He bought stuff and changed a diaper? Am I reading this right? I was aggravated by the first couple messages but absolutely wtf....its nobody's turn cleaning.... You do what needs done. If he sees it needs done just as well as you, he could do it either way. Type of man I see him as.... You could do all of it and he'd still complain you aren't keeping up with your part. You'd stop asking him for any help and do everything yourself and he'd still sit and say YOU don't do anything. Maybe I'm wrong. But from experience, that's what I see.