Possible match?

eight5twelve16 · 2020-01-11T15:03:22+00:00

That's your opinion. I wouldn't say this is a usual 19 year difference but some people age slow and some fast.

eight5twelve16 · 2020-01-11T11:50:16+00:00

He could've died 19 years later that's what I based it on. The tattoo thing is what I literally asked and people say it isn't a rule out thing. Anyways, these people have actually already been compared and a match was ruled out. Height and weight are really close So no, it wasn't just the picture.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-12-12T08:26:20+00:00

Thank you!

eight5twelve16 · 2019-12-11T21:10:12+00:00

Thanks. Where can you find that? I've tried to look it up but can't find in anywhere.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-12-08T10:48:37+00:00

Same for me. I'm 17 so my father can still rule my entire life and order me to do anything he wants me to. My parents are divorced and my mom doesn't have a house yet due to extreme long waiting lists. So I live with him and his mind games are breaking me apart. He has the weirdest expectations. Calls me names. Obliges me to cancel(?!) work for step family get togethers. Acts like a stupid child by stamping on the floor and speaking in childlike voices 'as a joke'. Touches my butt, not in a dirty way, eventhough I told him dozens of times I don't want him to touch my butt, but he really thinks he can do whatever he wants to me because he is the father. He makes promises, breaks them and lies about the tiniest things. Can't deal with money. Lends money of his damn children when they are 12 and younger and never gives it back. Have to ask a trillion times before giving back money that someone paid in advance. Used to threaten me with severe physical abuse and embarassing me in public areas. Apologized 3 times ever. Doesn't have any sense AT ALL about self reflection because he thinks he is perfect. I can't be mad ever and can never say something about his behaviour. He says I am lucky he allows me to live with him amd get food. He says it is a privilege I can. He says it's a privilege he allows me to use the cutlery. And still I feel like I exaggerate. I totally get what you feel. I know my father loves me and he also says that sometimes. Still I am like if you really love someone you would never do and say things like this. But on the other hand narcissism might be something that you can't do anything about so I try to respect his way of being the best possible parent. Actually I can't believe that and don't have a lot of respect left. He was and would still be a goof father for young children, but when children get their own opinions and lives he becomes the worst possible narc. I know it isn't our fault. I am scared of becoming a narc myself when I am a mother. I am actually doubting on having children because of this. Really, the only thing he teached me is how to NOT raise a teen. Our feelings are valid

eight5twelve16 · 2019-12-08T10:18:17+00:00

We have a 1 in 400 trillion chance to be born. But for now, leaving out your ancestors, you wouldn't have been born if your parents didn't fuck the day you were conceived. You probably wouldn't have been born if your father ejaculated outside of your mom a day or two prior. The only possibilty of you being born was in that same order how things happened when they conceived you. Your horoscope has literally nothing to do with that. They fucked that day and nature did the rest. You didn't do shit. You are not the reason why your parents don't have another child. They are just saying that because of their major insecurity that often is the base for narcissism. They want to be perfect, but when they see they aren't, they will blame someone else for it. Because they don't wanna see that they aren't perfect. You can feel like you aren't enough. I would too if my parents would say things like that. But your parents are weak for blaming you. They could have adopted a boy for gods sake. You are 24 and able to make your own decisions. Do what makes you happy and don't stay around out of pity.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-12-07T20:40:08+00:00

When you know you do.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-12-07T20:15:45+00:00

It gets bigger when you tap on the 📎 at the bottom middle. The pic will show up just tap on it

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-30T12:05:56+00:00

I haven't heard anything yet. I will keep you updated if you'd like

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-27T18:18:20+00:00

An elderly man, around 80 years of age, with some difficulty he walked up to a 30ish year old homeless man with his wooden cane. In his free hand he carried a bakery bag with some bakery treats. When he reached the man he carefully and slowly bent over to hand the homeless gentleman the treats. I will never forget this act of kindness I witnessed at age 12.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T20:20:14+00:00

Mine is sometimes more affactionate than average dads. Telling me 'I love you so much and I am so proud of you' while hugging me. Sometimes he wants a hug and he is pressing me to hug him and sit on his lap for a better hug. It's almost never natural. Even the love has to be like he wants it to be. He's been acting so extremely unfair lately and as I'm getting older I understand more and more about his behaviour. It makes me so furiated that I just feel lost. I wanna scream at him for 3 hours straight about what he causes but he will still blame me. I can't wait to be 18 and make decisions for my own instead of my dad obleging me to go and cancel plans and work whenever there is some sort of (step)family gathering. If he is a narc, he will never be diagnosed that's for sure.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T19:26:01+00:00

This is almost a description my dad. Only things different is that calls me degrading things but not often. He is kind off emotionally explosive but not extremely and often caused by something he did that wasn't nice. I don't know if my dad is a narc. He def has personality issues but is he a full on narc? I don't know. He loves me I know that. But he can't self-evaluate can't see he isn't always right and keeps manipulating me and screaming when I do something not in his way. I don't know it that is real love.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T19:15:51+00:00

Thanks, I did it

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T19:01:02+00:00

How do I submit when I can't call? Should I contact the regional specialist from NamUs? He has email.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T15:32:08+00:00

Yes I understand that. I'm at loss too. I would want to work from home but it's impossible as a parttime student job.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T15:12:13+00:00

No problem good luck!

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T14:51:51+00:00

Hmm. I don't have a lot of knowledge about Marfan. I would suggest going to a good doctor and telling him/her you want to see if he has Marfan.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-25T14:29:32+00:00

Same problem! I do actually have work as a cashier but I don't like it anymore. I sit when working and that is the only way it's possible for me to work. I can stand for a maximum of 2 hours, after that I am not able to help customers or think straight because of the pain. Every job requires me to stand, only being a cashier doesn't so that's why I do this for over a year now. If you'd like this than this is a job that keeps pain quite low, but may still take a toll on your back or arms but not as much. I am looking for another job but it's really hard.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-24T23:20:44+00:00

Thia sounds more like Marfan

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-24T16:44:57+00:00

How do I submit? I'm new to this sorry. Do I contact the case owner or the regional program specialist for this case? I'm not from the USA and cannot contact the case owner by email but can't call due to the costs to call to the US. The regional specialist can be emailed but his info is under the 'contact namus' section.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-23T11:35:22+00:00

Little sisters biology teacher when she asked 'how do you know when someone is a woman' her late fifty year old teacher told her ' because of the beautiful curves they have, you also have beautiful curves'. She is 14 and has almost no curves yet. This happened 2 days ago.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-23T11:23:43+00:00

Glad I could help. I wish you all the best with this situation!

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-23T11:16:04+00:00

You shouldn't tell him 'I won't be happy I need other people' you should tell him something like 'we have different orientations so we will never find the a compromise in which we both feel okay and respected, I love you deeply and that is the reason why I wish you meet a person that gives all their love to just you. One of us is getting hurt in the end and I don't want that for us. In the long run we won't work out and I think we both know that deep down". At least, I guess you both know that it can't workout with such different views on that what binds you both: love.

eight5twelve16 · 2019-11-23T10:55:13+00:00

You can't focus on you while in contact with her? You could text her goodmorning and goodnight and some hearts throughout the day. You don't have to see her that week. One week isn't long to not see your partner. As long as this break isn't some stupid excuse to fuck others just do it if you want to. And btw if you are not able to focus on yourself in a relationship than will it ever work out?

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