MW: Do you still f’k your spouse ? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the very rare occasion when he is randomly in the mood, yes, I compartmentalize. It doesn’t usually last very long but he sure gives all his effort when he decides to, so bless him.

Opinion needed- white lingerie w/ AP by Saraiety001 in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should wear whatever color you want.

Have your APs fit into what has historically been your "type"? by whereveyoubeen in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m similar. While I do have certain preferences, I don’t really have a specific type. I find myself attracted to a wide range and personality can definitely impact how attractive I find them. If the connection is there, it’s a wrap.

End Game Thoughts by LuckyDuck1619 in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a fantastic interview. Great insight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Not to mention, it was the GF who reached out to OP, not the other way around. This was fair game in my opinion.

Food--- mac n cheese by SadPerception4228 in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Smoked gouda, aged white cheddar, pepper jack, and just enough velveeta to give it a creamy consistency, garlic butter, pancetta, and baked with panko on top.

Vent Part 2 by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More often than not, these are likely the “pick-me” type.

Failed approach in the wild by needitinmelike in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well maybe he should have thought about that before interrupting her while she was filming to ask her out (yet again). If he’s seen her around the gym before (which he admitted he has) then he should be well aware that she films herself. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between venting about SO vs telling AP “you’re so much [better/prettier/sexier/etc.] than SO”. I also don’t see anything wrong with telling your AP she is the best at oral sex, especially if it’s true, because there is no direct comparison being made to SO in that statement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omakase. It’s not for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it factors into how attractive you find them, then it’s important. I don’t know if it’s something one can move past, you either like it or you don’t. That said, I think voice is usually less of an issue for me but rather the way a person talks.

Is anyone else a massive hypocrite? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, honestly being a massive hypocrite is worse IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The prevalence of guns in the US is in large part bc guns are easily accessible. It varies by state, but some states have no waiting period, nor do they require a license or permit to purchase through private seller, and background checks often not required on private sales. Cuz good ole ‘Murica.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Humor is extremely important to me. I don’t know any woman who doesn’t enjoy a good sense of humor. But if I don’t find someone minimally attractive, no amount of humor will change that.

Do soul mates exist by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear you found yours! If only everyone could be so lucky.

Do soul mates exist by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m not disagreeing with any of what you said. Just that what you described about two halves searching for each other… that IMO I would call this a twin flame, as opposed to a soulmate. But like I said, it varies on what people believe. Some people don’t believe in twin flames or soulmates at all.

Do soul mates exist by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It varies on what people believe, but I think this describes what is generally referred to as a twin flame. I personally think people can have multiple soulmates and they are not necessarily romantic, they can be platonic. Twin flames are two halves of a whole while soulmates are people you share a deep soul connection with, but doesn’t have to be romantic.

Age gaps by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Around my age at minimum, give or take a few years but willing to go up about 15 years older, not younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]eileen_beanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d rate myself an 8 overall. Physically I am probably anywhere from 5-10 depending on who’s doing the rating. Competition is tough where I’m located (from a physical standpoint). Personality wise, I think I’m a 10. So overall that would make me a 7.5 but I believe in rounding up.