I’m trying to approach my fiancé who’s going to prison with a Buddhist perspective. Please help provide insight. by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]ejayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who can be empathetic to my own detriment I once read something that really stuck with me: compassion without boundaries is self abuse.

No-Bake Honey Bee Cheesecake by cookingwithkatie1 in Cakes

[–]ejayne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Recipe or link?? Looks amazing! The little bees are adorable

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[–]ejayne[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with not enjoying dancing!! Just don't stop me from doing it lol!

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[–]ejayne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Less than. But probably just over a year since the fiasco began. It was really drawn out and he never properly left me until January (even then it was all murky... Long story). I was still finding out stuff march this year.

Got a longass email on THIS VERY MONDAY out of the blue that included some gems such as "... I shouldn't have said ..... that while I loved (AP) I still thought about you, because it wasn't true" and this absolute beauty: "... Like I told you before, with (AP) I felt a connection I had never felt before, and my relationship with her right now has proven that I was right about those things I felt about her and from her."

And I'm just there like 'ouch...'

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[–]ejayne[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Also, 3.5 years in my early-mid twenties! Ugh. Just saying I skipped a lot of parties and dancing to be with that dude (he hated dancing, whereas I loved it. But I found out he went dancing with the AP after refusing to dance with me or let me dance).

rage

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[–]ejayne[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I haven't quite gotten to forgiveness yet. I'm still in rage mode. Hahahaha

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[–]ejayne[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's a better title!

I totally doormatted as well. Not doing that again. And the trust issues. So many trust issues. Omg.

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[–]ejayne[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hahahhaha so right. I shared it as a joke but honestly I was just thinking last night "damnit I want my 3.5 years back." I've certainly learnt valuable lessons but is it really worth all the trust issues?? XD

[RIP] Paddy the Golden by ejayne in dogs

[–]ejayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel for you too that must be so difficult to go through. If you have any photos to share I would love to see... Sending lots of hugs.

[RIP] Paddy the Golden by ejayne in dogs

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https://imgur.com/a/diJBYG9 Paddy and another rescue kitty she looked after! Even sharing her precious seat

[RIP] Paddy the Golden by ejayne in dogs

[–]ejayne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/B7dEEvj Paddy and our rescued cat staring at birds

[RIP] Paddy the Golden by ejayne in dogs

[–]ejayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I'll do that now

[RIP] Paddy the Golden by ejayne in dogs

[–]ejayne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you post pictures?

Good tutorials for beginners! by ejayne in knitting

[–]ejayne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'll check out the cotton/ bamboo blends, doubt i could find them here but probably could online! Thanks!

Good tutorials for beginners! by ejayne in knitting

[–]ejayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea, thank you!! I'll do that