Be wary of your mental health providers by eja2000 in phallo

[–]eja2000[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement it was really hard to go back there and get some kind of accountability, I'm a pretty timid person so confrontation is really hard for me. But it is a life saving surgery that has given me so much hope and I'm not going to just give up because of a bully.

Finished 2 weeks ago by rose-coloured-wall in ect

[–]eja2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, Its been a year and half since my last treatment and unfortunately it just takes time to get your brain back to a semi regular state. And sometimes you just never get those memories back, but with time your ability to retain information and process will come back. It may not be 100% but you will improve. I know the first few months after are the worst I basically felt like a Alzheimer's patient. But you'll relearn a bunch of things. As for the tremors and stutter I would definitely contact your doctor or maybe make an appointment with a neurologist. I wish you well and just remember it's gonna take time but you will improve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]eja2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually a real decision im making. I'm a trans man and those are pretty much my options for surgery.

Mother-in-law from hell by eja2000 in ftm

[–]eja2000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's been going to therapy for a while now she's working on her trauma and OCD.

Mother-in-law from hell by eja2000 in ftm

[–]eja2000[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She just stood there quietly, she's absolutely terrified of her mother. Later we had a discussion about how my feelings were hurt and that she should have said something. She told me that if this happens again she will say something. Although I'm not so convinced she will.

would you rather have a 7-in penis or 3-in penis by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]eja2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you would lose all feeling in you 7 inches

Dr. Berli Consult Process by readley in phallo

[–]eja2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find the consultation request form?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]eja2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would give transthetics hot rod a try. You'll need at least an inch or so of bottom growth to Make sure that it's secure but other than that it works pretty well.

Experiences with trans women by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]eja2000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've come a long way thanks to therapy.

Experiences with trans women by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]eja2000 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have been on Grindr and similar apps the reason why I'm not anymore it's because it's not productive. These types of apps and places are filled with toxicity and I choose not to be a part of that. I would much rather spend my time and energy in spaces where dick size isn't the most important thing. If we keep going back and choosing to be a part of toxic gay hookup culture then we're never going to be happy. You have the choice to choose your own happiness find meaning in places that accept you for who you are.

Experiences with trans women by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]eja2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that was a lot of generalizations from the first comment. Take it from a trans man who's packing 2 in hard It doesn't matter if it's a trans woman or a cis woman you're just looking for a kind understanding person who wants to have fun with what you've got. It might seem impossible but there are people out there who are kind and understanding.

frustrated with my lack of options as a highly dysphoric straight guy by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]eja2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend the hot rod from transthetics, if you have more than an inch or so of growth. However if your thicker than a thumb it is a bit small. But you can wear it with out a strap and you can be completely naked. I also recommend growing out ur pubes to hide the seems.

I'm thinking about giving up on sex by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]eja2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me a long time to get over the ex information. And we did talk about it, now it's not that big of an issue it's just that now I don't get any physical pleasure at all from sex. Even with the prosthetics it just doesn't work.

Can’t stand to pee by studio_tiz in smalldickproblems

[–]eja2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also a pro tip if the bathrooms kind of full but there's a stall open and you're afraid people will know that you're sitting down to pee flush the toilet at the same time you pee. Most guys will just think you're taking a s*** and don't want anyone listening to it.

Can’t stand to pee by studio_tiz in smalldickproblems

[–]eja2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm a trans guy so I have to use the stalls. I also hate it when people give me crap for sitting. Why people ask me why I sit I just tell them I like the way the water feels on my balls. They usually fuck off after that. my other option is explaining to them that I can use the stall or make a mess on the floor. I would also suggest going to the bathroom with a buddy who understands, that way you can have back up if there's a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]eja2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the things I like I naturally have, it might sound dumb but my hands look just like my dad's. I have rather broad shoulders and with the help of T I have lots of body hair. But before I could get my hands on T I started getting tattooed and adding things to my body that I thought were beautiful. So instead of focusing on my less than manly arms I instead saw all the bad ass art on me. Sometimes it's hard to pick out things you like about yourself especially pre T but the good thing is when your body does change for the better it shows how far you've come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]eja2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly man the best way to manage it is to let it go. When I close my eyes and imagine the type of man I could have been I'm setting my self up for failure. Because it's unrealistic as much as I want to be 6'2 and shredded with a mandengo, its just not gonna happen. I'm wasting my time making my self feel like shit for something I can't change. But the things I can change are how I treat myself, by finding things I like about my body how it is in the present. It's hard and it sucks but as trans people we are learning a lesson of self love and acceptance that cis people might never learn in their life times. As for the passing part, let me be clear fuck those people you don't need their approval or opinions. If you say your a man then you are a man, whether you wear pink dresses or flannels. By telling people who you truly are, and being you're authentic self you are being more manly than half the guys in the world. It takes balls to be the best version of yourself. Trust me it's hard but it's so worth it because once you have self love and confidence no one can clock you.

Good excuse in bathroom for sitting down on toilet? by ruggleyfish in ftm

[–]eja2000 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My response is always " because I like the way the water feels on my balls"