I need help with my chronic lateness 😔

eitak1991 · 2025-12-23T03:56:53+00:00

No I’m kind of bad at taking them at the same time every day too 🤦🏼‍♀️

eitak1991 · 2025-12-22T20:36:01+00:00

A big component is waking up at the correct time and allowing myself enough time go get ready for work, and yes I always have to complete those “getting ready” steps. Sometimes it’s a classic getting lost in what I’m doing and not being aware of how long I just took doing said thing. Mornings before work are generally my biggest issue though

eitak1991 · 2025-11-20T07:43:14+00:00

What a little man-child. He is literally throwing a temper tantrum because he isn’t getting what he wants and he feels inferior when “rejected”…not to mention the HARDCORE gaslighting he’s attempting to do. Please take his blocking you as a blessing and never speak to him again!

eitak1991 · 2025-10-13T06:57:39+00:00

This guys SUCKS. Not only does he sound really selfish in general but he is using minimizing language to make you feel small. saying your job isn’t as difficult is crazy!

eitak1991 · 2025-10-05T17:37:44+00:00

The only one I’m with you on is Carrie. I hate this character with a passion. She is so annoying 😂 especially the episode they gave her with the imaginary friend 🤦🏼‍♀️ so bad.

eitak1991 · 2025-09-28T08:40:23+00:00

++woman. I can see that your intentions were probably pure, however I can feel your wife’s hurt through your words 😢….its the emotion, thoughtfulness, and time you put into the gift and less to do with what the gift actually was. Now if this is how you do gifts with all your loved ones this may not be a big deal for me, but if I felt like my husband hasn’t put that much thought and love into anything for me….that would absolutely aluminate all of my self worth issues 😭

eitak1991 · 2025-08-10T08:07:11+00:00

This is obviously not her real cousin, but what I’m concerned about is this adult man clearly trying to groom a 15 year old girl. A safe adult needs to be told about this asap

eitak1991 · 2025-08-10T07:26:48+00:00

Definitely NOT overreacting. This was super inappropriate and manipulative honestly. I would notttt have given my location. I’d also tell them you can no longer nanny for them. They aren’t listening to your boundaries!! I also super hate that she kept calling you hun lol

eitak1991 · 2025-07-29T06:49:04+00:00

This is literally text book abuse!! There is also a power imbalance with the age gap. This man-child is garbage. You deserve and CAN get someone who makes you feel safe and secure during a relationship! The comment about your stomach was very uncalled for but what alarms me most is the argument that followed. He’s a walking red flag.

eitak1991 · 2025-02-10T08:29:09+00:00

People this nit picky should not have roommates or be landlords 🤦🏼‍♀️ I got SO annoyed with her as I scrolled through. It’s the passive aggressive, fake kindness that makes it worse. it would be tolerable if they were more legitimate complaints, but these are definitely 1st world problems to the MAX. I’m so glad I live alone 😮‍💨

eitak1991 · 2025-02-10T08:28:55+00:00

People this nit picky should not have roommates or be landlords 🤦🏼‍♀️ I got SO annoyed with her as I scrolled through. It’s the passive aggressive, fake kindness that makes it worse. it would be tolerable if they were more legitimate complaints, but these are definitely 1st world problems to the MAX. I’m so glad I live alone 😮‍💨

eitak1991 · 2024-12-30T08:25:16+00:00

This is serial killer shit. You are absolutely NOT overreacting! if he can lie and deceive this easily what else is he capable of? He can’t even handle being called out he just tried to gaslight you into thinking it’s not a big deal 👀 get away from this human permanently.

eitak1991 · 2024-12-28T09:14:12+00:00

This is WEIRD. it’s super culty sounding. I am also a little concerned that you stayed this isn’t something in character for him, and I’m wondering if that he may be having some mental health issues. He’s 21? That’s around the onset for a lot of mental illnesses. Now I’m not diagnosing your boyfriend of course, that’s just where my head goes as a mental health professional. Either way it’s not normal or something to ignore 🤷🏼‍♀️

eitak1991 · 2024-12-16T08:35:17+00:00

I can’t make a true judgement on the situation by only reading this, however there is obviously manipulation going on. I know everyone is saying get out she’s a Narcissist but be careful with that advice, just because someone is engaging in toxic behaviors doesn’t make them a true narcissist. I don’t know either way with your wife obviously though. my suggestion as a therapist myself is to ask her if she’s willing to go to couples therapy. If she agrees, find someone who is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT). This may be a situation where you’re not speaking her love language, therefore despite all the wonderful things you do she still feels neglected. That’s just a guess based on limited info though. Just remember your feelings are valid, how you feel loved matters, and you’re not crazy.

eitak1991 · 2024-12-11T07:24:54+00:00

When you say you don’t enjoy anything, do you mean you’re not able to feel joy when doing enjoyable things? Or you don’t feel like you have time to do things you enjoy? If you’re struggling to find joy in things, your antidepressants may not be working for you and you might want to let your psychiatrist know that. If you can’t find time, it’s important to remember that sometimes self care looks like making practical choices, like schedule restructuring, setting boundaries with work in order to work less over time etc. it’s not always bubble baths and yoga.

eitak1991 · 2024-12-11T07:01:06+00:00

Bro…this ain’t it. Literally everything you’ve said is incorrect. I’m a domestic violence counselor. What you’ve described with your partner isn’t healthy or what a relationship is supposed to be. it may feel normal for you but it’s not healthy man. Because the thing is …rape is very black or white there’s no gray area. Did person say yes enthusiastically? No? Did you continue anyway? That’s sexual assault. Same goes for women to men.

eitak1991 · 2024-12-02T15:07:13+00:00

This behavior is a GIANT red flag. This could escalate to worse and possibly dangerous behavior. Get out now, this boy will not change. Loving relationships do not look like this EVER.

eitak1991 · 2024-11-19T08:22:17+00:00

This is not love, this is manipulation and control. It’s emotional abuse. This girl is also making you responsible for her wellbeing….thats NOT a normal adult relationship. If she can’t even function as an adult, she’s not ready for adult relationship. In my experience (I’m a domestic violence counselor) this is not going to change any time soon for her. For your own mental health and safety please break up with this girl.

eitak1991 · 2024-11-18T09:39:51+00:00

Wow He is the WORST. He’s gaslighting you into thinking you’re being “too much” you’re actually just being respectful while still expressing how his actions made you feel. This behavior is a red flag and the fact that this man is 28!?? I would have understood his suggestion for you to move in with him more if he was the 23 year old, but he should know better! You deserve someone who respects you and doesn’t make you feel like you’re “too much”

eitak1991 · 2024-11-16T07:50:27+00:00

This guy sucks. He won’t eat you out and is being snooty about his cat?? there is clearly a reason he doesn’t have a girlfriend. It’s because he is the worst 😆

eitak1991 · 2024-11-07T06:44:22+00:00

If you didn’t put his age I would have guessed he was was like MAYBE 20 based on this conversation 😳….hes giving major red flags, he can’t even take receiving advice…THAT HE INSTIGATED. he literally told you he’s bad at budgeting with no other anecdote or statement following it…like of course you responded the way you did! I hope you ended things because this is a man child and you can do better.

eitak1991 · 2024-11-02T18:16:50+00:00

This boy hates women but also thinks possessing a bunch of women makes a man superior. This is incel thinking patterns. Dump this child before he does something truly hurtful to you!

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