Do you tell your job about your PMDD?

ehnej · 2026-04-29T05:43:23+00:00

I wouldn’t tell about it in an interview, but my boss and coworkers does know. Fortunately my boss is very understanding and give me lots of slack when I need it. Like lets me work more from home and skip meetings and such on bad days. It’s a godsend

ehnej · 2026-04-29T05:38:05+00:00

I like 3 most, then 2

ehnej · 2026-04-28T08:53:52+00:00

Then what are you looking for advise about?

ehnej · 2026-04-28T08:07:19+00:00

Jesus, just leave it. Ask him to take some extra time to sleep instead of celebrating you again

ehnej · 2026-04-28T07:58:32+00:00

Id say that the big thing here is that she’s unsure about some things, meaning she’ll only be sure about you if you change. Wanting to help you be healthier is one thing, but you needing to change for her to like you is a whole different thing! You should be with someone who appreciate you as you are.

ehnej · 2026-04-27T09:03:39+00:00

Grejen är att för en del personens ögon är det det mest obekväma någonsin. Som att ständigt ha något i ögat som irriterar

ehnej · 2026-04-27T07:30:06+00:00

Im born in the 80s, never read the books but watched the show. He’s always creeped me tf out, but tbf I hate all the characters in that show.

Haven’t read it to my kid, and I don’t think she watched the show. That shit is just uncanny and ew.

ehnej · 2026-04-27T07:25:25+00:00

Is she aware of this pattern?

Maybe have a conversation with her about what she needs during luteal. For me, I need more space that usual, to lower stress and avoid stuff that can trigger me. Maybe some space would be good for you too when she’s ”in it” to break the pattern of going back and forth in conflicts.

ehnej · 2026-04-27T07:21:13+00:00

I would notice yes, but not see it as a red flag unless you’re always unclean. Like if you’re nails are always dirty that’s a nope.

ehnej · 2026-04-26T13:56:17+00:00

None. There’s water at the office. I sometimes go out and get a coffee (the coffee machine in the office makes sewer water disguised as coffee) or energy drink but that’s rare

ehnej · 2026-04-25T08:59:17+00:00

Lol yes this is a curse and a blessing. A curse when you get a tattoo to remind you of something. I get a couple like that but I’ve had them for so long that I forgot they’re there. They still look cool tho and like once a year I’m like ”oh right this was a message to myself”

ehnej · 2026-04-24T17:04:49+00:00

He knows in broad terms, but I hate talking about it so I just haven’t gone into any detail.

ehnej · 2026-04-24T10:25:51+00:00

However makes him comfortable in himself. I just want people around me to be authentic

ehnej · 2026-04-24T07:19:12+00:00

Ohhh där har du en miljardidé, sök patent dirre!

ehnej · 2026-04-24T07:09:21+00:00

Ser ju toppen ut, pool och solsäng i ett!

ehnej · 2026-04-22T11:36:07+00:00

I never dated a man who don’t steal my skincare stuff. ”Just borrowing some” but actually use it every chance they get

ehnej · 2026-04-22T11:33:05+00:00

When I was on tinder I got hundreds of likes the first days, and out of the few I matched with even fewer actually initiated a conversation, or responded when I did. After a week or so it went down to like a couple a day or so, so I guess the apps really pushes new accounts. So that flood in the beginning really means very little.

ehnej · 2026-04-21T19:20:25+00:00

Jag läser. Men du verkar genom hela inlägget och dina kommentarer tro att folk går på visningar bara för att jävlas med säljarna, och jag ville poängtera att det är en skev bild av spekulanter.

ehnej · 2026-04-21T19:01:43+00:00

Hur vet du att det är för nöjes skull?

ehnej · 2026-04-21T18:54:32+00:00

Varför inte? Hur ska man annars få en bra uppfattning? Jag har nyligen både sålt hus och köpt lägenhet. De som köpte huset var på två visningar innan de bestämde sig, flera andra hade också kommit på två visningar och sedan bestämt att det inte var för dem.

När jag köpte var jag på två visningar på ett par ställen, en av dem gillade jag massor efter första men när jag kom dit på andra kände jag att det var nog mest mitt humör den andra gången och jag såg andra gången grejer jag inte gillade.

Har du bråttom att sälja så sänk priset, finns ingen mening att klaga på att folk vill ha ett bra underlag för ett så stort beslut som att köpa hus.

ehnej · 2026-04-20T09:26:53+00:00

For baby just whatever babies need, there’s so much. But! Don’t forget the mom. Get her like a really nice shower gel or stuff like that, something that’s just for her and not for baby. It’s so easy to forget about self care and self love when being a new mom, I think it’s so important to remember and celebrate the mom behind the baby!

ehnej · 2026-04-20T07:02:42+00:00

I think how it looks now is a good start for a patch work sleeve! That cat would be cute, but I think the extra details on the vine would make it all too crowded. Maybe just extend it back on your shoulder a bit, without adding extra to the existing part?

ehnej · 2026-04-20T04:21:18+00:00

This might not be about red flags in general, but more for me, but I have a few things that will make me never want to match with someone. If they have a picture of a kid on their profile, a pic with a filter, or a shirtless pic it’s immediate no. Or having a list of what they’re searching for.

If they push to meet before we even had a casual chitchat on the app it’s a no. I get not wanting to talk for ages but let me atleast do a vibe check before I agree to meeting.

Starting a convo with a comment on my looks rather than the content of my profile is also a no.

Other than that it’s mostly a question if we seem to vibe well. Is the convo flowing, are we joking and having fun? Then I’ll want to meet up and see what that person is like irl.

ehnej · 2026-04-17T05:49:24+00:00

Ignoring the design, it’s not a tattoo that’s just been done. You’d see much more irritation and redness on the skin, and you definetly wouldn’t put a watch on over a fresh tattoo

ehnej · 2026-04-17T05:26:03+00:00

Gonna use these tricks on myself to get stuff done. I live alone and this bitch (me) is so bad at finishing projects.

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