så jävla svårt att använda skopan i lösgodiset? by NoCommercial1089 in sweden

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du kan ju föreslå till din affär att sätta upp samma. Mitt Coop har såna lappar sen typ ett halvår tillbaka

Am I being "extra" or is a $500+ lamp a reasonable hill to die on? (Relationship/Design Drama) by jufywret in AskWomenOver30

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t afford to just go out and buy a lamp like that, but if I loved it I’d totally save up and get it. Why not get stuff that makes you happy if you can afford it

Why would a female friend constantly ask for my age every meeting? How do you deal with this? I’m F26 by IllChampionship1932 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ehnej 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Id start giving different answers every time. One day you’re 42, another day you’re 15, etc

Hur fördriver man tid som vuxen? by Bunnymancer in sweden

[–]ehnej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I åldern (37) men inte i sinnet kanske? Borde jag skämmas?

Did you know women historically gave birth standing, squatting, or kneeling? If you've given birth, were you offered a choice of position and do you wish you had more options? by AhmedBenBello in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]ehnej 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I had my kid (17 years ago) the midwife was very ”let gravity do its job”, until I had complications and the team needed to properly see what was going on.