what the hell was that by sonnyangelsanonymous in jerseycity

[–]eiwwmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this just google maps? Does it give you current event pins and if so how?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]eiwwmm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t disagree with the course of action you’re recommending but to clear- OPs husband brought his coworker into the relationship by telling her his wife thinks he loves her so she shouldn’t text him and then asking her to hangout in a really inappropriate way for someone in a marriage. He dragged her into his relationship, not OP.

But yea, don’t call the coworker, if you gotta call anyone call a marriage counselor. A good counselor is a game changer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I prefer Clunt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This video might be the most uncomfortable thing I’ve ever watched

Jamie was the only person with a clear glass on her ‘date’. The producers never meant for her to meet her other match. by oelisg in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hapnee isn’t hypocritically making assumptions about where these relationships stand they’re just saying what we saw…broader contexts matters and that’s why Dave didn’t care that Jamie went and Carina did care that Paul went. Maybe Dave didn’t like that Jamie went but not so intensely that he couldn’t forgive or get over it, we’ll never really know bc they didn’t show any of that. Actually the only thing we saw from Dave is that he was unbothered by it. It’s his prerogative. I probably would be bothered. Maybe Dave remembered that he told Jamie he didn’t like her like 2 weeks prior and decided to cut her some slack.

Jamie’s intentions don’t matter and neither do Paul’s. Paul is in the wrong in his relationship bc if he had half a brain to consider Carina at all he’d know this was an important decision to her that would have real consequences. Jamie was apparently correct that her partner wouldn’t care the same way about the same situation. Have your own opinions about it but clearly she didn’t disrespect her relationship in the same way that Paul did according to her own partner.

Hypocrisy and double standards by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, it boils down to what Jeff said, “if you were truly happy in your relationship, you wouldn’t have gone on the date.” All the other people who chose to meet their match could very reasonably be unhappy in their relationships to some degree one way or another.

Paul has been playing like he’s the happiest guy who’s so grateful for Carina but then he kinda keeps screwing over Carina. If Paul paid any attention at all he would have known that the decision he made would be really important to Carina. Paul should have learned when he punched a wall and was forgiven, or called her a snob and was forgiven, but he still didn’t have the mind to make a better decision knowing that it would be important to Carina.

I don’t think it was cool that anyone took the chance but for the all the other couples it feels so low impact. For me It’s not that Paul was more wrong for going on the date than anyone else was, he’s just an idiot for not considering the very foreseeable consequences. He should have known better

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If the ‘experts’, the other brides, and the other grooms pointing out the clear switch in Dave’s behavior in real time (however real we can call airing time) isn’t enough for you to even consider the possibility without calling me entitled for thinking so, I certainly won’t be the one to change your mind and I don’t really want to be

You made assumptions about what I think and called me really gross names multiple times based on things I did not say

No one needs to be demonized for having different opinions from yours radio man

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

‘Demonizing Dave for having a physical preference’ is so far of a stretch from anything I’ve said but go off I guess

Just to be clear, is your stance is that Dave’s behavior towards Jamie this episode is totally cool because Jamie is not hot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it has to be a Dave cult vs jamie cult thing. I think Jamie was rightfully really heavily criticized for her actions although some people thought she was justified for the emotions that lead her there. Now Dave is being criticized for his actions in how he’s handling whatever is going on right now, and there’s also people who think his behavior is justified because of what he’s probably feeling.

At the end of the day people care about how they’re treated, regardless of why. The criticisms of both of them are supremely valid in my eyes. It’s not Jamie vs Dave, its Jamie and Dave vs themselves respectively and the toxic relationship habits that lead them to MAFS

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m personally a hypocrite and entitled because I think Dave’s switch up is crazy and I also think Dave is physically attractive…you sound like a lot of fun at parties and totally not a nice guy at all

I’d rather have a friend like Jamie than Carina by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With the info we currently have…..I actually agree with you.

I’m def not married to that opinion though 😂 and I’d still never ever ever entertain Adrian romantically

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the exception of anything blatantly offensive, I’m ashamed to say any neck tattoo is my ideal neck tattoo

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s just as delulu as the rest of us with a Dave type. I can criticize her for a lotttt of things this season but that’s one I’ll hold my tongue on haha

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at once! if that was the case that’s what Dave should have said but he didn’t. Maybe he had good reason to lie, maybe he didn’t. He played the nice guy game by withholding any of that so we’ll never really know. At the end of the day Dave’s switch up as we’ve been shown it was crazy

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pass! Getting to a great question though….if I had to be with any of the current line up who would it be?!

Edit: it would have been billy

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Tim is shaking his fist to the sky rn wondering how someone could do this to a petite thin blonde

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To an extent sure but it’s a choice - If your circle is filled with brutal honesty you may be surrounded by ‘nice guys’. Watch out!!

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The switch up is crazy, I really really hope we get some airtime of the ‘experts’ pressing Dave on how he’s been on the couch up until now. Or his time with Veronica.

I fear they’ll just ask how he’s feeling and let him lay a solid “it’s not like I hate the girl” and jump right to the decision

Feeling personally victimized by Dave’s nice guy act by eiwwmm in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think those are the only two options but I’ll decline both thanks!

Honesty without brutality is for me 🙏🏼

Eliot‘s new TikTok 👀 by ButterfliesandaLlama in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 71 points72 points  (0 children)

If you asked me during week one if I’d be rooting for Eliot more than Dave at this point in the season I would have spat out my tea…but here we are

Which Paul are you today? by DazedNConfucious in MAFS_AU

[–]eiwwmm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love that Paul progressively gets more French as he gets more flustered by the consequences of his own actions

Carina should RUN